The Rabbi
Ep23 - "To Err is Human: Fuck Ups in the Kink World" with Doctor Bubbles and KitKat Ann
The longer one practices kink, the greater the chance that they make a mistake. Mistakes are ok, as long as we learn from them! The best way to learn from our mistakes is to be open and honest about them, understand how they happened, and work to prevent them in the future. We will all share some of the fuck ups we have had in our kink journeys. This is to destigmatize failure as something to be afraid of and realize that failure is the beginning of wisdom, not the end.
Doctor Bubbles and KitKat Ann met at Beyond Vanilla in '18 and found a kindred spirit in each other. Since then they have gone from playmates to best friends, eventually establishing a M/s dynamic and romantic partnership. Their dynamic is based on integrity, trust, respect, growth, balance, and improving the world around them. In '21, they were named the Texas Power Exchange titleholders and became named the '22 International Power Exchange titleholders. They view it as their duty as titleholders to promote positive and healthy power exchange.
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SINagogue hosts and guests are subject matter experts but not *the* expert. We believe outside of violating consent, there's no wrong way to kink except to think your way is the only way. The show is presented from a RACK (Risk-Aware Consentual Kink) point of view, not SSC (Safe Sane Consentual) because each person’s definition of safe is different based on their risk profile. Use of the word "safe" on the show fits our definition, and that doesn't have to be your definition.
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