Host Jake Deptula and former associate family court judge and family law attorney Michele Locke sit down with Lorraine, a narcissistic abuse survivor from episode fifteen of lovelustfear, "You Have To Be Very Careful With Him.” They delve into Lorraine's experience of escaping an abusive relationship with a partner diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder and her legal challenges co-parenting with him. They also examine the significant struggles she faced within the police and court systems, which may have displayed bias and racism, particularly in Family Court. Also, they discuss how the judicial system focuses on child protection and how it sometimes fails to consider the best interests of the abuse victim, emphasizing the urgent need for reform in family courts to provide better support for victims.

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lovelustfridays | Power, Privilege, and Abuse | Fighting Narcissistic Abuse, Racism, and Inequality in Family Court

SEP 26, 202431 MIN
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lovelustfridays | Power, Privilege, and Abuse | Fighting Narcissistic Abuse, Racism, and Inequality in Family Court

SEP 26, 202431 MIN

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<div>Host Jake Deptula and former associate family court judge and family law attorney Michele Locke sit down with Lorraine, a narcissistic abuse survivor from episode fifteen of lovelustfear, "You Have To Be Very Careful With Him.”<br> <br> They delve into Lorraine's experience of escaping an abusive relationship with a partner diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder and her legal challenges co-parenting with him. They also examine the significant struggles she faced within the police and court systems, which may have displayed bias and racism, particularly in Family Court. Also, they discuss how the judicial system focuses on child protection and how it sometimes fails to consider the best interests of the abuse victim, emphasizing the urgent need for reform in family courts to provide better support for victims.<br> <br> topics | toxic relationship, unfair treatment, police, court system, bias, racism, co-parenting, narcissistic ex-partner, self-care, narcissism, white privilege, family court, psychological evaluation, coercive control, court reform, self-discovery, support networks, humor<br> <br> Lorraine - Episode Link<br> "You Have To Be Very Careful With Him.”<br> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear-lorraine-you-have-to-be-very-careful-with-him/id1735876283?i=1000664798749&amp;itscg=30200&amp;itsct=podcast_box&amp;ls=1&amp;mttnsubad=1000664798749">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear-lorraine-you-have-to-be-very-careful-with-him/id1735876283?i=1000664798749&amp;itscg=30200&amp;itsct=podcast_box&amp;ls=1&amp;mttnsubad=1000664798749</a><br> <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/54b3WJWHzDo324QLD2VU1o?si=P9hTAjHKTjW4HV73DUFYsw">https://open.spotify.com/episode/54b3WJWHzDo324QLD2VU1o?si=P9hTAjHKTjW4HV73DUFYsw</a><br> <br> <strong>links</strong><br> <br> <strong>Michele Locke</strong><br> <a href="https://www.michelelocke.com/">https://www.michelelocke.com/</a><br> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/">https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/</a><br> <br> <strong>Lorraine</strong><br> Go Fund Me Page: <a href="https://gofund.me/5bd8a430">https://gofund.me/5bd8a430</a><br> Narcissism The Comedy Night: <br> <a href="https://www.montrealimprov.com/shows/narcissism-a-comedy-night">https://www.montrealimprov.com/shows/narcissism-a-comedy-night</a><br> Narcissism The Improvised Musical: <a href="https://www.montrealimprov.com/shows/narcissism-the-musical-a-fundraising-event">https://www.montrealimprov.com/shows/narcissism-the-musical-a-fundraising-event</a><br> Instagram:<br> <a href="http://www.instagram.com/thestarparentpodcast">www.instagram.com/thestarparentpodcast</a><br> Woman Aware: <br> <a href="https://www.womenaware.ca/">https://www.womenaware.ca/</a><br> Natalie Bedard better known as NatNat<br> Energy Healing Specialist: Regulating the Nervous System and Relieving Emotional and Mental Pain Through Breathwork<br> Website: <a href="http://www.liftoneself.com/">www.LiftOneSelf.com</a><br> IG: <a href="https://instagram.com/liftoneself">Https://instagram.com/liftoneself</a><br> FB: <a href="https://facebook.com/liftoneself">Https://facebook.com/liftoneself</a><br> Podcast:<br> <a href="https://liftoneself.buzzsprout.com/">https://liftoneself.buzzsprout.com</a><br> Youtube:<br> <a href="https://m.youtube.com/@LiftOneSelfPodcast">https://m.youtube.com/@LiftOneSelfPodcast</a><br> <br> National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)<br> Call <a href="http://1.800.799.SAFE">1.800.799.SAFE</a> (7233)<br> Text: START to 88788 <br> <a href="https://www.thehotline.org/">https://www.thehotline.org/</a><br> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline">https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline</a><br> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/">https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/</a><br> <br> <strong>guest + story | submission information </strong><br> <br> If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.<br> <br> E-mail | [email protected]<br> Instagram | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/">https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/</a><br> submission link | <a href="https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear">https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear</a><br> <br> <strong>subscription links</strong><br> <br> Chartable<br> <a href="https://link.chtbl.com/lovelustfear">https://link.chtbl.com/lovelustfear</a><br> Amazon Music<br> <a href="https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfear">https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfear</a><br> Spotify<br> <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec">https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec</a><br> Apple<br> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283</a><br> RSS feed<br> <a href="https://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rss">https://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rss</a><br> <br> Want to hear more? 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