<description>&lt;p&gt;Parul Somani was 31 years old, newly postpartum, and had just brought her baby home from the NICU… when she was diagnosed with aggressive breast cancer. What followed wasn't just a fight for her life; it was a complete unraveling of everything she thought she knew about control, success, and certainty. Because like so many women, Parul had done everything "right", the degrees, the career, the plan. And still, her body told a different story. In this conversation, we talk about what happens when the healthcare system dismisses your instincts, why self-advocacy can be the difference between life and death, and how women are conditioned to question themselves, even when something feels deeply wrong. We also explore the emotional toll of a diagnosis, the power of reclaiming agency in moments of uncertainty, and how Parul transformed one of the hardest chapters of her life into a framework for decision-making, resilience, and meaning. Because this isn't just a story about cancer, it's a story about listening to your body and what it costs when no one else does.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Episode Resources:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://parulsomani.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;parulsomani.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;The Path of Least Regret &lt;/em&gt;(Forbes Books, March 2026) is available on &lt;a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FYMWFWCD/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;Amazon&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-path-of-least-regret-parul-somani/1148640481" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;other major booksellers&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Follow Parul Somani on &lt;a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/pdsomani" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;LinkedIn&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="https://www.instagram.com/pdsomani/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;Instagram&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1982177772?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_WW0H5Q9C6DHNRP1YKCNQ" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;The Pain Gap&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.instagram.com/anushayhossain/?hl=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;Follow Anushay on Instagram&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://littlesaints.com/?utm_source=google&amp;amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;amp;utm_campaign=brand&amp;amp;utm_term=ags&amp;amp;tw_source=google&amp;amp;tw_adid=695845965046&amp;amp;tw_campaign=21058338863&amp;amp;tw_kwdid=kwd-2271907345383&amp;amp;gad_source=1&amp;amp;gad_campaignid=21058338863&amp;amp;gbraid=0AAAAABokWWboHCC-pAK7cdDMZrAkNDjk_&amp;amp;gclid=CjwKCAjwhLPOBhBiEiwA8_wJHBUUfMXtXunwLsV0xuvattkntHRhbHbZkmIDOKvOCvqJ7kGAG1hKwRoC9-IQAvD_BwE" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;Little Saints&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;To learn more about Anushay Hossain's work, check out Anushay's &lt;a href="https://anushayhossain.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;website&lt;/a&gt; or sign up for her &lt;a href="https://anushay.substack.com/?utm_source=substack&amp;amp;utm_medium=web&amp;amp;utm_campaign=substack_profile" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;Substack,&lt;/a&gt; where she writes about women's health, politics, and power. To continue the conversation, feel free to DM @anushayhossain or email me at thepaingap@gmail.com&lt;/p&gt;</description>

The Pain Gap

Anushay Hossain

67. The Path of Least Regret: Making Impossible Decisions When Everything Is Uncertain with Parul Somani

APR 9, 202646 MIN
The Pain Gap

67. The Path of Least Regret: Making Impossible Decisions When Everything Is Uncertain with Parul Somani

APR 9, 202646 MIN

Description

Parul Somani was 31 years old, newly postpartum, and had just brought her baby home from the NICU… when she was diagnosed with aggressive breast cancer. What followed wasn't just a fight for her life; it was a complete unraveling of everything she thought she knew about control, success, and certainty. Because like so many women, Parul had done everything "right", the degrees, the career, the plan. And still, her body told a different story. In this conversation, we talk about what happens when the healthcare system dismisses your instincts, why self-advocacy can be the difference between life and death, and how women are conditioned to question themselves, even when something feels deeply wrong. We also explore the emotional toll of a diagnosis, the power of reclaiming agency in moments of uncertainty, and how Parul transformed one of the hardest chapters of her life into a framework for decision-making, resilience, and meaning. Because this isn't just a story about cancer, it's a story about listening to your body and what it costs when no one else does.Episode Resources:parulsomani.comThe Path of Least Regret (Forbes Books, March 2026) is available on Amazon and other major booksellersFollow Parul Somani on LinkedIn and Instagram The Pain GapFollow Anushay on InstagramLittle SaintsTo learn more about Anushay Hossain's work, check out Anushay's website or sign up for her Substack, where she writes about women's health, politics, and power. To continue the conversation, feel free to DM @anushayhossain or email me at [email protected]