<p>This week&#39;s Reddit Realness hit different 😭🎙️</p><p><br></p><p>A Black woman living abroad finally found someone who felt like home in a foreign country. A man who shared her background, her culture, her world. And then she watched him flirt with another woman. Right in front of her. Repeatedly. Gleefully. 💀 </p><p><br></p><p>When she confronted him he laughed it off. When she went through his phone she found exactly what her gut already knew. His explanation? It was just a joke. Just an ego boost. He was never really interested. 😳</p><p><br></p><p>But here&#39;s the part Steph &amp; Tia cannot move past — the compliments, the excitement, the energy he showed this woman… Was she the punchline the whole time? 👀 And is this just about flirting or is there a much bigger pattern here that needs to be talked about? </p><p><br></p><p>Steph &amp; Tia are giving their most unfiltered verdicts and this one got deep 🎙️ </p><p><br></p><p>Drop your thoughts below 👇Have you ever felt like you were the stable choice while someone else got his best self?</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content:<a href="https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere"> https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere</a></p><p><br></p><p>☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here:<a href="https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere"> https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere</a></p><p><br></p><p>💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere</p><p><br></p><p>📥 Got a dilemma? Send to <a href="mailto:[email protected]">[email protected]</a></p><p><br></p><p>🎧Listen to the podcast:<a href="https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io"> https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io</a></p><p><br></p><p>📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcast">www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcast</a></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Follow us on socials: </p><p><br></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/">https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/</a></p><p><br></p><p>TikTok:<a href="http://tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcast"> tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcast</a></p><p><br></p><p>Twitter:<a href="http://twitter.com/WJGHPodcast"> twitter.com/WJGHPodcast</a></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Steph’s Socials:</p><p><br></p><p>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbu"> https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbu</a></p><p><br></p><p>Twitter:<a href="https://twitter.com/StephAchigbu"> https://twitter.com/StephAchigbu</a></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Tia’s socials: </p><p><br></p><p>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/"> https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/</a></p><p><br></p><p>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts">https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts</a></p>