<p>In this episode of Made Possible by Parenthood, Lindsay and Charlie dive into one of the most quietly exhausting companions of parenthood — perfectionism. But rather than treating it as something to fix, overcome, or engineer out of our lives, they explore what happens when we simply allow it to be known.</p><p>Through honest reflection and personal story, they unpack why perfectionism so often feels slippery — showing up in one area of life just as we think we&#39;ve dealt with it in another — and why the goal was never to get rid of it at all.</p><p>This is a conversation about befriending the parts of ourselves that aren&#39;t going anywhere, and discovering what becomes possible when we stop fighting them.</p><p>Together, Lindsay and Charlie explore:</p><ul><li><p>Why perfectionism is a forever known part of us — and why that&#39;s actually okay</p></li><li><p>How perfectionism can serve us as a resource rather than drain us as a burden</p></li><li><p>The whack-a-mole nature of perfectionism in parenthood — and where it tends to hide</p></li><li><p>The physical and relational experience of being in perfectionism</p></li><li><p>The moth and the flame — why we keep flying toward the light even when we know it might burn us</p></li><li><p>What devotion offers as an alternative orientation to our effort and care</p></li><li><p>How to channel deep caring without being beholden to outcome</p></li></ul><p><em>&quot;It&#39;s not about getting rid of perfectionism. It&#39;s about knowing what to do with it when it shows up.&quot;</em></p><p><br></p>

Made Possible by Parenthood

Charlie Lyons and Lindsay Green

Forever Known: A New Relationship with Perfectionism

JUN 5, 202653 MIN
Made Possible by Parenthood

Forever Known: A New Relationship with Perfectionism

JUN 5, 202653 MIN

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<p>In this episode of Made Possible by Parenthood, Lindsay and Charlie dive into one of the most quietly exhausting companions of parenthood — perfectionism. But rather than treating it as something to fix, overcome, or engineer out of our lives, they explore what happens when we simply allow it to be known.</p><p>Through honest reflection and personal story, they unpack why perfectionism so often feels slippery — showing up in one area of life just as we think we&#39;ve dealt with it in another — and why the goal was never to get rid of it at all.</p><p>This is a conversation about befriending the parts of ourselves that aren&#39;t going anywhere, and discovering what becomes possible when we stop fighting them.</p><p>Together, Lindsay and Charlie explore:</p><ul><li><p>Why perfectionism is a forever known part of us — and why that&#39;s actually okay</p></li><li><p>How perfectionism can serve us as a resource rather than drain us as a burden</p></li><li><p>The whack-a-mole nature of perfectionism in parenthood — and where it tends to hide</p></li><li><p>The physical and relational experience of being in perfectionism</p></li><li><p>The moth and the flame — why we keep flying toward the light even when we know it might burn us</p></li><li><p>What devotion offers as an alternative orientation to our effort and care</p></li><li><p>How to channel deep caring without being beholden to outcome</p></li></ul><p><em>&quot;It&#39;s not about getting rid of perfectionism. It&#39;s about knowing what to do with it when it shows up.&quot;</em></p><p><br></p>