<p><strong>Ever bought something, thinking it would make you happy, only to feel the same—or even worse—a few days later?</strong></p><p>Maybe it was a <strong>bag, a new phone, a vacation, or even a big career win</strong>. And for a moment, it felt amazing—like you finally <em>arrived</em>.</p><p>But then… the excitement fades. You’re left looking for the <strong>next thing.</strong></p><p>In this episode, we’re breaking down:<br>✔️ <strong>Why external things can’t bring lasting happiness</strong><br>✔️ <strong>The brain’s sneaky trick that keeps us chasing ‘more’</strong><br>✔️ <strong>What actually creates fulfillment (hint: it’s not in your shopping cart)</strong></p><p>And <strong>no</strong>, I’m not going to tell you to <strong>sell all your stuff and go meditate in a cave</strong>.</p><p>Instead, we’re diving into <strong>tiny, powerful shifts you can make right now</strong> to feel <strong>more joy, without needing to earn it or buy it.</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>In This Episode, You’ll Learn:</strong></p><p>✨ <strong>The “Happiness Hangover” Effect</strong>—why the thrill of buying fades so fast<br>🧠 <strong>How your brain tricks you into believing ‘the next thing’ will finally satisfy you</strong><br>💡 <strong>Why experiences create longer-lasting happiness than things</strong><br>🌱 <strong>How to stop chasing happiness and start creating it daily</strong><br>👣 <strong>6 small but powerful ways to feel more fulfilled today</strong></p><p>🎧 <strong>Hit play now to learn how to step off the never-ending “more, more, more” treadmill and into lasting joy.</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><p>💥 <strong>Happiness isn’t in the purchase—it’s in how you experience life.</strong><br>The excitement you feel before buying something? <strong>That’s the real happiness.</strong> The object itself? Just a symbol.</p><p>💡 <strong>Your brain is wired to keep chasing.</strong><br>Hedonic adaptation means that <strong>no matter how big the win, it eventually becomes your new normal.</strong> This is why the next thing never feels <em>enough.</em></p><p>🌿 <strong>Experiences &gt; Stuff.</strong><br>A designer bag won’t change you—but <strong>a deep conversation, a new skill, or a wild adventure?</strong> Those shape who you are.</p><p>🎯 <strong>You don’t need to “earn” joy.</strong><br>Tiny moments—<strong>sipping your coffee slowly, stretching, playing your favorite song—can bring just as much happiness as a luxury vacation.</strong></p><p>✨ <strong>The key to fulfillment isn’t achieving more—it’s savoring more.</strong><br>You don’t need more, you need to <em>fully experience</em> what’s already here.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Practical Steps to Apply This Daily</strong></p><p>1️⃣ <strong>Mini Joy Audit</strong> – Write down 3 things that bring you joy and do them <strong>without needing to “deserve” it.</strong><br>2️⃣ <strong>Savoring Instead of Seeking</strong> – Pause and actually <em>feel</em> the good moments in your day. <strong>Happiness isn’t missing—we just rush past it.</strong><br>3️⃣ <strong>Catch the Chase</strong> – Next time you’re about to buy something for happiness, <strong>pause and ask: What feeling am I actually craving?</strong><br>4️⃣ <strong>Move Your Body, Shift Your Energy</strong> – Joy isn’t just mental—it’s <strong>physical</strong>. Stretch, dance, breathe deeply—<strong>feel your way into joy.</strong><br>5️⃣ <strong>Trade More for Meaning</strong> – Instead of collecting things, <strong>invest in experiences, connection, and creativity.</strong> These last <em>way</em> longer.<br>6️⃣ <strong>Be Where You Are</strong> – Joy lives <strong>right now</strong>, not in your next milestone. <strong>Taste it. Feel it. Let it be enough.</strong></p><p>🎧 <strong>Try one of these today and let me know how it feels!</strong></p><p><strong>FAQ: Your Questions Answered</strong></p><p><strong>Q: Does this mean I should stop buying things that make me happy?</strong><br><strong>Q: I love the feeling of buying something new—but how come I’m never satisfied?</strong><br><strong>Q: I love the feeling of buying something new—how do I get that same joy without shopping?</strong><br><strong>Q: What if I feel like I need external things to “treat myself” after working hard?</strong><br><a href="www.igniteyouraliveness.com/ep11" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"><br></a></p><p>Letting happiness in <strong>now</strong>—instead of postponing it for a purchase—changes everything.</p><p><br></p><p>✨ FREE GUIDE - <a href="https://igniteyouraliveness.com/reconnectnow/">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠5 Ways to Reconnect to yourself Daily⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>✨ Let’s keep the conversation going on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ines_embodiment_coach/">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram</a></p>

Embodied Living

Ines Bouyaqba

# 11 - Why Buying Happiness Doesn’t Work (and What Does)

APR 4, 202523 MIN
Embodied Living

# 11 - Why Buying Happiness Doesn’t Work (and What Does)

APR 4, 202523 MIN

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<p><strong>Ever bought something, thinking it would make you happy, only to feel the same—or even worse—a few days later?</strong></p><p>Maybe it was a <strong>bag, a new phone, a vacation, or even a big career win</strong>. And for a moment, it felt amazing—like you finally <em>arrived</em>.</p><p>But then… the excitement fades. You’re left looking for the <strong>next thing.</strong></p><p>In this episode, we’re breaking down:<br>✔️ <strong>Why external things can’t bring lasting happiness</strong><br>✔️ <strong>The brain’s sneaky trick that keeps us chasing ‘more’</strong><br>✔️ <strong>What actually creates fulfillment (hint: it’s not in your shopping cart)</strong></p><p>And <strong>no</strong>, I’m not going to tell you to <strong>sell all your stuff and go meditate in a cave</strong>.</p><p>Instead, we’re diving into <strong>tiny, powerful shifts you can make right now</strong> to feel <strong>more joy, without needing to earn it or buy it.</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>In This Episode, You’ll Learn:</strong></p><p>✨ <strong>The “Happiness Hangover” Effect</strong>—why the thrill of buying fades so fast<br>🧠 <strong>How your brain tricks you into believing ‘the next thing’ will finally satisfy you</strong><br>💡 <strong>Why experiences create longer-lasting happiness than things</strong><br>🌱 <strong>How to stop chasing happiness and start creating it daily</strong><br>👣 <strong>6 small but powerful ways to feel more fulfilled today</strong></p><p>🎧 <strong>Hit play now to learn how to step off the never-ending “more, more, more” treadmill and into lasting joy.</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><p>💥 <strong>Happiness isn’t in the purchase—it’s in how you experience life.</strong><br>The excitement you feel before buying something? <strong>That’s the real happiness.</strong> The object itself? Just a symbol.</p><p>💡 <strong>Your brain is wired to keep chasing.</strong><br>Hedonic adaptation means that <strong>no matter how big the win, it eventually becomes your new normal.</strong> This is why the next thing never feels <em>enough.</em></p><p>🌿 <strong>Experiences &gt; Stuff.</strong><br>A designer bag won’t change you—but <strong>a deep conversation, a new skill, or a wild adventure?</strong> Those shape who you are.</p><p>🎯 <strong>You don’t need to “earn” joy.</strong><br>Tiny moments—<strong>sipping your coffee slowly, stretching, playing your favorite song—can bring just as much happiness as a luxury vacation.</strong></p><p>✨ <strong>The key to fulfillment isn’t achieving more—it’s savoring more.</strong><br>You don’t need more, you need to <em>fully experience</em> what’s already here.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Practical Steps to Apply This Daily</strong></p><p>1️⃣ <strong>Mini Joy Audit</strong> – Write down 3 things that bring you joy and do them <strong>without needing to “deserve” it.</strong><br>2️⃣ <strong>Savoring Instead of Seeking</strong> – Pause and actually <em>feel</em> the good moments in your day. <strong>Happiness isn’t missing—we just rush past it.</strong><br>3️⃣ <strong>Catch the Chase</strong> – Next time you’re about to buy something for happiness, <strong>pause and ask: What feeling am I actually craving?</strong><br>4️⃣ <strong>Move Your Body, Shift Your Energy</strong> – Joy isn’t just mental—it’s <strong>physical</strong>. Stretch, dance, breathe deeply—<strong>feel your way into joy.</strong><br>5️⃣ <strong>Trade More for Meaning</strong> – Instead of collecting things, <strong>invest in experiences, connection, and creativity.</strong> These last <em>way</em> longer.<br>6️⃣ <strong>Be Where You Are</strong> – Joy lives <strong>right now</strong>, not in your next milestone. <strong>Taste it. Feel it. Let it be enough.</strong></p><p>🎧 <strong>Try one of these today and let me know how it feels!</strong></p><p><strong>FAQ: Your Questions Answered</strong></p><p><strong>Q: Does this mean I should stop buying things that make me happy?</strong><br><strong>Q: I love the feeling of buying something new—but how come I’m never satisfied?</strong><br><strong>Q: I love the feeling of buying something new—how do I get that same joy without shopping?</strong><br><strong>Q: What if I feel like I need external things to “treat myself” after working hard?</strong><br><a href="www.igniteyouraliveness.com/ep11" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"><br></a></p><p>Letting happiness in <strong>now</strong>—instead of postponing it for a purchase—changes everything.</p><p><br></p><p>✨ FREE GUIDE - <a href="https://igniteyouraliveness.com/reconnectnow/">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠5 Ways to Reconnect to yourself Daily⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>✨ Let’s keep the conversation going on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ines_embodiment_coach/">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram</a></p>