If you grew up with a parent who had narcissistic or borderline traits, chances are no one ever showed you what being an emotionally healthy adult actually looks like. In this episode, I’m breaking down why healing feels so confusing, messy, and unclear and what you actually need in order to move forward. We’re talking about: Why “I don’t want to be like them” isn’t enough to create healthy change The skills cycle breakers were never taught growing up How dysfunctional family systems create blind spots What it actually takes to break the cycle I’m also walking you through the exact framework I use inside The Cycle Breaker’s Vault so you can see what a real, practical roadmap looks like. Show Notes: Get started with The Cycle Breaker's Vault: https://www.confidentboundaries.com/offers/goeNciz9/checkout Subscribe to You're Not Crazy: The Private Feed: https://www.confidentboundaries.com/private  Learn more about therapy with Torie: https://toriewikselltherapy.com/  Follow Torie on Social: https://www.instagram.com/cyclebreakertherapist https://www.tiktok.com/@cyclebreakertherapist Support the showA huge thank you to our podcast sponsors!Disclaimer: This podcast is not therapy. If you’re in crisis, please call the 988 Crisis Lifeline.You're Not Crazy is owned and produced by Torie Wiksell and Confident Boundaries, LLC.