In this episode, I walk you through: What patterns are common in narcissistic vs. borderline personality disorder Why the diagnosis itself isn’t what matters most What it feels like to grow up as a child dealing with a parent with these dynamics The key differences in behavior, motivation, and emotional impact Why these relationships feel so confusing, intense, and destabilizing We also talk about emotional volatility, lack of empathy, and why being emotionally vulnerable with these parents isn’t a good idea. Show Notes: Get started with The Cycle Breaker's Vault: https://www.confidentboundaries.com/offers/goeNciz9/checkout Subscribe to You're Not Crazy: The Private Feed: https://www.confidentboundaries.com/private  Learn more about therapy with Torie: https://toriewikselltherapy.com/  Follow Torie on Social: https://www.instagram.com/cyclebreakertherapist https://www.tiktok.com/@cyclebreakertherapist Support the showA huge thank you to our podcast sponsors!Disclaimer: This podcast is not therapy. If you’re in crisis, please call the 988 Crisis Lifeline.You're Not Crazy is owned and produced by Torie Wiksell and Confident Boundaries, LLC.