Mom's Guide to Finding Herself: Side Hustles, Hobbies, and Surviving While Parenting Young Children
Mom's Guide to Finding Herself: Side Hustles, Hobbies, and Surviving While Parenting Young Children

Mom's Guide to Finding Herself: Side Hustles, Hobbies, and Surviving While Parenting Young Children

Krissy Bold

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Have you ever looked in the mirror after another exhausting day and thought, “When did I stop being ME and become just MOM?” Your passions, hobbies, and friendships feel so distant, buried beneath sleepless nights and the never-ending to-do lists of raising young children.

I get it. I’ve been there too. As a mom of two young kids, I’ve experienced the frustration of losing myself in the chaos of motherhood. I know how overwhelming it can be to find time for yourself, meet other moms, find a supportive mom community, and even entertain the idea of starting a side hustle, creative project, or small business. That’s why I created this podcast—to help moms like us rediscover who we are and take the first steps toward meaningful change.

Hi, I’m Krissy. I’m a former teacher and teacher coach who has always embraced new opportunities and juggled multiple side gigs. Over the past four years, I’ve been on a journey to rediscover my identity beyond motherhood—and I’ve finally figured it out. Along the way, I’ve helped other moms reconnect with their passions, explore creative ideas, and build meaningful connections with other moms by helping them create practical, realistic plans to rediscover their identities—even through the chaos and busyness of parenting. Whether you’re looking for ideas for mom entrepreneurs, tips on balancing parenting and being a mompreneur, inspiration to take that first step, or simply love hearing stories of moms navigating motherhood and building something extraordinary, this podcast is your guide to rediscovering yourself and creating something amazing.

In this podcast, you’ll hear honest, relatable stories from moms just like you—women who’ve navigated the challenges of parenting, discovered new passions, built businesses, and launched side hustles. Each episode offers practical self-care advice, uplifting moments, and fresh ideas to help you take small steps toward rediscovering yourself. You’ll find inspiration and support for all the mom guilt, parenting challenges, and the struggle to balance personal development. The demands of family life can leave you feeling lost in the midst of motherhood challenges. It’s time to take control of your personal growth and find ways to prioritize self-care for moms like us.

Whether you’re lost in a mountain of diapers or longing for hope and connection, each episode will leave you feeling seen, inspired, and supported on your motherhood journey.

Recent Episodes

35 5 Mom Friendly Side Hustles and Hobbies I've Tried - And How You Can Too!
APR 7, 2025
35 5 Mom Friendly Side Hustles and Hobbies I've Tried - And How You Can Too!
<p>Are you tired of your identity revolving around snacks, tantrums, and bedtime battles?</p><p>You’re not alone!</p><p>Motherhood can sometimes feel like an all-consuming role, leaving little room for your own passions and interests. <strong>But it doesn't have to be that way.</strong></p><p><strong>Inside this episode, you're going to learn:</strong></p><ul><li>How to find a side hustle that fits your busy mom life.</li><li>Why starting small is key to avoiding overwhelm.</li><li>How to experiment with different side hustles without guilt.</li><li>Why it's okay to pivot if something doesn't feel right.</li><li>How to balance your side hustle with your family responsibilities.</li></ul><p><strong>Next Episode:</strong> If you're feeling isolated or lonely in motherhood, the next episode is for you.</p><p><strong>Want to jumpstart your journey to rediscovering your passions and spark new ones?</strong></p><p><strong>Download the Mom Identity Jumpstart Guide.</strong> <strong>Get access here:</strong> <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://momidentityproject.kit.com/jumpstart">https://momidentityproject.kit.com/jumpstart</a></p><p>00:36 The Struggle of Losing Identity</p><p>01:49 Starting Small: Experimenting with Hobbies</p><p>03:37 Avoiding Common Pitfalls</p><p>06:38 Book Club Journey</p><p>09:38 Designing Kids Activities</p><p>12:18 Social Media and Content Creation</p><p>16:02 Podcasting: Sharing and Learning</p><p>Mentioned in this Episode: Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself by Dr. Morgan Cutlip <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://amzn.to/3D4KO1a">https://amzn.to/3D4KO1a</a></p><p>Love this show?<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/moms-guide-to-finding-herself-side-hustles-hobbies/id1762711233"> <strong>Write a 5-star review</strong></a> — even one sentence ensures we keep bringing you the content you want to hear.</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://momidentityproject.com/support">Support the show</a> to help keep episodes like this coming!</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://momidentityproject.com/mip/podcast">Have a question or a story you want me to share on air? Leave me a 90 second or less voice message!</a></p><p>Need some support reconnecting with yourself after becoming a mom?<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://calendar.app.google/4misG68hJzJKny9k9"> Book a Free Discovery Call</a> to see if my services are the right fit for you.</p><p><strong>LEARN MORE FROM KRISSY BOLD:</strong></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.momidentityproject.com/boldlittleminds"><strong>WEBSITE</strong></a> |<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/momidentityproject"> <strong>INSTAGRAM</strong></a>|<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558868559928"> <strong>FACEBOOK</strong></a><strong> |</strong><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@momidentityproject"><strong> TIKTOK</strong></a><strong> |</strong><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@MomIdentityProject"><strong> YOUTUBE</strong></a></p>
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19 MIN
34 Moms Are Drowning in the Mental Load— How to Stop Carrying It Alone with Dr. Morgan Cutlip
MAR 31, 2025
34 Moms Are Drowning in the Mental Load— How to Stop Carrying It Alone with Dr. Morgan Cutlip
<p>You're not alone if you feel like you are drowning in motherhood. It's not because you're incapable or failing; it's the weight of the never-ending to-do list.</p><p>It's not just about who does the dishes or puts the kids to bed. It's the invisible labor of planning, organizing, anticipating, and emotionally buffering every situation.</p><p><strong>Inside this episode, you’ll learn:</strong></p><ul><li>What the mental load is and why women tend to carry the bulk of it.</li><li>How the mental load impacts our mental health and relationships.</li><li>Strategies from Dr. Morgan Cutlip for discussing the mental load with your partner and creating a better share.</li><li>Tips for bringing fun and play back into your relationship.</li></ul><p>01:50 Understanding the Mental Load</p><p>02:18 Dr. Morgan Cutlip's Expertise</p><p>04:02 Defining the Mental Load</p><p>05:29 The Triple Threat of Tasks</p><p>09:54 Mental Load and Mental Health</p><p>12:52 Managing Willpower and Avoiding Burnout</p><p>18:22 Effective Communication with Your Partner</p><p>25:30 Bringing Fun Back into Relationships</p><p>When you finish listening, I'd love to hear your biggest takeaway from today’s episode. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me,<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/momidentityproject"> <strong>@momidentityproject</strong></a>!</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://momidentityproject.com/support">Support the show</a> to help keep episodes like this coming!</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.momidentityproject.com/mip/podcast">Have a question or a story you want me to share on air? Leave me a 90 second or less voice message!</a></p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH DR. MORGAN CUTLIP:</strong></p><p>Website: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://DrMorganCutlip.com">DrMorganCutlip.com</a></p><p>Instagram: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/drmorgancutlip/">@DrMorganCutlip</a></p><p>Find Her Books:</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://amzn.to/4iL482E">Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself by Dr. Morgan Cutlip</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://amzn.to/3Ft5T6l">A Better Share : How Couples Tackle the Mental Load (pre-order)</a></p><p><strong>LEARN MORE FROM KRISSY BOLD:</strong></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.momidentityproject.com/boldlittleminds"><strong>WEBSITE</strong></a> | <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/momidentityproject"><strong>INSTAGRAM</strong></a><strong> </strong>| <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558868559928"><strong>FACEBOOK</strong></a><strong> | </strong><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@momidentityproject"><strong>TIKTOK</strong></a><strong> | </strong><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@MomIdentityProject"><strong>YOUTUBE</strong></a></p>
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29 MIN
Mom Mentor Moment 2: When a Successful Side Hustle Requires You to Pivot with Shay
MAR 27, 2025
Mom Mentor Moment 2: When a Successful Side Hustle Requires You to Pivot with Shay
<p><strong>Have you ever had a dream of starting a business but weren't sure how to get there?</strong></p><p>Today we share the story of a mom who started her own small business from scratch but isn't quite sure what the next step is. We'll work together to come up with some exciting ideas for her next steps, focusing on her goals for her family and business. </p><p>If you've got a great thing going but it's not quite fitting into your life the way you want, you’re in the right place. </p><p>Inside this episode, you'll learn:</p><ul><li>How to pivot your business to better fit your life </li><li>Why it’s important to have a backup plan for your business </li><li>Creative ways to connect with your customers (even when you can’t be there in person!)</li></ul><p>Want to start your own hobby or side hustle? <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://calendar.app.google/4misG68hJzJKny9k9">Schedule a free 15 minute call with me</a> to learn how we can work together.</p><p>01:18 Challenges and Coaching: Finding the Next Steps</p><p>02:26 Balancing Family and Business: Shay's Busy Life</p><p>03:46 Business Growth and Overcoming Setbacks</p><p>07:29 Health Concerns: The Impact of Resin Sensitivity</p><p>11:32 Future Goals: Classes, Products, and Digital Projects</p><p>13:30 Creative Solutions: Expanding Beyond Resin</p><p>When you finish listening, I'd love to hear your biggest takeaway from today’s episode. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me,<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/momidentityproject"> <strong>@momidentityproject</strong></a>!</p><p>While you’re there, make sure you follow me<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/momidentityproject"> <strong>on Instagram</strong></a> so you can see behind the scenes how I help moms rediscover their identity &amp; passions and find out how you can, too.</p><p>Like this show? Pay it forward and share it with a friend.</p><p>Love this show?<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/moms-guide-to-finding-herself-side-hustles-hobbies/id1762711233"> <strong>Write a 5-star review</strong></a> — even one sentence ensures we keep bringing you the content you want to hear.</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://momidentityproject.com/support">Support the show</a> to help keep episodes like this coming!</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://momidentityproject.com/podcast">Have a question or a story you want me to share on air? Leave me a 90 second or less voice message!</a></p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH SHAY:</strong></p><p>Instagram <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/sensoryseekingkids/">@SensorySeekingKids</a></p><p><strong>LEARN MORE FROM KRISSY BOLD:</strong></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.momidentityproject.com/boldlittleminds"><strong>WEBSITE</strong></a> | <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/momidentityproject"><strong>INSTAGRAM</strong></a><strong> </strong>| <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558868559928"><strong>FACEBOOK</strong></a><strong> | </strong><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@momidentityproject"><strong>TIKTOK</strong></a><strong> | </strong><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@MomIdentityProject"><strong>YOUTUBE</strong></a></p>
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24 MIN
33 When Motherhood Changes You, But Not Your Partner with Dr. Morgan Cutlip
MAR 24, 2025
33 When Motherhood Changes You, But Not Your Partner with Dr. Morgan Cutlip
<p>Have you ever felt like motherhood completely changed your life while your partner's stayed pretty much the same?</p><p>Are you running on empty, doing everything in the daily grind, and losing yourself in the process?<strong> </strong>You're told to soak up every moment, but what about when you don't even feel like a person anymore? Many women feel motherhood changes everything, and no one prepares them for just how much of themselves they’re going to lose in the process.</p><p>Inside this episode, you’re going to learn:</p><ul><li>How psychologist and relationship expert Dr. Morgan Cutlip also felt this way</li><li>How she reclaimed her identity even when she was in the thick of it</li><li>That motherhood is supposed to be transformative, triggering examination of who we are and how we show up</li><li>It’s normal to take several years to feel whole again, even for experts</li></ul><p>04:23 Dr. Morgan's Personal Journey</p><p>05:09 The Early Days of Motherhood</p><p>08:44 Navigating the Challenges of New Motherhood</p><p>13:57 The Roots of Resentment</p><p>14:35 Navigating Early Parenthood Challenges</p><p>15:10 The Ideal Mom vs. Reality</p><p>15:41 Motherhood Influences and Expectations</p><p>16:55 Struggles with Early Motherhood</p><p>18:13 Transitioning to a Second Child</p><p>20:11 Understanding De-Selfing in Motherhood</p><p>22:11 Rediscovering Self and Balance</p><p>Want to create more fairness and less resentment in your relationship? You’ll want to tune into the next episode where Dr. Morgan comes back to share about her book <em>A Better Share</em> and how to address the mental load with your partner while bringing back the fun.</p><p>When you finish listening, I'd love to hear your biggest takeaway from today’s episode. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me,<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/momidentityproject"> <strong>@momidentityproject</strong></a>!</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://momidentityproject.com/support">Support the show</a> to help keep episodes like this coming!</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.momidentityproject.com/mip/podcast">Have a question or a story you want me to share on air? Leave me a 90 second or less voice message!</a></p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH DR. MORGAN CUTLIP:</strong></p><p>Website: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://DrMorganCutlip.com">DrMorganCutlip.com</a></p><p>Instagram: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/drmorgancutlip/">@DrMorganCutlip</a></p><p>Find Her Books:</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://amzn.to/4iL482E">Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself by Dr. Morgan Cutlip</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://amzn.to/3Ft5T6l">A Better Share : How Couples Tackle the Mental Load (pre-order)</a></p><p><strong>LEARN MORE FROM KRISSY BOLD:</strong></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.momidentityproject.com/boldlittleminds"><strong>WEBSITE</strong></a> | <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/momidentityproject"><strong>INSTAGRAM</strong></a>| <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558868559928"><strong>FACEBOOK</strong></a><strong> | </strong><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@momidentityproject"><strong>TIKTOK</strong></a><strong> | </strong><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@MomIdentityProject"><strong>YOUTUBE</strong></a></p>
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25 MIN
32 What Type of Mom Are You, and Does it Matter?
MAR 17, 2025
32 What Type of Mom Are You, and Does it Matter?
<p>Have you ever felt like the mom you thought you'd be is totally different from the mom you actually are? Like you had this vision in your head, and then reality hit? You're not alone. </p><p>In this episode, I'm going to share why so many of us feel like we are failing at motherhood simply because we don't fit into a vision that we once had about the kind of mom we thought we'd be. We'll explore the pressure to conform to certain "mom types" and why it's so important to let go of that guilt and embrace the mom you actually are. </p><p><strong>BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Why we often feel like we're failing at motherhood when we don't meet our own expectations. </strong></li><li><strong>The different types of moms out there and why there's no one "right" way to be a mom. </strong></li><li><strong>How to grieve the vision of motherhood that you once had and move towards real acceptance. </strong></li></ul><p><strong>00:00 Introduction: The Mom You Thought You'd Be vs. Reality</strong></p><p><strong>00:42 The Vision of Motherhood Before Becoming a Mom</strong></p><p><strong>01:15 The Reality Check: When Expectations Meet Reality</strong></p><p><strong>02:06 The Emotional Impact of Unmet Expectations</strong></p><p><strong>04:37 Understanding the Source of Pressure and Shame</strong></p><p><strong>07:52 Grieving the Vision and Embracing Reality</strong></p><p><strong>09:44 Conclusion: Embracing Your Unique Motherhood Journey</strong></p><p>When you finish listening, I'd love to hear your biggest takeaway from today’s episode. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me,<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/momidentityproject"> <strong>@momidentityproject</strong></a>!</p><p>While you’re there, make sure you follow me<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/momidentityproject"> <strong>on Instagram</strong></a> so you can see behind the scenes how I help moms rediscover their identity &amp; passions and find out how you can, too.</p><p>Love this show?<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/moms-guide-to-finding-herself-side-hustles-hobbies/id1762711233"> <strong>Write a 5-star review</strong></a> — even one sentence ensures we keep bringing you the content you want to hear.</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://momidentityproject.com/support">Support the show</a> to help keep episodes like this coming!</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://momidentityproject.com/podcast">Have a question or a story you want me to share on air? Leave me a 90 second or less voice message!</a></p><p>Need some support reconnecting with yourself after becoming a mom?<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://calendar.app.google/4misG68hJzJKny9k9"> Book a Free Discovery Call</a> to see if my services are the right fit for you.</p><p><strong>LEARN MORE FROM KRISSY BOLD:</strong></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.momidentityproject.com/boldlittleminds"><strong>WEBSITE</strong></a> |<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/momidentityproject"> <strong>INSTAGRAM</strong></a>|<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558868559928"> <strong>FACEBOOK</strong></a><strong> |</strong><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@momidentityproject"><strong> TIKTOK</strong></a><strong> |</strong><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@MomIdentityProject"><strong> YOUTUBE</strong></a></p>
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10 MIN