In this Chainbreaker episode, we confront a pattern that is far more common than most men want to admit they engage in on their sexual addiction recovery journey. It is the act of approaching mentors, coaches, partners, and support spaces under the guise of wanting help, while secretly protecting the very behaviors that keep them stuck. Many men enter healing spaces without the mindset required for real transformation. They arrive with chaos, denial, defensiveness, and ego; and when boundaries are set and when someone in the space dares to challenge the man&apos;s dysfunctional patterns, these men interpret accountability as an attack. Instead of receiving guidance, they create disorder, lash out at the person trying to help them, and sabotage the very healing process that they claim to desire.This episode draws a hard line. It teaches men that genuine recovery requires humility, emotional responsibility, and a willingness to be led. Manipulation, tantrums (also known as man-trums), and resistance are not signs of someone seeking healing. They are, instead, signs of a man who is trying to retain control while pretending to grow. Here, listeners will learn why these patterns destroy opportunities for change, why helpers must refuse to absorb men’s emotional messes, and what true readiness for transformation actually looks like. For those who sincerely want to break their chains, this message is a mirror and a wake-up call: you cannot heal while fighting the hand that is trying to help pull you out of the mess that you are in.Break the chains of sex, porn, and masturbation addiction today! <a href='https://www.AlisaCoaches.com'>www.AlisaCoaches.com</a>

<description>&lt;p&gt;In this Chainbreaker episode, we confront a pattern that is far more common than most men want to admit they engage in on their sexual addiction recovery journey. It is the act of approaching mentors, coaches, partners, and support spaces under the guise of wanting help, while secretly protecting the very behaviors that keep them stuck. Many men enter healing spaces without the mindset required for real transformation. They arrive with chaos, denial, defensiveness, and ego; and when boundaries are set and when someone in the space dares to challenge the man&amp;apos;s dysfunctional patterns, these men interpret accountability as an attack. Instead of receiving guidance, they create disorder, lash out at the person trying to help them, and sabotage the very healing process that they claim to desire.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This episode draws a hard line. It teaches men that genuine recovery requires humility, emotional responsibility, and a willingness to be led. Manipulation, tantrums (also known as man-trums), and resistance are not signs of someone seeking healing. They are, instead, signs of a man who is trying to retain control while pretending to grow. Here, listeners will learn why these patterns destroy opportunities for change, why helpers must refuse to absorb men’s emotional messes, and what true readiness for transformation actually looks like. For those who sincerely want to break their chains, this message is a mirror and a wake-up call: you cannot heal while fighting the hand that is trying to help pull you out of the mess that you are in.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Break the chains of sex, porn, and masturbation addiction today!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.AlisaCoaches.com'&gt;&lt;b&gt;www.AlisaCoaches.com&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

In this Chainbreaker episode, we confront a pattern that is far more common than most men want to admit they engage in on their sexual addiction recovery journey. It is the act of approaching mentors, coaches, partners, and support spaces under the guise of wanting help, while secretly protecting the very behaviors that keep them stuck. Many men enter healing spaces without the mindset required for real transformation. They arrive with chaos, denial, defensiveness, and ego; and when boundarie...

E35: I'm Trying To Get Help (Why Won't You Let Me Manipulate You?)

In this episode of The Chainbreaker Podcast, we take a hard, honest look at why so many men stay stuck in their sexual addiction cycles even while appearing to “do the work.” Too many men show up, participate in groups, talk a good game, read the books, or exchange casual check-ins with accountability partners, yet never touch the wounded, neglected, or underdeveloped parts of themselves that actually require healing. This episode calls out the illusion of progress—the busy work that consumes time but produces no transformation. Men learn that their recovery stalls because they avoid the truth about themselves: the loneliness, the immaturity, the emotional fragmentation, and the places where they have simply not grown up.We dig into the fact that hiding, running, gaslighting, and operating from a “we will see what happens” mentality are not strategies; they are symptoms of resistance. Real healing begins only when a man names what is broken and actively confronts it. This episode challenges listeners to abandon passivity and step into intentional self-examination. It is a direct invitation to stop wasting time, to stop performing recovery, and to start doing the internal work that restores integrity, identity, and direction.Break the chains of sex, porn, and masturbation addiction today! <a href='https://www.AlisaCoaches.com'>www.AlisaCoaches.com</a>

<description>&lt;p&gt;In this episode of &lt;em&gt;The Chainbreaker Podcast&lt;/em&gt;, we take a hard, honest look at why so many men stay stuck in their sexual addiction cycles even while appearing to “do the work.” Too many men show up, participate in groups, talk a good game, read the books, or exchange casual check-ins with accountability partners, yet never touch the wounded, neglected, or underdeveloped parts of themselves that actually require healing. This episode calls out the illusion of progress—the busy work that consumes time but produces no transformation. Men learn that their recovery stalls because they avoid the truth about themselves: the loneliness, the immaturity, the emotional fragmentation, and the places where they have simply not grown up.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We dig into the fact that hiding, running, gaslighting, and operating from a “we will see what happens” mentality are not strategies; they are symptoms of resistance. Real healing begins only when a man names what is broken and actively confronts it. This episode challenges listeners to abandon passivity and step into intentional self-examination. It is a direct invitation to stop wasting time, to stop performing recovery, and to start doing the internal work that restores integrity, identity, and direction.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Break the chains of sex, porn, and masturbation addiction today!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.AlisaCoaches.com'&gt;&lt;b&gt;www.AlisaCoaches.com&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

In this episode of The Chainbreaker Podcast, we take a hard, honest look at why so many men stay stuck in their sexual addiction cycles even while appearing to “do the work.” Too many men show up, participate in groups, talk a good game, read the books, or exchange casual check-ins with accountability partners, yet never touch the wounded, neglected, or underdeveloped parts of themselves that actually require healing. This episode calls out the illusion of progress—the busy work that consumes...

E34: You Can't Heal What You Refuse To Acknowledge

In this episode of Chainbreaker, we go beyond surface-level recovery to uncover the deeper truth: real healing doesn’t come from denying your sexual urges or running from temptation — it comes from transforming desire itself. Many men try to “white-knuckle” their way through addiction, believing that self-control alone will save them. However, denial only feeds the shadows. True recovery begins when you stop hiding from your desire and start understanding it.In this episode, I will help the listener to understand how to face sexual addiction, not fear it — how to walk out the same way you walked in, but this time with awareness, humility, and a new direction. You’ll learn what it means to shift from behavior management to soul transformation — where your desires are no longer your master, but your teachers. This is the stage of recovery where you stop fighting the addiction and start evolving beyond it.This episode is for the man who has already done the groundwork — the one ready to move past avoidance and into genuine transformation. If you’ve built your foundation and you’re ready to become a different kind of man, this message will meet you exactly where you are.Break the chains of sex, porn, and masturbation addiction today! <a href='https://www.AlisaCoaches.com'>www.AlisaCoaches.com</a>

<description>&lt;p&gt;In this episode of &lt;em&gt;Chainbreaker&lt;/em&gt;, we go beyond surface-level recovery to uncover the deeper truth: real healing doesn’t come from denying your sexual urges or running from temptation — it comes from transforming desire itself. Many men try to “white-knuckle” their way through addiction, believing that self-control alone will save them. However, denial only feeds the shadows. True recovery begins when you stop hiding from your desire and start understanding it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this episode, I will help the listener to understand how to face sexual addiction, not fear it — how to walk out the same way you walked in, but this time with awareness, humility, and a new direction. You’ll learn what it means to shift from behavior management to soul transformation — where your desires are no longer your master, but your teachers. This is the stage of recovery where you stop fighting the addiction and start evolving beyond it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This episode is for the man who has already done the groundwork — the one ready to move past avoidance and into genuine transformation. If you’ve built your foundation and you’re ready to become a different kind of man, this message will meet you exactly where you are.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Break the chains of sex, porn, and masturbation addiction today!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.AlisaCoaches.com'&gt;&lt;b&gt;www.AlisaCoaches.com&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

In this episode of Chainbreaker, we go beyond surface-level recovery to uncover the deeper truth: real healing doesn’t come from denying your sexual urges or running from temptation — it comes from transforming desire itself. Many men try to “white-knuckle” their way through addiction, believing that self-control alone will save them. However, denial only feeds the shadows. True recovery begins when you stop hiding from your desire and start understanding it. In this episode, I will help the ...

E33: Doing the Work in Sexual Addiction Recovery

In this episode of The Chainbreaker Podcast, we confront one of the most dangerous and overlooked realities of modern society — the system that has been intentionally designed to shape men into sexual addicts and women into sexual objects - from early exposure to sexualized media to the normalization of pornography and hookup culture. We live in a world where cultural conditioning, technology, and global industries work together to ensnare young men in lifelong cycles of lust, shame, and dependency. This isn’t a drill or a conspiracy theory. It’s a calculated structure that weakens men, destroys relationships, and erodes the moral and emotional foundation of entire societies.However, there is hope. This episode calls men to open their eyes and see what’s really happening — to recognize the manipulation, accept responsibility for their part in it, and begin reclaiming their futures. It’s time to stop living as victims of a broken system and start rebuilding from the inside out. Whether it means reaching out for help, finding accountability, or making the choice to live with discipline and clarity, this conversation challenges every man to step into his rightful power — not the kind sold through lust and ego, but the kind rooted in truth, strength, and integrity.Break the chains of sex, porn, and masturbation addiction today! <a href='https://www.AlisaCoaches.com'>www.AlisaCoaches.com</a>

<description>&lt;p&gt;In this episode of &lt;em&gt;The Chainbreaker Podcast&lt;/em&gt;, we confront one of the most dangerous and overlooked realities of modern society — the system that has been intentionally designed to shape men into sexual addicts and women into sexual objects - from early exposure to sexualized media to the normalization of pornography and hookup culture. We live in a world where cultural conditioning, technology, and global industries work together to ensnare young men in lifelong cycles of lust, shame, and dependency. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This isn’t a drill or a conspiracy theory. It’s a calculated structure that weakens men, destroys relationships, and erodes the moral and emotional foundation of entire societies.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;However, there is hope. This episode calls men to open their eyes and see what’s really happening — to recognize the manipulation, accept responsibility for their part in it, and begin reclaiming their futures. It’s time to stop living as victims of a broken system and start rebuilding from the inside out. Whether it means reaching out for help, finding accountability, or making the choice to live with discipline and clarity, this conversation challenges every man to step into his rightful power — not the kind sold through lust and ego, but the kind rooted in truth, strength, and integrity.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Break the chains of sex, porn, and masturbation addiction today!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.AlisaCoaches.com'&gt;&lt;b&gt;www.AlisaCoaches.com&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

In this episode of The Chainbreaker Podcast, we confront one of the most dangerous and overlooked realities of modern society — the system that has been intentionally designed to shape men into sexual addicts and women into sexual objects - from early exposure to sexualized media to the normalization of pornography and hookup culture. We live in a world where cultural conditioning, technology, and global industries work together to ensnare young men in lifelong cycles of lust, shame, and depe...

E32: The Sexual Addiction Pipeline (From Adolescence to Adulthood)

In this episode of The Chainbreaker Podcast, we break down why taking recovery one step at a time isn’t just helpful—it’s essential. Too many men try to skip ahead in their sexual recovery work, only to find themselves stumbling and falling back into old patterns. True sexual addiction recovery is a process. It’s a journey that demands patience, presence, and discipline. You will never stop being an addict—but you can stop being controlled by your addiction. You can learn to walk free of the persistent nagging of your addiction; of being stalked and tortured by it. When you learn to honor each stage of your recovery and do the work that is required, you begin to regain power over your life and experience real freedom from the constant pull of your desires.Break the chains of sex, porn, and masturbation addiction today! <a href='https://www.AlisaCoaches.com'>www.AlisaCoaches.com</a>

<description>&lt;p&gt;In this episode of &lt;em&gt;The Chainbreaker Podcast&lt;/em&gt;, we break down why taking recovery one step at a time isn’t just helpful—it’s essential. Too many men try to skip ahead in their sexual recovery work, only to find themselves stumbling and falling back into old patterns. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;True sexual addiction recovery is a process. It’s a journey that demands patience, presence, and discipline. You will never stop being an addict—but you &lt;em&gt;can&lt;/em&gt; stop being controlled by your addiction. You can learn to walk free of the persistent nagging of your addiction; of being stalked and tortured by it. When you learn to honor each stage of your recovery and do the work that is required, you begin to regain power over your life and experience real freedom from the constant pull of your desires.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Break the chains of sex, porn, and masturbation addiction today!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.AlisaCoaches.com'&gt;&lt;b&gt;www.AlisaCoaches.com&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

In this episode of The Chainbreaker Podcast, we break down why taking recovery one step at a time isn’t just helpful—it’s essential. Too many men try to skip ahead in their sexual recovery work, only to find themselves stumbling and falling back into old patterns.  True sexual addiction recovery is a process. It’s a journey that demands patience, presence, and discipline. You will never stop being an addict—but you can stop being controlled by your addiction. You can learn to walk free o...

E31: The Importance Of Going Step-By-Step In Sexual Addiction Recovery

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