The Expat Experience
The Expat Experience

The Expat Experience

Rob DeForge

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Dreaming of sun-soaked beaches, vibrant culture, and a fresh start in paradise? Welcome to The Expat Experience: San Carlos, Mexico Edition, the podcast that takes you through every step of relocating, living, and thriving in Mexico’s coastal paradise, San Carlos. Whether you’re dreaming of starting a new chapter abroad or actively planning your move, this podcast is your essential guide to understanding expat life in one of Mexico’s most picturesque towns. Hosted by Robert DeForge, a seasoned real estate professional with over 30 years of experience in the real estate market, this podcast offers firsthand knowledge and practical insights. Robert's journey from a real estate and construction expert to becoming a passionate San Carlos resident gives him a unique perspective on the process—and now he’s here to share his expertise with you. "The Expat Experience: Mexico Edition" goes beyond a simple how-to guide. If you're planning to retire, work remotely, or invest in your dream vacation home, this podcast is packed with valuable insights tailored for anyone interested in making the move. You’ll learn how to navigate Mexico’s unique real estate landscape with tips on purchasing property, understanding legal requirements like fideicomisos (trusts), and working with local agents. Whether you’re looking at luxury beachfront homes or affordable neighborhoods, Robert walks you through every detail to ensure a smooth buying process. We’ll also dive into the daily realities of expat life in San Carlos, exploring the cost of living, essential services, and the beauty of coastal living. Robert will guide you through the legal and financial essentials of moving to Mexico, covering topics like visas, residency permits, taxes, and navigating the Mexican legal system, so you can make informed decisions about your future. Moving to a new country comes with challenges, and this podcast is here to make the transition easier by providing practical solutions for overcoming obstacles such as cultural adaptation, homesickness, bureaucracy, and language barriers. Building a community is essential for any expat, and Robert shares his tips on how to meet other expats, join local clubs, and get involved in San Carlos' vibrant social scene. For families, we’ll offer advice on educational options for children, family-friendly activities, and healthcare services. You’ll also learn how to balance work and family life abroad, especially if you’re working remotely. Beyond the practicalities, we’ll explore the adventures San Carlos has to offer. Whether it's boating, fishing, diving, hiking, or enjoying local festivals and cultural attractions, Robert provides insider tips to make the most of your new surroundings. Every episode of "The Expat Experience: Mexico Edition" is packed with actionable insights, expert advice, and stories from people just like you who’ve taken the leap to start a new life in Mexico. Hosted by Robert Deforge, this show is your trusted guide to making the dream of living in San Carlos a reality. Tune in and let Robert help you every step of the way as you embark on this exciting new chapter in paradise. Subscribe now and start your journey toward living the dream in Mexico. Your new life awaits! About the Host: With over 30 years of experience in all areas of real estate, I bring a wealth of knowledge and expertise to my role as a Realtor in San Carlos, Mexico. My journey began with owning and operating a construction firm, where I built houses and developed a deep understanding of the construction process. I also owned an insurance adjusting firm specializing in real estate, further broadening my skill set and knowledge of the real estate industry. My passion for beach living and all things related to the water has led me to make San Carlos my home. I am an avid enthusiast of hiking, fishing, boating, and diving, and I relish the vibrant coastal lifestyle that this beautiful town offers.

Recent Episodes

Marianne Ambrose on Storytelling, Sign Language, and Saving the Ocean
JUN 27, 2025
Marianne Ambrose on Storytelling, Sign Language, and Saving the Ocean

How can animated characters teach kids about kindness, inclusion, and climate change? What do a hard-of-hearing whale and a finger-spelling hermit crab have to do with ocean conservation and environmental conservation?

In this episode of The Expat Experience, host Robert DeForge welcomes author and sign language interpreter Marianne Ambrose, whose Acts of Kindness Book Series blends storytelling, deaf advocacy, and real-world issues like bullying, clean oceans, and climate change. Inspired by her experiences sailing in Hawaii and practicing meditation, Marianne’s work features animated characters, puppets, and music to educate children on pressing social issues. Through her focus on education, inclusion, and creativity, she demonstrates how everyday acts of kindness can empower young people and create a lasting global impact.

IN THIS EPISODE:

  • (00:00) Intro: Meet Marianne
  • (02:15)How guided meditation and ocean pollution near her sailboat in Hawaii inspired Underwater Acts of Kindness
  • (06:06) Creating themed books: Rabbit Acts of Kindness, Righteous Acts of Kindness, and Cool Acts of Kindness for Climate Change
  • (11:19) Marianne’s mission to spread kindness through storytelling, animation, and deaf advocacy
  • (13:30) Tackling bullying, hearing loss, climate change, and clean water through sign language and quirky characters in her animated stories
  • (16:30) How listeners can incorporate kindness into their daily lives, and a look ahead at the future of the book series

KEY TAKEAWAYS: 

  • The Acts of Kindness book series uses animation, puppetry, and storytelling to educate readers about environmental and social issues. Marianne’s characters, like Noaah the hard-of-hearing whale and Dr. Fingers the finger-spelling hermit crab, teach children sign language while promoting inclusion, empathy, and ocean conservation.
  • Inspired by her time as a sailor and sign language interpreter, Marianne raises awareness of issues like the Great Pacific Garbage Patch, bullying, and hearing loss. Through creativity and compassion, her mission is to make acts of kindness a part of everyday life and inspire a global movement for change.
  • Her educational tools—used in Hawaii’s schools and deaf communities—include coloring books, clean water units, and puppets, all supported by grants like one from the Awesome Foundation.

RESOURCES:

Expat Experience - Podcast

Robert DeForge - LinkedIn

DeForge Realty Group -  Website

Marianne L. Ambrose - LinkedIn

Underwater Acts of Kindness (Acts of Kindness Book Series)

Rabbit Acts of Kindness - No Bully (Acts of Kindness Book Series)

Righteous Acts of Kindness - (Kindness Book Series)

Cool Acts of Kindness (Acts of Kindness Book Series)

GUEST BIOGRAPHY:

Marianne L. Ambrose ( Marianne of Waikiki ) is a creative international sign language entertainer and artist who uses puppetry and American Sign Language to entertain hearing -impaired audiences. She holds a B. S in Communication Disorders/ Audiology from Central Michigan University. Marianne has dealt with her own hearing loss challenge, which resulted from a car accident. She has since recovered and is more passionate than ever about bringing her "Acts of Kindness Divine Messages" of peace, love, happiness and thanks to audiences across the globe.

KEYWORDS: Kindness, Storytelling, Deaf Advocacy, Sign Language, Marianne Ambrose, Bullying, Climate Change, Clean Water, Puppets, Animation, Book Series, Ocean Conservation, Inclusion, Social Issues, Hawaii, Acts of Kindness, Environmental Awareness, Underwater Acts of Kindness, Rabbit Acts of Kindness, Righteous Acts of Kindness, and Cool Acts of Kindness for Climate Change, ASL, American Sign Language, sign language interpreter

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San Carlos Unveiled: Tim Walker’s Expat Journey in Mexico
JUN 13, 2025
San Carlos Unveiled: Tim Walker’s Expat Journey in Mexico

Ready to escape to a sun-soaked paradise? Curious about a vibrant expat lifestyle? Would you love to live in a relaxed, welcoming community? Join host Robert DeForge on the Expat Experience as he chats with Tim Walker about thriving in San Carlos, Mexico! Discover a unique blend of desert, mountains, and sea that shapes a relaxed, community-driven lifestyle, from the festive, Mexican-friendly culture rich in celebration, food, and family, to the rapid growth fueling San Carlos’ popularity.

IN THIS EPISODE:

  • (00:00) Introduction: Meet Tim Walker
  • (01:12) Tim shares his journey from Venezuela to San Carlos
  • (03:18) The friendly culture and landscape of San Carlos
  • (05:55) The Mexican culture features family-friendly festivities
  • (08:29) Tim comments on the population growth of San Carlos and the diverse entertainment options
  • (11:40) It is easy to find a short or long-term rental , and Tim talks about how everyday life is a relaxed, welcoming atmosphere

KEY TAKEAWAYS: 

  • San Carlos offers a harmonious blend of desert, mountains, and sea, creating a unique physical and cultural environment that fosters a relaxed, community-oriented lifestyle distinct from more regulated North American settings.
  • The Mexican community in San Carlos is characterized by a love for celebration, food, family, and friendship, with frequent festivities showcasing a lively and inclusive atmosphere.
  • Rapid construction and population growth reflect San Carlos' increasing popularity. Diverse activities like boating, hiking, and sports, alongside a welcoming expat and local community, make it an attractive destination for relocation.

RESOURCES:

Expat Experience - Podcast

Robert DeForge - LinkedIn

DeForge Realty Group-  Website

KEYWORDS: San Carlos, Mexico, Friendly Culture, Relaxed Welcoming Community, Mexico Living, Expat, Relocation, Community, Culture, Fiesta, Construction, Beach, Mountains, Desert, Freedom, Lifestyle, Food, Family, Friendship, Pickleball, Tennis, Economy, Happiness, Robert DeForge, Vive Real Estate, Paradise, desert, mountains, and sea, family-friendly festivities, rental properties, real estate, Move to Mexico, boating, hiking, sports, Traveling, Getaway, Vacation, real estate investing, moving to mexico, living in mexico

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19 MIN
Steve and Peggy...How we found San Carlos
MAY 22, 2025
Steve and Peggy...How we found San Carlos

Today, real estate expert Robert DeForge explores the vibrant sailing lifestyle in San Carlos, Mexico, with sailors Peggy and Steve Leonard. Peggy and Steve share their sailing journey and what led them to settle in the tight-knit San Carlos Community. From navigating Mexico’s coasts to embracing the community’s charm, this episode dives into affordable living and the joys of expat life in San Carlos, Mexico. Tune in to this episode of the Expat Experience podcast for an inspiring look at sailing and the community in Mexico!

IN THIS EPISODE:

  • (01:13) Peggy and Steve discuss how they got involved with sailing, and onboard safety
  • (11:35) The Leonards share the ports they have sailed to throughout Mexico and activities they’ve enjoyed
  • (17:26) What ultimately led Steve and Peggy to purchase a home in San Carlos, Mexico
  • (25:00) Peggy and Steve discuss renting their home and transitioning to a permanent residency from the sailing lifestyle 
  • (31:47) What changes have occurred since they moved to San Carlos

KEY TAKEAWAYS: 

  • San Carlos, Mexico, offers unique opportunities for owning waterfront property in addition to the deep water port, making it a haven for sailing enthusiasts.
  • The close-knit San Carlos Community fosters strong bonds through activities like pickleball and sailing. Living in Mexico is more affordable than living in the United States. 
  • The proximity to the U.S. border supports a sailing lifestyle in San Carlos, Mexico, with easy cross-border access for items unavailable in Mexico.

RESOURCES:

Expat Experience - Podcast

Robert DeForge - LinkedIn

Vive Real Estate - Website

Sailing, San Carlos, Mexico, Expat Life, Community, Waterfront Property, Real Estate, Travel Trailer, Storage Solutions, Pickleball, Community, Moving to Mexico, Affordability, Marina, Beach Activities, Cross-Border Commuting, Sailors, Sailboat Living, Affordable City, Cost of Living, Coastal Adventures, Coastal Exploration

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42 MIN
Cultivating Beauty: A Look Inside the Pearl Farm at Miramar
MAY 8, 2025
Cultivating Beauty: A Look Inside the Pearl Farm at Miramar

Fueled by passion and perseverance, Enrique Arizmendi, owner of a One-of-a-Kind Oyster Pearl Farm is here to share how something as small as a pearl can significantly impact the community and environment.

Welcome to The Expat Experience, where host and real estate expert Robert DeForge sits down with special guest Enrique Arizmendi, owner of a one-of-a-kind oyster pearl farm. In this episode, Enrique shares how his journey began as a student project in 1991 and evolved into a thriving business, thanks to unwavering community support and relentless dedication. You'll hear about the unique species of oysters that produce vibrant, naturally colorful pearls found only in the Sea of Cortez, and the meticulous 18-month process it takes to harvest each one. Enrique also explains what happens to pearls that don't meet his high standards, the surprising environmental role oyster farming plays, and the ways global warming could impact the future of these incredible creatures. Finally, Enrique opens up about the most rewarding moments of his career — and the powerful lessons in perseverance that can inspire anyone chasing a dream.

IN THIS EPISODE:

  • (00:00) Enrique Arizmendi’s entry into the pearl farming business, and the different species of oysters and their special characteristics
  • (11:39) Enrique walks through the entire operation and the 18 months of harvesting a single pearl
  • (21:55) What happens to the pearls that are not up to the standard Enrique sets, and what role do they play in the environment
  • (25:47) Enrique shares what happens to these one-of-a-kind pearls
  • (32:09) Enrique discusses how global warming affects the future of the pearl oyster
  • (39:44) Enrique explains what the most rewarding aspects of his business have been

KEY TAKEAWAYS:

  • Truly One-Of-A-Kind Pearls: The pearls from the Sea of Cortez are unique due to their color, fluorescence, and the special species of oyster used. Unlike other pearls worldwide, these pearls exhibit vibrant, natural shades like purples, greens, and reds because of a light interference effect. They also fluoresce pink to red under ultraviolet light and come from a different genus of pearl oyster, making them truly unique.
  • Pearl Quality Depends on Growth Time and Careful Selection. After a minimum of 18 months growing inside the oyster, pearls are harvested and meticulously sorted. Only pearls that reach at least 8 millimeters with a good layer of mother-of-pearl are kept for jewelry; smaller or poorly coated pearls are either repurposed or returned to the ocean during a ceremonial offering.
  • Pearl Oysters Play an Important Environmental Role. Beyond producing pearls, pearl oysters contribute to ocean health by filtering seawater, helping control organic matter, and preventing harmful algae blooms. This natural filtration system supports a balanced marine ecosystem, especially in the Sea of Cortez.

RESOURCES:

Expat Experience - Podcast

Robert DeForge - LinkedIn

Perlas del Mar de Cortez - Store

The Pearl Farm - Website

Expat, Expat Experience Podcast, Pearl Farm, Pearl Farming, Oysters, One-of-a-Kind Oyster Pearl, Colorful Pearls, Unique Pearls, Overcoming Doubt, Entrepreneurship, Innovation, Jewelry Industry, Custom Pearls, Jewelry, Exotic Pearls, Pearl Industry, Living in Mexico, Moving to Mexico, Mexican Real Estate, Moving to Mexico, Enrique Arizmendi, community support, dedication, Sea of Cortez, Sea of Cortez Pearls, Pearl Harvest, oyster farming, perseverance, Miramar Mexico, Playa Miramar, one-of-a-kind pearl, global warming, pearl quality, Sustainable Pearl Farm, Sustainability, Perlas del Mar de Cortez, Fair Trade Gems

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44 MIN
San Carlos: The Restaurant Scene
APR 24, 2025
San Carlos: The Restaurant Scene

Join real estate expert Robert DeForge as he delves into the allure of relocating to the scenic coastal town of San Carlos, Mexico, with insights from Alex Mendoza, owner of the beloved Colibri restaurant. Alex shares his remarkable life story, from his arrival in the U.S. via a paid coyote to his journey of self-acceptance, deportation, and eventual return to Mexico, where he opened Colibri. In this episode, Alex discusses the inspiration behind Colibri, the unique dining experience he’s crafted through inventive flavor combinations, and his dedication to a fresh, hands-on approach that keeps diners coming back. Alex also offers advice for newcomers to San Carlos and touches on the inclusive spirit of the local LGBTQ community.

IN THIS EPISODE:

  • (00:00) Intro
  • (00:57) Alex’s journey from Mexico by a paid coyote to arriving in the US 
  • (03:41) Alex shares his coming out story and his experience of deportation 
  • (09:58) Arriving in San Carlos and opening and naming Colibri his restaurant
  • (19:19) Alex describes the dining experience at Colibri, his signature dishes and the evolving restaurant business in San Carlos
  • (27:27) Alex shares advice for people coming to San Carlos and discussion about the inclusion of the LGBTQ community
  • (34:40) Alex shares some of the ingredients he combines to surprise his guests and keep them coming back

KEY TAKEAWAYS: 

  • Restaurants require hands-on dedication. Keeping your menu fresh and exciting for your return customers is necessary.
  • Colibri offers a unique dining experience as Alex masterfully combines unexpected flavors—savory, sweet, salty, and more—in ways that surprise and delight the palate.
  • Members of the LGBTQ community are welcome in San Carlos. 

RESOURCES:

Expat Experience - Podcast

Robert DeForge - LinkedIn

Alex R. Mendoza - Instagram

Colibri Restaurant on Facebook

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38 MIN