<p>He stopped texting. I assumed he was dead. I called his work. He was not dead. He was just ghosting me.We&#39;ve all been there. Waiting for those three little dots, making every excuse in the book. He&#39;s probably sick. His mom is sick. Maybe he&#39;s just really busy. It doesn&#39;t matter. The waiting is the same.In this episode, I&#39;m not here to tell you he&#39;s just not that into you. I&#39;m the bestie getting you through to the other side — and honestly? To something way better.Here&#39;s what I know: the minute you fall in love with yourself, everyone falls in love with you. And those three dots? You won&#39;t even care anymore.IN THIS EPISODE→ Why you&#39;re in love with an idea — not an actual person→ The list that will save you from texting him→ How to take yourself on the date you&#39;ve been waiting for→Why falling in love with yourself is the only move that mattersTHE 4 TIPS✨ Tip 1: You don&#39;t even know if you like him. You like the idea of him.✨ Tip 2: Make the list — and work the list.✨ Tip 3: Take yourself out on the date you were waiting for.✨ Tip 4 (the bonus and the whole point): Fall in love with yourself.THE SHEILA SCIENCE™ REFRAMEWhen someone likes you, they will move oceans and seas to be with you. So in the meantime — move oceans and seas for yourself. In every small moment. Because all the small moments add up to the big moment where you are the main character of your own life.Email me: [email protected]📸 <a href="https://www.instagram.com/smalltalkwith_sheila" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Instagram</a> 🎵 <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@smalltalkwithsheila" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">TikTok</a>Fighting the urge to text him right now? DM Sheila everything you want to say to him. She&#39;ll keep you accountable. Just don&#39;t text him. 💗If this episode helped you, hit Subscribe, leave a review, and send it to the friend who&#39;s waiting on those three dots right now.And this rom-com? It&#39;s just getting started. 🩷CHAPTERS0:00 The Cold Open: I Called His Work1:07 Welcome to Small Talk with Sheila1:42 Tip 1: You Like the Idea of Him — Not Him2:39 Tip 2: Make the List and Work the List4:33 Tip 3: Take Yourself Out on the Date5:45 Tip 4 (Bonus): Fall in Love With Yourself6:30 The Sheila Science Reframe7:03 Your Homework and How to Find SheilaEND CREDITS — ROLLING LIKE A ROM-COMProduction and audience development by <a href="https://pod.vision/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">PodVision</a>Created, written, and hosted by Sheila KazanExecutive Producer of Her Own Life: Also Sheila KazanEmotional Support and Occasional Reality Check: Hezi (my husband)Tiny but Mighty Energy: Love (my pup)No three dots required. No callback needed. Just one woman who decided she was worth the date.</p>