Spill the Tea with Beau & Kirsty

In this episode of Spill the Tea, We discussed love and connection, emphasizing reassurance, emotional intelligence, and the importance of listening to create healthy relationships.We share personal examples of overcoming insecurity and how reassurance and consistent support strengthened their partnership. We highlight client and community wins (Kelly, Mick, Amy) to illustrate how commitment, clarity, and action lead to rapid business growth.==================================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share :00:01:50 – 00:19:59 | What is love / Relationship dynamicsLove described as an indescribable connection and deep understanding where two people don’t need to over-explain.Emphasis on listening, emotional intelligence, and creating safe conversational space to avoid miscommunication and recurring conflict.Reassurance viewed as a “superpower” — both commit to offering it to each other.00:19:59 – 00:32:04 | Community & client winsKellie: Joined We Breathe Success, implemented “Coach The Calendar,” had her biggest cash month and began paying off her investment within two weeks.Mick : Took risks, attended events, persisted; re-signed nine people to his mentorship; credited community and accountability.Ami and other clients: Examples of members who joined after hesitation and experienced transformation (firing draining clients, gaining aligned clients, increased happiness).Importance of being in the right room — surrounding yourself with people taking action leads to faster growth.00:32:04 – 00:41:20 | Mindset, Identity, and Failure as GrowthMindset barriers identified: fear of judgment, fear of failure, fear of success; reframing failure as growth opportunity (encourage partial failure to learn).Repetition and consistent action build confidence; early naivety can drive initial growth, but systems and leadership identity must evolve for higher revenue levels.00:41:20 – 00:46:17 | Self-mastery and energy managementTwo controllable things: mindset and nervous system regulation. Mastering these enables resilience and consistent performance.Concrete suggestions for changing state: breath work, exercise, walks, rest, or fun social activities.👇 Your Turn:What mindset shift has had the biggest impact on your business or personal growth? Share it in the comments!Catch the Vibes:Ready to dive into our unfiltered journey? New episodes drop every Tuesday and Thursday, so hit subscribe and get ready for real talk. We’re here to prove that success is built on embracing the chaos, being unapologetically you, and growing through the mess.JOIN our FREE community here:https://www.skool.com/the-success-lounge-1105/about?ref=b5f47468f000489bae0f0ad786e6ea6eOne to One with Beau Drury :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/1-1-with-beauOne on One call with Kirsty Waddingham :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/1-1-call-with-kirstyWBS Success Call :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/wbs-success-call One to one discovery Session :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/1-1-discovery-session30 minute session : https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/30-minute-session WORK with US: https://webreathesuccess.com/Connect With Us :💥 We Breathe Success :Instagram: www.instagram.com/webreathesuccessTikTok: @webreathesuccessFacebook: We Breathe Success🔥 Beau Drury:Instagram : www.instagram.com/iambeaudrury💫 Kirsty Waddingham:Instagram : www.instagram.com/iamkirstywaddingham

Sasha Eburne, a single mom and founder of the CEO Collective, shared her journey from a 25-year hospitality career to building a multi-six-figure remote business after being stood down during COVID. She described transitioning from virtual assistant work to creating CEO Collective to teach women how to scale businesses and duplicate her success. Sasha recounted deciding to have a child solo after fertility challenges, undergoing IVF, and becoming a certified breathwork practitioner who now trains others.==================================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share :00:01:52 – 00:14:48 | Sasha’s background and transition into entrepreneurshipSasha described growing up in New South Wales and working in hospitality. She completed TAFE certificates and diplomas, worked in luxury hotels domestically and internationally, and spent 25 years in hospitality before COVID.COVID and maternity leave overlap led to redundancy; Sasha explored other roles (real estate) and side income (direct marketing). Exposure to a colleague who became a virtual assistant led her to investigate and then start VA work in May 2021.Within 24 hours of launching a simple website she secured her first client; within weeks she reached full-time hours and within six months scaled to a 15-person VA team and multi-six-figure revenue within two years.00:14:48 – 00:26:43 | Motherhood and fertility journeyPersonal choice: Sasha planned for motherhood and, after fertility testing, was diagnosed with endometriosis and blocked tubes with low egg count.She pursued IVF, conceived on the first attempt, and chose an Australian donor based primarily on health criteria (cost and availability influenced the choice).The conversation highlighted courage and decisive action: Sasha’s decision to parent solo and the practical considerations (donor programs, cost, health prioritization).00:26:43 – 00:34:11 | Business model evolution and programsInitial model: one-to-one VA services and ad-hoc coaching/mentoring for women starting remote businesses.Growth pain: Sasha hit capacity limits and revenue ceilings (~$8–10k/month at one point), prompting investment in coaching and NLP training.00:34:11 – 00:41:59 | Identity, mindset, and nervous-system workSasha invested in NLP (master practitioner) and coaching to upskill as a coach and address limiting beliefs—this was pivotal to her transition and ability to scale.Breathwork: After attending We Breathe Success events, Sasha trained as a breathwork practitioner and now certifies others—she emphasised the modality’s impact on regulation and transformation.00:41:59 – 00:57:38 | Public exposure, media, and handling criticismSasha was featured in a news article highlighting $70k months; the piece generated positive interest and also negative, gendered comments—mostly men exhibiting “tall poppy” responses.Sasha’s approach: limit energy given to haters, focus on impact, and lean into community support. She framed criticism as projection and emphasised regulation and emotional resilience.👇 Your Turn:What mindset shift has had the biggest impact on your business or personal growth? Share it in the comments!Catch the Vibes:Ready to dive into our unfiltered journey? New episodes drop every Tuesday and Thursday, so hit subscribe and get ready for real talk. We’re here to prove that success is built on embracing the chaos, being unapologetically you, and growing through the mess.JOIN our FREE community here:https://www.skool.com/the-success-lounge-1105/about?ref=b5f47468f000489bae0f0ad786e6ea6eOne to One with Beau Drury :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/1-1-with-beauOne on One call with Kirsty Waddingham :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/1-1-call-with-kirstyWBS Success Call :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/wbs-success-call One to one discovery Session :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/1-1-discovery-session30 minute session : https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/30-minute-session WORK with US: https://webreathesuccess.com/Connect With Us :💥 We Breathe Success :Instagram: www.instagram.com/webreathesuccessTikTok: @webreathesuccessFacebook: We Breathe Success🔥 Beau Drury:Instagram : www.instagram.com/iambeaudrury💫 Kirsty Waddingham:Instagram : www.instagram.com/iamkirstywaddinghamSasha Eburne : Instagram : www.instagram.com/sashaeburne__/ Facebook : www.facebook.com/sashaeburne

In this episode of Spill the Tea, We discussed Rachel’s background from Mansfield, England to the British Army and multiple tours in Afghanistan, then relocating to Australia where she built businesses including 1111 Lab skincare, Perth VIP Club and property investments. She shares candid stories about mental resilience, personal growth, healing practices (breathwork, ice baths, mindset work), and the importance of taking action and simplifying routines (less chemicals, less sugar). Rachel emphasizes trusting others, delegating to scale, and encourages listeners to stop overthinking and “just do the thing.”==================================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share :00:01:49 – 00:09:33 | Introduction & Personal BackgroundRachel Sutton introduced as a global entrepreneur who owns multiple businesses including 11 11 Lab (skincare line) and the Perth VIP Club. Rachel describe her as charismatic, well-connected (“Mrs. Worldwide”), and highly visible in entrepreneurial circles.Rachel is from Mansfield, Nottinghamshire, England. She emphasizes growing up in a challenging family environment and cites her uncles as positive role models who inspired her to join the British Army.She served nearly 10 years in the British Army as a combat human resources specialist and female searcher, including two tours in Afghanistan. She describes: intense routines, physical training (Insanity workouts), after-work triathlons, patrols in villages, and experiences searching women in culturally sensitive environments.00:09:33 – 00:25:08 | Transition Out of Military & Migration to AustraliaRachel fell in love with Perth, Australia, after visiting; she chose to sign off from the British Army to emigrate and settle in Australia. She explains the resettlement/resettlement process takes roughly a year and includes transferable vocational qualifications.She describes a challenging period of identity loss after moving to Australia: in the Army she was central to social groups and in Australia she had to rebuild social status and authenticity. This process required shedding old identities and clarifying who she wanted to be.00:25:08 – 00:45:52 | Business Journey & VenturesEntrepreneurial history began early: while deployed she started an online clothing boutique (Pink Donut Boutique) and later explored network marketing (Forever Living/Aloe Vera).Skincare origin: Working underground in mining exposed her skin to chemicals, diesel, and explosives which aggravated her skin. She began mixing products herself, saw results, was asked by others to provide them, and subsequently formalized a product line (1111 Lab). Her skincare philosophy favors minimal, natural formulations and skepticism about overly chemical-heavy, multi-step regimens.00:45:52 – 00:52:29 | Successes & HighlightsProperty flip: bought and renovated a house in Australia that sold for a substantial profit (example: bought cheaply, sold for a million—liquidity event enabling further investment).Skincare brand traction: 1111 Lab products produced marked results for users, leading to strong customer testimonials and product demand.00:52:29 – 01:06:18 | Overall Themes & TakeawaysResilience and reinvention: Rachel’s life arc reflects repeated reinvention—from army to mining to entrepreneurship and international living—underpinned by resilience.Intuition-driven entrepreneurship: many of her ventures began from observed problems or direct requests rather than long strategic plans.Leadership growth: ongoing work to step into scalable leadership by delegating, trusting staff, and addressing internal barriers to growth.👇 Your Turn:What mindset shift has had the biggest impact on your business or personal growth? Share it in the comments!Catch the Vibes:Ready to dive into our unfiltered journey? New episodes drop every Tuesday and Thursday, so hit subscribe and get ready for real talk. We’re here to prove that success is built on embracing the chaos, being unapologetically you, and growing through the mess.JOIN our FREE community here:https://www.skool.com/the-success-lounge-1105/about?ref=b5f47468f000489bae0f0ad786e6ea6eOne to One with Beau Drury :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/1-1-with-beauOne on One call with Kirsty Waddingham :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/1-1-call-with-kirstyWBS Success Call :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/wbs-success-callOne to one discovery Session :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/1-1-discovery-session30 minute session :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/30-minute-sessionWORK with US:https://webreathesuccess.com/Connect With Us :💥 We Breathe Success :Instagram: www.instagram.com/webreathesuccessTikTok: @webreathesuccessFacebook: We Breathe Success🔥 Beau Drury:Instagram : www.instagram.com/iambeaudrury💫 Kirsty Waddingham:Instagram : www.instagram.com/iamkirstywaddinghamRachel Sutton :Instagram : www.instagram.com/racheljsutton/

In this episode of Spill the Tea, We discussed Kirsty’s recent cosmetic surgeries explant, breast reduction and lift, and 360° liposuction—performed in Turkey; she reports excellent aesthetic results but extreme post-operative pain, heavy swelling, and removal of 8.5 liters of fat. Kirsty repeatedly describes poor patient care and communication from the clinic (cold staff, inconsistent caregivers, lack of English communication, inadequate post-op support, unexpected additional costs for garments and massages, and questionable hygiene practices), which made the experience traumatic despite good surgical outcomes. She emphasizes gratitude for her partner and children’s support, praises lymphatic massage and compression garments (fahas) for recovery, and advises others to research providers carefully—sharing that she prefers her past experience in Thailand and warning about the importance of compassionate aftercare.==================================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share :00:00:55 – 00:06:21 | Reasons for surgery and prior historyKirsty’s motivation: implants placed in 2019 and 2021 resulted in heavy, uncomfortable breasts after childbirth, causing physical pain and functional limitations (neck/shoulder pain, headaches, inability to run) and dissatisfaction with appearance.She researched clinics in Turkey, had prior consultations,and weighed options before scheduling; she initially postponed to allow Beau to do surgery first.00:06:21 – 00:14:40 | Surgical day and immediate post-op carePre-op/intra-op: minimal bedside manner no comforting countdown or hand-holding before anesthesia, contributed to feeling isolated.Post-op awakening:severe shaking/convulsions, extreme cold, teeth chattering; minimal English spoken by staff and limited comfort measures (only blankets, no warming devices), causing acute distress.No proactive explanation of typical post-op sensations or what to expect; Kirsty reported intense anxiety recalling these moments.00:14:40 – 00:19:22 | Aftercare room and wound care concernsTemporary post-op care took place in a small back-room/storeroom with minimal facilities; while nursing staff were described as kind, they had limited English, and wound-cleaning procedures appeared inadequate (lavender baby wipe used rather than antiseptic), prompting Kirsty to procure antiseptic supplies and self-manage cleaning later.Additional unexpected costs billed post-op: five massages and compression garments (Fajas) were required and not clearly communicated pre-op; these extras felt like hidden charges.00:19:22 – 00:29:59 | Emotional impact and family supportStrong emphasis on emotional distress: felt cold, alone, scared and traumatized by the overall experience despite being pleased with surgical outcomes.Family support (partner and two children) was instrumental in recovery children assisted with mobility and personal care; Kirsty expressed deep gratitude for their help and concern.00:29:59 – 00:42:09 | Final reflections and adviceKirsty emphasized that, despite excellent surgical results, the emotional trauma and poor aftercare left her unwilling to return to Turkey for future surgery; she acknowledged others have had good experiences and urged people to research well and consider post-op care and logistics when choosing a clinic.Encouraged listeners to ask questions about costs, what’s included (e.g., massages, garments, blood tests), length of recommended in-country recovery, and communication practices—offering to answer direct questions about costs and logistics.👇 Your Turn:What mindset shift has had the biggest impact on your business or personal growth? Share it in the comments!Catch the Vibes:Ready to dive into our unfiltered journey? New episodes drop every Tuesday and Thursday, so hit subscribe and get ready for real talk. We’re here to prove that success is built on embracing the chaos, being unapologetically you, and growing through the mess.JOIN our FREE community here:https://www.skool.com/the-success-lounge-1105/about?ref=b5f47468f000489bae0f0ad786e6ea6eOne to One with Beau Drury :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/1-1-with-beauOne on One call with Kirsty Waddingham :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/1-1-call-with-kirstyWBS Success Call :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/wbs-success-call One to one discovery Session :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/1-1-discovery-session30 minute session : https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/30-minute-session WORK with US: https://webreathesuccess.com/Connect With Us:💥 We Breathe Success :Instagram: www.instagram.com/webreathesuccessTikTok: @webreathesuccessFacebook: We Breathe Success🔥 Beau Drury:Instagram: www.instagram.com/iambeaudrury💫 Kirsty Waddingham:Instagram: www.instagram.com/iamkirstywaddingham

In this episode of Spill the Tea, We shared how our separation impacted our son Harvey, revealing that despite a loving home with no visible signs of distress, Harvey acted out violently at school due to bottled-up emotions from missing his father (Beau). A video call reunified him briefly and allowed him to express anger and sadness, highlighting the importance of asking deeper questions to uncover children’s hidden feelings during family transitions. The episode emphasizes checking in with children, naming emotions, and creating space for processing to prevent behavioral escalation.==================================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share :00:01:34 – 00:06:55 | School Incident and Video EvidenceTeacher called parent to office after observing unusual behavior at school; initial suspicion of inappropriate conduct.School reviewed CCTV after a child was found with a bump on the head during lunch; footage showed Harvey grabbing a toy car, throwing it, then pushing another child’s head into the table without provocation. Parent describes Harvey as loving, calm, non-violent at home and was shocked and emotional when shown the video00:06:55 – 00:13:41 | Connection to Parental Separation and AbsenceWe link Harvey’s behavior to the prolonged absence of a parent (Beau) due to travel (about 35–40 days), suggesting the child bottled up emotions and missed his dad.When reunited via video call, Harvey admitted he was angry that his dad left and cried, indicating direct emotional impact from the separation. children may feel safe at home and therefore not display distress there, but act out in other settings where triggers occur; adults often miss these hidden emotions.00:13:41 – 00:19:27 | Parental Reflections, Questions, and TakeawaysImportance of asking the right, deeper questions of children and partners to uncover hidden emotions rather than relying on surface-level signs.Triggers can be opportunities to bring up underlying issues; being triggered is framed positively as a prompt to address and process emotions.Validate children's feelings, name emotions, invite expression and offer tools to regulate—this helps children process and prevents escalation.👇 Your Turn :What mindset shift has had the biggest impact on your business or personal growth? Share it in the comments!Catch the Vibes :Ready to dive into our unfiltered journey? New episodes drop every Tuesday and Thursday, so hit subscribe and get ready for real talk. We’re here to prove that success is built on embracing the chaos, being unapologetically you, and growing through the mess.JOIN our FREE community here :https://www.skool.com/the-success-lounge-1105/about?ref=b5f47468f000489bae0f0ad786e6ea6eOne to One with Beau Drury :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/1-1-with-beauOne on One call with Kirsty Waddingham :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/1-1-call-with-kirstyWBS Success Call :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/wbs-success-call One to one discovery Session :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/1-1-discovery-session30 minute session : https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/30-minute-session WORK with US : https://webreathesuccess.com/Connect With Us:💥 We Breathe Success :Instagram : www.instagram.com/webreathesuccessTikTok : @webreathesuccessFacebook : We Breathe Success🔥 Beau Drury :Instagram: www.instagram.com/iambeaudrury💫 Kirsty Waddingham :Instagram: www.instagram.com/iamkirstywaddingham