<description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;7 Manifestations of Self&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Self esteem&lt;/strong&gt;: My stage character. The role I have assigned myself&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Security&lt;/strong&gt;: What I think I need to be “ok”&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Ambitions&lt;/strong&gt;: What I want&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Personal Relations&lt;/strong&gt;: What the relationship “should” look like&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Sex Relations&lt;/strong&gt;: How they “should” be&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Pocketbook&lt;/strong&gt;: Finances&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Pride&lt;/strong&gt;: How they are supposed to see me&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;These seven things are &lt;strong&gt;not &lt;/strong&gt;bad things, they are things I have given power over to the people/principles/institutions in column 1, &lt;em&gt;instead of to God &lt;/em&gt;(solution).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;*Also I like to write in the big gap under column 2, "Have I done column 2 to column 1, or anyone else?" Yes or No and name(s) if yes to examine in step 8. BB Reference, "they, like ourselves" - p.67 - are we alike in this way I have been resenting? Not to trash myself, but to find empathy/compassion/forgiveness/understanding/new perspective.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit &lt;a href="https://ilikethebigbookandicannotlie.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&amp;#38;utm_campaign=CTA_1"&gt;ilikethebigbookandicannotlie.substack.com&lt;/a&gt;</description>

I Like The Big Book & I Cannot Lie

Study The Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous With Me

How It Works; Step 4, Resentment Inventory

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I Like The Big Book & I Cannot Lie

How It Works; Step 4, Resentment Inventory

SEP 2, 202567 MIN

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<p></p><p><strong>7 Manifestations of Self</strong></p><p><strong>Self esteem</strong>: My stage character. The role I have assigned myself</p><p><strong>Security</strong>: What I think I need to be “ok”</p><p><strong>Ambitions</strong>: What I want</p><p><strong>Personal Relations</strong>: What the relationship “should” look like</p><p><strong>Sex Relations</strong>: How they “should” be</p><p><strong>Pocketbook</strong>: Finances</p><p><strong>Pride</strong>: How they are supposed to see me</p><p>These seven things are <strong>not </strong>bad things, they are things I have given power over to the people/principles/institutions in column 1, <em>instead of to God </em>(solution).</p><p>*Also I like to write in the big gap under column 2, "Have I done column 2 to column 1, or anyone else?" Yes or No and name(s) if yes to examine in step 8. BB Reference, "they, like ourselves" - p.67 - are we alike in this way I have been resenting? Not to trash myself, but to find empathy/compassion/forgiveness/understanding/new perspective.</p><p></p><p> </p> <br/><br/>This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit <a href="https://ilikethebigbookandicannotlie.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&#38;utm_campaign=CTA_1">ilikethebigbookandicannotlie.substack.com</a>