<description>&lt;p&gt;In &lt;em&gt;Mind Over Masculinity&lt;/em&gt;, hosted by Sayan, Dr. Gregory Obert explores how trauma quietly reshapes how men see themselves and why many never talk about it. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This episode is for men carrying invisible weight, and for anyone trying to understand them better. 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Mind Over Masculinity

Avik Chakraborty

When Trauma Breaks Identity: A New Way Men Heal and Rebuild with Dr. Gregory Obert

MAY 17, 202625 MIN
Mind Over Masculinity

When Trauma Breaks Identity: A New Way Men Heal and Rebuild with Dr. Gregory Obert

MAY 17, 202625 MIN

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In Mind Over Masculinity, hosted by Sayan, Dr. Gregory Obert explores how trauma quietly reshapes how men see themselves and why many never talk about it. This episode is for men carrying invisible weight, and for anyone trying to understand them better. You’ll walk away with a clearer view of trauma, why avoidance keeps people stuck, and how practical, time-bound healing approaches can help men reclaim clarity, control, and self-trust.About the Guest:Dr. Gregory Obert is a clinical psychologist and founder of the Royal Oasis Psychotherapy Institute.He specializes in trauma treatment, particularly working with men and high-pressure environments.Episode Chapter:00:00 – The silent struggle men carry02:40 – Gregory’s journey into trauma work05:00 – Understanding trauma: “small t” vs “big T”07:20 – Identity disruption after trauma12:20 – Why men resist therapy15:00 – The role of avoidance in staying stuck18:50 – Mentorship, meaning, and human connectionKey Takeaways:Trauma often disrupts identity, not just emotionsAvoidance helps short-term but blocks long-term healingMen respond better to structured, solution-focused therapyHealing doesn’t require years—targeted approaches can be briefSupport and honest conversation can shift even the darkest momentsHow to Connect With the Guest:Website: https://www.royaloasispi.com/Instagram🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life?Send me a direct message on PodMatch.👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Global Mental Wellness Podcast Network - focused, credible, no more identity clutter.👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey.Refer a GuestKnow someone who would be a great fit for one of our podcast shows? Email us at [email protected] with the subject line “Refer a Guest.” Requests without this subject line cannot be catered to.Support Our Podcast: Support this Podcast📬 Contact & LinksBrand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️Contact UsBased in: India & USA🎧 All Podcast Shows🤝 Be a Guest📩 Newsletter Substack👉 Join the LinkedIn Community📌 Disclaimer - This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements.If you have concerns about any content, please contact us hereBy listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here.#podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #mentalhealthmatters #mensmentalhealth #traumahealing #emotionalresilience #selfawareness #innerhealing #personalgrowth #breakingthestigma #mentalhealthsupport #healingjourney #mindsetshift #therapyworks