<p><strong>Have you ever wondered if the wedding is getting more attention than the marriage?</strong></p><p><br /></p><p>Eloping used to sound like “run to the courthouse in secret”… but in this episode of The Real Connect Podcast, Tamika Carlton sits down with Kate Okenatez-Mahoney, founder of Soul and Sky Weddings, to flip that whole narrative. Kate specializes in adventure elopements—think Alaska glaciers, mountaintops, national parks, and even cliffside ceremonies that require rock climbing to reach.</p><p><br /></p><p>This conversation is about intention, boundaries, and choosing a love story that feels like yours (not your aunt’s, not your mom’s, not Instagram’s). </p><p><br /></p><p>Kate breaks down what modern elopements actually look like, how couples navigate family pressure, why private vows can be a game-changer, and the mindset shift that turns “we can’t” into “we just have to turn a little bit.”</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>What You Will Hear About:</strong></p><p><br /></p><p>1. What a “modern elopement” really is.</p><p><br /></p><p>2. Why Kate believes eloping is often a more intentional way to marry.</p><p><br /></p><p>3. The real difference between planning a wedding for others vs. designing an experience for your relationship.</p><p><br /></p><p>4. How couples handle family opinions, guilt, and boundaries.</p><p><br /></p><p>5. Multi-day elopements: family day vs. private vow day.</p><p><br /></p><p>6. Kate’s “villain origin story.”</p><p><br /></p><p>7. Why Alaska is the ultimate elopement backdrop.</p><p><br /></p><p>8. The “True North” planning exercise</p><p><br /></p><p>9. Why “extraordinary” matters, and why you don’t have time to settle on your day.</p><p><br /></p><p>If you’re anticipating the strife of wedding planning or thinking about eloping, or feeling pulled between what you want and what everyone expects, this episode is for you.</p><p><br /></p><p>🔗 Watch, subscribe, and share this episode if you’re trying to love better, set real boundaries, and stay connected.</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Connect with Kate/Soul and Sky Weddings: </strong>https://soulandskyweddings.com/</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Connect with Kate on LinkedIn: </strong>https://www.linkedin.com/in/kate-okenatez-mahoney/</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Connect with Kate/Soul and Sky Weddings on Instagram: </strong>https://www.instagram.com/soulandskyweddings</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Connect with Tamika on Instagram: </strong>https://www.instagram.com/tamika_carltonjbp</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Join The Connect (free weekly newsletter): </strong>https://www.tamikacarlton.com/newsletter</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Visit Tamika’s website:</strong> https://www.tamikacarlton.com</p><p><br /></p><p>00:00 The Essence of Eloping</p><p>00:36 Introduction to the Podcast</p><p>01:02 Meet Kate: The Adventurous Elopement Photographer</p><p>02:55 The True Meaning of Elopement</p><p>05:41 Why Alaska?</p><p>06:50 The Origin Story: From Traditional to Adventurous</p><p>08:23 The Unique Challenges and Joys of Elopements</p><p>11:50 Finding the Right Clients</p><p>13:52 Creating Memorable Experiences</p><p>16:51 Balancing Family Expectations and Personal Desires</p><p>20:05 The Importance of Boundaries and Personal Vision</p><p>25:15 Elopement and Reception Ideas</p><p>26:11 Choosing Between Elopement and Traditional Weddings</p><p>27:59 The Importance of Extraordinary Weddings</p><p>29:00 Transition from Corporate HR to Photography</p><p>31:10 Embracing Change and Adventure</p><p>43:39 Speed Round and Final Thoughts</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>#TheRealConnectPodcast #TamikaCarlton #Elopement #DestinationWedding #MicroWedding #WeddingPlanning #Marriage #RelationshipAdvice </p>