Ep #70: Are You Desperate for Wanting a Relationship?

MAY 25, 202629 MIN
The Secure Love Club Podcast

Ep #70: Are You Desperate for Wanting a Relationship?

MAY 25, 202629 MIN

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In this episode, we’re getting real about something so many women feel… but rarely say out loud. Wanting a relationship… thinking about it often… wondering if you’re “ruining it” by caring too much… and then judging yourself for it. Somewhere along the way, you’ve been taught that if you want love too much, you’re desperate… but if you don’t want it at all, you’re “doing it right.” And honestly? That messaging is confusing as hell. So let’s clear it up.This conversation was sparked by a follower who asked a question that I know will hit home for so many of you; how do you hold the desire for a relationship without it turning into pressure, shame, or something that makes you feel like there’s something wrong with you? We’re not here to get rid of the desire, but to change the way you relate to it, because wanting a relationship isn’t the problem, but the energy you hold around it very well could be.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why wanting a relationship doesn’t make you desperate (and what actually does)The difference between clean desire vs attached desire and how to spot where you’re operating fromThe “play it cool” trap that’s causing you to self-abandon in datingWhat you’re really craving underneath the desire for a relationshipThe grounded shift that allows you to want love deeply, without feeling consumed by it🎧 Tune in now! And if this episode resonates, send me a DM on Instagram — I’d love to hear your biggest takeaway.MIMI SOCIAL MEDIACome say hi 👋 (or DM me your biggest takeaway) on Instagram HERE!