Send us Fan MailFar too many women (especially eldest daughters) are wrestling with the aftermath of parentification, which occurs when children have to grow up too soon because of the physical absence or emotional neglect of their caregivers. In this episode, I unpack the many circumstances that can lead to parentification, the deep wounds it creates, and why it’s so damaging for your later relationships (namely marriage and parenting). BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL DISCOVER:What parentification is, the various ways in which it occurs, and why The long-term psychological harm children suffer when forced into roles they’re not developmentally ready forThe difference between instrumental and emotional parentification—and which is more damagingHow even unintentional parentification can cause inter-generational damageAdult signs & symptoms that you may have been parentified so you can work to heal and break the vicious cycle FOR SO MUCH MORE:Relevant past episodes on attachment styles:·      4 Attachment Styles Every Mom Must Know: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2471152/episodes/18536271·      3 Keys to Secure Attachment: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2471152/episodes/18563959·      The REAL Reason You’re Triggered by Your Husband & Kids: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2471152/episodes/19087521 Join the next round of Moms Made NewTM so stress no longer sabotages you—or your relationships: https://momsmadenew.com  Book a free consult with Dr. Amber 1:1: https://tidycal.com/solutionsforsimplicity/free-consult) HOMEWORK:Take a deep breath and reaffirm: I am safe. I am enough. If this episode resonated with you, share your thoughts with me via email through the link in the show notes or DM me on Instagram @solutionsforsimplicity.   COMING UP NEXT:Join me back next Tuesday at 5am Eastern to keep unpacking the hidden sources of stress stealing your time and joy.CONNECT WITH AMBER: Website | Instagram | YouTube | LinkedIn Ready to finally get to the root of your problems and change your life FOR GOOD? Book your free 60-minute consult to learn more about working 1:1 with Dr. Amber.