What happens when the person everyone relies on can no longer keep going? In this episode, Kate and Shayla sit down with Dr Emily Amos, a former GP whose own experience of burnout stopped her in her tracks and ultimately reshaped her entire understanding of care, success, and sustainability. Emily spent 15 years in medicine, building a thriving practice and supporting others through some of their most vulnerable moments. From the outside, she was capable, calm, and deeply competent. Inside, she was running on adrenaline, guilt, and a relentless sense of responsibility, until her body finally said no. What followed was not a neat recovery story, but a profound reckoning with rest, identity, and the cost of always being the strong one. This is a powerful conversation about burnout in caring professions, why capable people often miss the warning signs, and what real recovery actually looks like when you stop trying to outpace yourself. In this episode Emily’s path into medicine and why general practice is as much about life as it is about illness The slow, invisible build-up to burnout and why she didn’t see it coming The moment everything stopped, and why her body became the final boundary The difference between altruism and self-sacrifice, and why self-awareness matters How perfectionism and identity can trap high achievers in unsustainable patterns Why rest is essential, not indulgent, especially in helping professions What changed when Emily redefined success around inner capacity, not output How Whole Hearted Medicine was born, and why practitioner wellbeing is not optional This conversation explores burnout, rest and recovery in medicine, but the themes will resonate with anyone in law, healthcare, leadership, or any role where being capable has become part of your identity. Connect with Emily:  Whole Hearted Medicine W: www.dremilyamos.com IG: @dremilyamos  If you loved this episode... Share it with a friend who’s wanting a change (or just needs permission to do the thing!). Rate and review Outlaws on Apple Podcasts or Spotify — it helps more Outlaws find us Find out more Website: www.outlawspodcast.com Subscribe to our newsletter for updates, tools, and more Outlawbrary picks Connect with us Instagram: @the.outlaws.podcast - https://www.instagram.com/the.outlaws.podcast Facebook Group: Outlaws Podcast Community - https://www.facebook.com/groups/the.outlaws.podcast LinkedIn: Outlaws Podcast - https://www.linkedin.com/company/106681587 Email: [email protected] Hosted and produced by Shayla Strapps and Kate Offer