When it comes to empowering ourselves, we were told the internet would give us back control. But instead, has it simply delivered a more efficient way for us to become products, and successfully rebranded objectification as agency?We’re joined by Courtney Kocak, a writer, podcaster and comedian whose debut memoir is titled Girl Gone Wild.https://www.courtneykocak.com/https://www.privatepartsunknown.com/https://www.instagram.com/courtneykocak/https://www.tiktok.com/@courtneykocakWelcome to Ruined By The Internet? - the show where we examine how technology is shaping modern life - whether we want it to or not.Follow the show, let us know what else to look into at https://www.ruinedbytheinternet.com/, or support us at https://buymeacoffee.com/rbtishowIn this episode, we explore the complex relationship between internet culture, empowerment, and the impact of social media and AI when it comes to reshaping our concept of empowerment.We also look at how digital platforms influence self-perception, the evolution from 2000s media like Girls Gone Wild to today's monetization platforms, the impact of algorithms on our desires, and the future of authentic identity in a hyper-connected world.00:00 - The Internet's impact on empowerment and objectification03:10 - From Girls Gone Wild to self-monetization platforms like OnlyFans07:50 - The evolution of pop culture and hyper-sexualization09:12 - Tracing the cultural roots of today's online extremity13:28 - The influence of the attention economy14:37 - The rise of the manosphere and its impact16:29 - The generational difference: navigating online life and authenticity20:13 - The normalization of sex work and societal acceptance23:29 - The influence of online pornography25:34 - How online validation shapes our self-perception27:13 - Authenticity and the rejection of algorithm-driven content30:18 - The potential and pitfalls of AI in digital content and society34:47 - The impact of AI-generated actors and content on creative industries36:57 - The slow political response to AI and digital regulation38:15 - The importance of nuanced conversations39:41 - Concerns about technology's societal effects