Lorelei Lee is a writer, activist, porn performer, and activist. A graduate of Cornell Law School and New York University’s MFA program, they write regularly for a range of publications, including N+1, Buzzfeed, and Wired. In this episode, Lorelei talks to Matthew about their groundbreaking essay “Cash/Consent,” which is both a memoir of Lorelei’s time in the porn industry and a reflection on the complicated relationship between their career and their “civilian” life. 



“I often have to write the same thing many times,” Lorelei says. “I have to write it until I don’t feel the feelings, because as long as I’m still stuck on the emotional impact to myself, I’m not going to be able to understand the emotional impact on the reader. But that’s why writing and editing are two different things done at two different times.”



To connect with the team and gain access to behind the scenes content, join our community at ⁠joincampside.com⁠. You can also find us on ⁠Instagram⁠, ⁠TikTok⁠ & ⁠Youtube⁠. Have a question, guest idea, or just wanna say hi? Email us at Originstories@campsidemedia.com.

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Lorelei Lee on Cash/Consent

DEC 10, 202532 MIN
Origin Stories

Lorelei Lee on Cash/Consent

DEC 10, 202532 MIN

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Lorelei Lee is a writer, activist, porn performer, and activist. A graduate of Cornell Law School and New York University’s MFA program, they write regularly for a range of publications, including N+1, Buzzfeed, and Wired. In this episode, Lorelei talks to Matthew about their groundbreaking essay “Cash/Consent,” which is both a memoir of Lorelei’s time in the porn industry and a reflection on the complicated relationship between their career and their “civilian” life.


“I often have to write the same thing many times,” Lorelei says. “I have to write it until I don’t feel the feelings, because as long as I’m still stuck on the emotional impact to myself, I’m not going to be able to understand the emotional impact on the reader. But that’s why writing and editing are two different things done at two different times.”


To connect with the team and gain access to behind the scenes content, join our community at ⁠joincampside.com⁠. You can also find us on ⁠Instagram⁠, ⁠TikTok⁠ & ⁠Youtube⁠. Have a question, guest idea, or just wanna say hi? Email us at [email protected].