When Split Happens
When Split Happens

When Split Happens

Jay Henderlite

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When Split Happens is your go-to podcast for navigating the emotional, legal, and financial complexities of divorce and family law. Hosted by Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite, each episode cuts through the confusion with straight talk, expert insight, and real-world stories. Whether you're facing custody battles, property division, alimony, or co-parenting challenges, Jay brings clarity to the process, turning what feels like chaos into actionable next steps.Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite delivers expert family law representation across Northeast Florida, with offices in Downtown Jacksonville, Southside, St. Johns, Beaches, and Fernandina Beach. Disclaimer: When Split Happens is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Listening to this podcast or contacting the hosts does not create an attorney–client relationship. For advice about your specific situation, please contact:Sasso, Guerrero and Henderlite218 E. Ashley StJacksonville, FL 32202(904) 619-1386familylawyerjax.com,Follow us on Tik Tok, YouTube, Instagram and Facebook

Recent Episodes

What Documents Do You Need to File for Divorce in Florida?
MAR 12, 2026
What Documents Do You Need to File for Divorce in Florida?
<p>Filing for divorce in Florida requires more than just submitting a single form. In this episode of <em>When Split Happens</em>, Jacksonville family law attorney <strong>Jay Henderlite</strong> of <strong>Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite</strong> explains the key documents required to start a divorce case and why getting the paperwork right from the beginning can prevent delays and complications.</p><p>Jay walks through the core forms used to open a Florida divorce case, including the <strong>Petition for Dissolution of Marriage, Civil Cover Sheet, and Summons</strong>, and explains how these documents officially begin the legal process. He also discusses how to prove Florida residency, what <strong>financial disclosures</strong> both spouses must provide, and why transparency with bank accounts, income, and debts is required under Florida law.</p><p>For parents, the episode covers additional filings such as <strong>parenting plans and child custody jurisdiction affidavits</strong>, as well as the parenting course requirement often needed before a divorce can be finalized. Jay also discusses commonly asked questions about supporting documents like marital settlement agreements, child support worksheets, and whether missing or incorrect forms can delay a case.</p><p>If you’re preparing to file for divorce in <strong>Jacksonville or Northeast Florida</strong>, this episode provides a practical checklist of the documents and disclosures required under Florida law.</p><p>Learn more about Florida divorce and family law at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://familylawyerjax.com"><strong>familylawyerjax.com</strong></a>.</p><p>Follow Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite on <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/sghfamlaw/">Instagram</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/SGHLaw">Facebook</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sghlaw_">TikTok</a>, and <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@sgh_law/videos">YouTube</a> for Florida family law insights, legal updates, and practical guidance.</p>
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Relocation After Divorce in Florida: Legal Standards & Strategies
FEB 26, 2026
Relocation After Divorce in Florida: Legal Standards & Strategies
<p>Relocation after divorce is one of the most misunderstood areas of Florida family law. In this episode of <em>When Split Happens</em>, <strong>Jay Henderlite</strong>, a Jacksonville family law attorney with <strong>Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite</strong>, explains how Florida courts handle relocation cases and what parents must do before moving with a child.</p><p>Jay breaks down what legally qualifies as relocation under Florida law, when parental consent is enough, and when court approval is required. He explains the strict requirements for filing a relocation petition, the relocation-specific <strong>best interests</strong> standard courts apply, and why relocation is treated differently from ordinary custody modifications. The episode also covers how courts evaluate job opportunities, financial benefits, and the impact a move may have on a child’s stability and relationship with the non-relocating parent.</p><p>For parents in <strong>Jacksonville and Northeast Florida</strong> who are considering a move—or facing a proposed relocation by a co-parent—this episode offers clear guidance on legal risks, timing issues, and strategic considerations under Florida’s relocation statute.</p><p>Learn more at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://familylawyerjax.com"><strong>familylawyerjax.com</strong></a>.</p><p>Follow Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite on <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/sghfamlaw/"><strong>Instagram</strong></a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/SGHLaw"><strong>Facebook</strong></a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sghlaw_"><strong>TikTok</strong></a>, and <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@sgh_law"><strong>YouTube</strong></a> for Florida family law insights, legal updates, and practical guidance.</p>
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Military Divorce in Florida: Jurisdiction & Special Considerations
FEB 12, 2026
Military Divorce in Florida: Jurisdiction & Special Considerations
<p>Divorce involving military service raises unique legal issues under both Florida and federal law. In this episode of <em>When Split Happens</em>, <strong>Jay Henderlite</strong>, a Jacksonville family law attorney with <strong>Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite</strong>, explains what service members and military spouses need to know before filing for divorce in Florida.</p><p>This episode covers how <strong>jurisdiction and residency</strong> apply to active-duty service members, when being stationed in Florida satisfies the six-month residency requirement, and why Florida courts may have authority over the divorce itself but not over custody, child support, or property division. Jay also explains the role of the <strong>Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA)</strong>, how deployments affect parenting plans, and how Florida courts treat <strong>military pay, housing allowances, and retirement benefits</strong>.</p><p>If you are a service member or military spouse in <strong>Jacksonville or Northeast Florida</strong>, this episode offers clear, practical guidance on navigating military divorce while protecting your rights and your family’s future.</p><p>Learn more at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://familylawyerjax.com"><strong>familylawyerjax.com</strong></a> and follow Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite on <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/sghfamlaw/"><strong>Instagram</strong></a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/SGHLaw"><strong>Facebook</strong></a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sghlaw_"><strong>TikTok</strong></a>, and <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@sgh_law"><strong>YouTube</strong></a> for clear, real-world guidance on Florida divorce, custody, and family law issues.</p>
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What Rights Does an Unmarried Father Have in Florida?
JAN 30, 2026
What Rights Does an Unmarried Father Have in Florida?
<p>Unmarried fathers in Florida often feel unsure about where they stand legally—especially when it comes to custody, time-sharing, and decision-making for their children. In this episode of <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://sassoguerrerohenderlite.github.io/whensplithappens/"><em>When Split Happens</em></a>, <strong>Jay Henderlite</strong>, a Jacksonville family law attorney with <strong>Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite</strong>, breaks down what rights unmarried fathers do—and do not—have under Florida law.</p><p>Jay explains why fathers do not automatically receive parental rights at birth when the parents are unmarried, and why <strong>establishing paternity</strong> is the critical first step. Without paternity, a father has no enforceable right to custody, visitation, or involvement in major decisions. Once paternity is legally established, fathers may seek <strong>time-sharing, shared parental responsibility, and equal consideration in custody matters</strong>.</p><p>This episode covers how Florida courts handle parenting cases involving unmarried parents, including how paternity is established, whether mothers are favored in custody decisions, when 50/50 time-sharing may be appropriate, and how parental responsibility and child support are legally connected.</p><p>Jay also discusses why delaying action can make it harder to change an existing parenting arrangement—particularly for fathers in <strong>Jacksonville and Northeast Florida</strong>, where courts prioritize stability and a child’s best interests.</p><p>If you are an unmarried father with questions about paternity, custody, or child support in Florida, this episode provides practical guidance to help you understand your rights and options.</p><p><strong>Connect With Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite</strong></p><p>Follow us for Florida family law insights, legal education, and updates on divorce, custody, child support, and paternity cases in Jacksonville and throughout Northeast Florida.</p><ul><li><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/sghfamlaw/"><strong>Instagram</strong></a></li><li><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/SGHLaw"><strong>Facebook</strong></a></li><li><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sghlaw"><strong>TikTok</strong></a></li><li><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@sgh_law"><strong>YouTube</strong></a></li></ul><p>Learn more about our Florida family law practice at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://familylawyerjax.com"><strong>familylawyerjax.com</strong></a>.</p>
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Do You Have to Be Separated Before Divorce in Florida?
JAN 15, 2026
Do You Have to Be Separated Before Divorce in Florida?
<p>In this episode of <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://sassoguerrerohenderlite.github.io/whensplithappens/"><em>When Split Happens</em></a>, Jacksonville family law attorney <strong>Jay Henderlite</strong> of <strong>Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite</strong> answers a question that surprises many couples: <em>Do you have to be legally separated before filing for divorce in Florida?</em> The short answer is no—but Florida’s divorce laws have important rules every spouse should understand before filing.</p><p>Jay explains why Florida does <strong>not recognize legal separation</strong>, how the state’s <strong>no-fault divorce system</strong> works, and what legally replaces separation under Florida law. Listeners will learn the two requirements for filing a divorce in Florida—<strong>the six-month residency rule</strong> and the standard of <strong>“irretrievable breakdown of the marriage.”</strong></p><p>This episode also covers common concerns for couples who are living apart but not yet divorced, including:</p><ul><li>Whether living separately affects divorce, custody, or time-sharing decisions</li><li>How income, debts, and marital assets are treated during separation</li><li>What happens if one spouse disagrees that the marriage is over</li><li>Whether Florida recognizes trial separations or separation agreements</li><li>How parents can establish temporary support or custody without filing for divorce</li><li>When a petition for support unconnected with dissolution may be appropriate</li></ul><p>Jay also discusses how informal separation can impact parenting arrangements, financial rights, and future court decisions—especially for families in <strong>Jacksonville and Northeast Florida</strong>.</p><p>If you’re considering divorce, recently separated, or trying to understand your legal options before taking the next step, this episode provides clear, Florida-specific guidance from an experienced <strong>Jacksonville divorce attorney</strong>.</p><p>Learn more about Florida divorce and family law at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://familylawyerjax.com"><strong>familylawyerjax.com</strong></a>.</p><p>Connect with us on <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@sgh_law">YouTube</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/SGHLaw">Facebook</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/sghfamlaw/">Instagram</a>, &amp; <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sghlaw_">TikTok</a></p>
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