When Split Happens
When Split Happens

When Split Happens

Jay Henderlite

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When Split Happens is your go-to podcast for navigating the emotional, legal, and financial complexities of divorce and family law. Hosted by Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite, each episode cuts through the confusion with straight talk, expert insight, and real-world stories. Whether you're facing custody battles, property division, alimony, or co-parenting challenges, Jay brings clarity to the process, turning what feels like chaos into actionable next steps.Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite delivers expert family law representation across Northeast Florida, with offices in Downtown Jacksonville, Southside, St. Johns, Beaches, and Fernandina Beach. Disclaimer: When Split Happens is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Listening to this podcast or contacting the hosts does not create an attorney–client relationship. For advice about your specific situation, please contact:Sasso, Guerrero and Henderlite218 E. Ashley StJacksonville, FL 32202(904) 619-1386familylawyerjax.com,Follow us on Tik Tok, YouTube, Instagram and Facebook

Recent Episodes

When Is a Guardian ad Litem Appointed in Florida Custody Cases?
MAY 29, 2026
When Is a Guardian ad Litem Appointed in Florida Custody Cases?
<p>In some Florida custody cases, the court may appoint a <strong>Guardian ad Litem (GAL)</strong> to investigate and provide recommendations focused on a child’s best interests. In this episode of <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://sassoguerrerohenderlite.github.io/whensplithappens/"><em>When Split Happens</em>,</a> <strong>Jay Henderlite</strong> of <strong>Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite</strong> explains what a Guardian ad Litem does, when one may be appointed, and how the process can affect a custody case.</p><p>Jay discusses the role of a GAL in high-conflict parenting disputes, cases involving allegations of abuse or neglect, and situations where the court needs additional information before making decisions about custody or time-sharing. He also explains how GAL investigations work, who may request one, how costs are handled, and whether judges are required to follow a GAL’s recommendations.</p><p>For parents involved in custody litigation in <strong>Jacksonville or Northeast Florida</strong>, understanding the role of a Guardian ad Litem can help reduce uncertainty and prepare you for what to expect during the process.</p><p>Learn more at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://familylawyerjax.com"><strong>familylawyerjax.com</strong></a>.</p><p>Follow Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite on <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/sghfamlaw/">Instagram</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/SGHLaw">Facebook</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sghlaw_">TikTok</a>, and <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@sgh_law">YouTube</a> for Florida family law insights, legal updates, and practical guidance.</p>
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How Detailed Should a Timesharing Schedule Be in Florida?
MAY 15, 2026
How Detailed Should a Timesharing Schedule Be in Florida?
<p>A parenting plan is one of the most important parts of any Florida custody case—and vague schedules can lead to years of conflict. In this episode of <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://sassoguerrerohenderlite.github.io/whensplithappens/"><em>When Split Happens</em>,</a> <strong>Jay Henderlite</strong> of <strong>Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite</strong> explains how detailed a Florida timesharing schedule should be and why specificity matters.</p><p>Jay discusses the key components of a strong parenting plan, including weekly schedules, holiday rotations, summer and school-break arrangements, exchange logistics, communication methods, and decision-making responsibilities. He also explains why terms like “reasonable timesharing” often create problems and how unclear parenting plans can lead parents back to court.</p><p>Whether you’re creating a parenting plan for the first time or considering modifications later, this episode highlights how detailed scheduling can reduce misunderstandings and help protect long-term co-parenting stability.</p><p>If you’re navigating custody or timesharing issues in <strong>Jacksonville or Northeast Florida</strong>, this episode provides practical guidance on building a parenting plan that works in real life and under Florida law.</p><p>Learn more at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://familylawyerjax.com"><strong>familylawyerjax.com</strong></a>. </p><p>Follow Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite on <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/sghfamlaw/">Instagram</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/SGHLaw">Facebook</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sghlaw_">TikTok</a>, and <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@sgh_law">YouTube</a> for Florida family law insights, legal updates, and practical guidance.</p>
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Where Do You File for Divorce in Jacksonville and Duval County?
APR 29, 2026
Where Do You File for Divorce in Jacksonville and Duval County?
<p>If you’re considering divorce in Jacksonville, one of the first questions is: <em>where do you actually file your case?</em> In this episode of <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://sassoguerrerohenderlite.github.io/whensplithappens/"><em>When Split Happens</em></a>, <strong>Jay Henderlite</strong> of <strong>Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite</strong> explains how filing works in Duval County and what you need to know to get started correctly.</p><p>Jay breaks down how divorce cases are handled through the <strong>Fourth Judicial Circuit Court of Florida</strong>, including where Duval County residents file, how venue works when spouses live in different locations, and what happens after a case is submitted. He also covers practical details like e-filing, service of process, and where hearings typically take place.</p><p>Whether you’re filing on your own or working with an attorney, understanding the correct court and filing process can help you avoid delays and keep your case moving forward.</p><p>If you’re navigating divorce in <strong>Jacksonville or Duval County</strong>, this episode provides a clear overview of how the local court system works and what to expect.</p><p>Learn more at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://familylawyerjax.com"><strong>familylawyerjax.com</strong></a>.</p><p>Follow Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite on <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/sghfamlaw/">Instagram</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/SGHLaw">Facebook</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sghlaw_">TikTok</a>, and <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@sgh_law">YouTube</a> for Florida family law insights, legal updates, and practical guidance.</p>
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When Should You Hire a Family Law Attorney Instead of DIY Filing?
APR 15, 2026
When Should You Hire a Family Law Attorney Instead of DIY Filing?
<p>Many people starting a divorce or custody case in Florida ask the same question: <em>Do I really need a lawyer, or can I handle this myself?</em> In this episode of <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://sassoguerrerohenderlite.github.io/whensplithappens/"><em>When Split Happens</em>,</a> Jacksonville family law attorney <strong>Jay Henderlite</strong> of <strong>Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite</strong> explains when a do-it-yourself approach may work—and when hiring an attorney is the smarter choice.</p><p>Jay outlines the limited situations where a <strong>simplified divorce</strong> may be appropriate, such as when both spouses fully agree and there are no children or complex financial issues. He also explains why cases involving <strong>children, significant assets, or disagreement</strong> quickly become more complicated and require careful legal planning.</p><p>The episode covers common risks of DIY filing, including incomplete parenting plans, improper division of assets like retirement accounts, and the challenges of navigating financial disclosure or legal procedures without representation. Jay also discusses how having an attorney can help protect your rights when there is an imbalance of information or when the other party has legal counsel.</p><p>For individuals in <strong>Jacksonville and Northeast Florida</strong> trying to decide how to approach a divorce or custody case, this episode provides practical guidance to help you choose the right path from the start.</p><p>Learn more at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://familylawyerjax.com"><strong>familylawyerjax.com</strong></a>.</p><p>Follow Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite on <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/sghfamlaw/">Instagram</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/SGHLaw">Facebook</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sghlaw_">TikTok</a>, and <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@sgh_law">YouTube</a> for Florida family law insights, legal updates, and practical guidance.</p>
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What Does It Mean to Be a Board-Certified Family Law Attorney in Florida?
MAR 26, 2026
What Does It Mean to Be a Board-Certified Family Law Attorney in Florida?
<p>In this episode of <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://sassoguerrerohenderlite.github.io/whensplithappens/"><strong>When Split Happens</strong></a>, <strong>Jay Henderlite</strong> of <strong>Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite</strong> explains what it actually means to be a <strong>board-certified marital and family law attorney in Florida</strong>.</p><p>Jay walks through the exact standards set by <strong>The Florida Bar</strong>, including the required years of practice, documented case experience, specialty continuing legal education, the written certification exam, and the confidential peer review process.</p><p>You’ll also learn why board certification is considered the <strong>highest level of attorney evaluation in Florida</strong>, how few lawyers earn the designation, and why it can be an important quality signal when choosing a divorce or custody attorney.</p><p>If you’re navigating divorce, custody, or other family law issues in Florida, this episode helps clarify what attorney credentials really mean and how they can affect your choice of representation.</p><p>Learn more at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://familylawyerjax.com"><strong>familylawyerjax.com</strong></a></p><p><strong>Connect with us:</strong> Follow us for more Florida family law insights and updates. YouTube: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@sgh_law">https://www.youtube.com/@sgh_law</a> TikTok: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sghlaw_">https://www.tiktok.com/@sghlaw_</a> Instagram: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/sghfamlaw/">https://www.instagram.com/sghfamlaw/</a> Facebook: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/SGHLaw">https://www.facebook.com/SGHLaw</a></p><p><strong>Topics covered:</strong> board-certified family law attorney Florida, Florida Bar board certification, Jacksonville divorce lawyer, family law specialist Florida.</p>
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