When Split Happens
When Split Happens

When Split Happens

Jay Henderlite

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When Split Happens is your go-to podcast for navigating the emotional, legal, and financial complexities of divorce and family law. Hosted by Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite, each episode cuts through the confusion with straight talk, expert insight, and real-world stories. Whether you're facing custody battles, property division, alimony, or co-parenting challenges, Jay brings clarity to the process, turning what feels like chaos into actionable next steps.Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite delivers expert family law representation across Northeast Florida, with offices in Downtown Jacksonville, Southside, St. Johns, Beaches, and Fernandina Beach. Disclaimer: When Split Happens is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Listening to this podcast or contacting the hosts does not create an attorney–client relationship. For advice about your specific situation, please contact:Sasso, Guerrero and Henderlite218 E. Ashley StJacksonville, FL 32202(904) 619-1386familylawyerjax.com,Follow us on Tik Tok, YouTube, Instagram and Facebook

Recent Episodes

Do You Have to Be Separated Before Divorce in Florida?
JAN 15, 2026
Do You Have to Be Separated Before Divorce in Florida?
<p>In this episode of <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://sassoguerrerohenderlite.github.io/whensplithappens/"><em>When Split Happens</em></a>, Jacksonville family law attorney <strong>Jay Henderlite</strong> of <strong>Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite</strong> answers a question that surprises many couples: <em>Do you have to be legally separated before filing for divorce in Florida?</em> The short answer is no—but Florida’s divorce laws have important rules every spouse should understand before filing.</p><p>Jay explains why Florida does <strong>not recognize legal separation</strong>, how the state’s <strong>no-fault divorce system</strong> works, and what legally replaces separation under Florida law. Listeners will learn the two requirements for filing a divorce in Florida—<strong>the six-month residency rule</strong> and the standard of <strong>“irretrievable breakdown of the marriage.”</strong></p><p>This episode also covers common concerns for couples who are living apart but not yet divorced, including:</p><ul><li>Whether living separately affects divorce, custody, or time-sharing decisions</li><li>How income, debts, and marital assets are treated during separation</li><li>What happens if one spouse disagrees that the marriage is over</li><li>Whether Florida recognizes trial separations or separation agreements</li><li>How parents can establish temporary support or custody without filing for divorce</li><li>When a petition for support unconnected with dissolution may be appropriate</li></ul><p>Jay also discusses how informal separation can impact parenting arrangements, financial rights, and future court decisions—especially for families in <strong>Jacksonville and Northeast Florida</strong>.</p><p>If you’re considering divorce, recently separated, or trying to understand your legal options before taking the next step, this episode provides clear, Florida-specific guidance from an experienced <strong>Jacksonville divorce attorney</strong>.</p><p>Learn more about Florida divorce and family law at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://familylawyerjax.com"><strong>familylawyerjax.com</strong></a>.</p><p>Connect with us on <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@sgh_law">YouTube</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/SGHLaw">Facebook</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/sghfamlaw/">Instagram</a>, &amp; <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sghlaw_">TikTok</a></p>
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Can You Change Child Support in Florida? What the Law Says About Modifications
DEC 10, 2025
Can You Change Child Support in Florida? What the Law Says About Modifications
<p>In this episode of <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://sassoguerrerohenderlite.github.io/whensplithappens/"><em>When Split Happens</em></a>, Jacksonville family law attorney <strong>Jay Henderlite</strong> of <strong>Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite</strong> breaks down when and how child support can be modified under <strong>Florida Statute 61.14</strong>. Learn what counts as a substantial, permanent, and involuntary change in circumstances, how courts recalculate support, and why timing matters more than most parents realize.</p><p>Jay covers:</p><ul><li>How income changes, job loss, medical needs, or therapy costs may justify a modification</li><li>When courts impute income for voluntary underemployment</li><li>Why agreements between parents aren’t valid until approved by a judge</li><li>The complete modification process, including petitions, financial affidavits, and mediation</li><li>Common issues for military and offshore-working parents in Northeast Florida</li><li>Mistakes that can cost parents thousands in back support</li></ul><p>If you’re navigating changes in finances, childcare costs, or your child’s needs, this Florida-specific guide helps you understand whether you meet the legal standard for modification in Jacksonville and surrounding counties.</p><p><strong>Connect with Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite:</strong></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://familylawyerjax.com/">familylawyerjax.com</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/sghfamlaw/">Instagram</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/SGHLaw">Facebook</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sghlaw_">TikTok</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@sgh_law">YouTube</a></p><p></p>
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Do Moms Always Get Custody? The Truth About Child Custody
NOV 25, 2025
Do Moms Always Get Custody? The Truth About Child Custody
<p>In this episode of <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://sassoguerrerohenderlite.github.io/whensplithappens/"><em>When Split Happens</em></a>, attorney Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite breaks down one of the biggest misconceptions in Florida family law — the belief that mothers automatically get custody. Jay explains how Florida’s custody laws are gender-neutral, how courts apply the “best interests of the child” standard, and why both parents start on equal footing.</p><p>You’ll learn what judges look for when determining time-sharing, how the 2023 presumption of 50/50 custody works, and when equal time may not be appropriate. Jay also shares practical tips for parents in Jacksonville who are preparing for divorce, separation, or a custody case, including how to show involvement, maintain stability, and communicate effectively with the co-parent.</p><p><strong>About </strong><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://familylawyerjax.com/"><strong>Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite</strong></a><strong> (Jacksonville, FL):</strong> Family law attorneys serving Northeast Florida in divorce, child custody, child support, parenting plans, and paternity cases.</p><p><strong>Follow Us: </strong><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/sghfamlaw/">Instagram</a>,<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/SGHLaw"> Facebook</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sghlaw_">TikTok</a>, &amp; <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@sgh_law">YouTube</a></p>
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Florida Family Court – Judges Care About Stability Over Winning
NOV 11, 2025
Florida Family Court – Judges Care About Stability Over Winning
<p>What really matters in a Florida family courtroom? It’s not about defeating the other parent—it’s about creating stability for your children. In this episode of <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://sassoguerrerohenderlite.github.io/whensplithappens/"><em>When Split Happens</em></a>, Jay Henderlite of <strong>Sasso, Guerrero &amp; Henderlite</strong> explains how Florida family law judges decide custody and time-sharing cases based on the best interests of the child.</p><p>Learn what “stability” means in Florida custody law, how to show consistent involvement as a parent, and what behaviors can strengthen—or hurt—your case. This episode is essential for parents navigating divorce, custody, or family law issues in Jacksonville and the First Coast.</p><p><strong>Sasso, Guerrero &amp; Henderlite</strong> 218 E. Ashley St Jacksonville, FL 32202 (904) 619-1386 <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://familylawyerjax.com">familylawyerjax.com</a> Follow: <a target="_new" rel="noopener" class="decorated-link" href="https://www.facebook.com/SGHLaw">Facebook</a>, <a target="_new" rel="noopener" class="decorated-link" href="https://www.instagram.com/sghfamlaw/">Instagram</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sghlaw_">TikTok</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@sgh_law">YouTube</a></p>
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The Biggest Prenup Myth: Why Prenuptial Agreements Protect Both Partners
OCT 27, 2025
The Biggest Prenup Myth: Why Prenuptial Agreements Protect Both Partners
<p>Are prenups just for the wealthy or a sign of distrust? In Episode 3 of "<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://sassoguerrerohenderlite.github.io/whensplithappens/">When Split Happens</a>," Jacksonville’s board-certified family law attorney Jay Henderlite debunks prenup myths, revealing how prenuptial agreements foster trust and fairness under Florida law. Learn how prenups clarify asset division, protect businesses or inheritances, and simplify divorce, while understanding what they can’t do—like set child custody.</p><p>Jay answers key questions: Are prenups enforceable in Florida? Can you create one after marriage? How do they benefit both partners? Tailored for Northeast Florida couples planning marriage or navigating divorce, this episode delivers expert advice to secure your financial future.</p><p>Join "When Split Happens" for ongoing family law guidance, explore <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://FamilyLawyerJax.com">FamilyLawyerJax.com</a> for tailored support from Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite’s board-certified team, or connect with us on <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/sghfamlaw/">Instagram</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sghlaw_">Tik Tok</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/SGHLaw">Facebook</a> or <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@sgh_law">YouTube</a> for divorce insights. Build your future with confidence today!</p><p></p>
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4 MIN