When Split Happens
When Split Happens

When Split Happens

Jay Henderlite

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When Split Happens is your go-to podcast for navigating the emotional, legal, and financial complexities of divorce and family law. Hosted by Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite, each episode cuts through the confusion with straight talk, expert insight, and real-world stories. Whether you're facing custody battles, property division, alimony, or co-parenting challenges, Jay brings clarity to the process, turning what feels like chaos into actionable next steps.

Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite delivers expert family law representation across Northeast Florida, with offices in Downtown Jacksonville, Southside, St. Johns, Beaches, and Fernandina Beach.

Disclaimer: When Split Happens is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Listening to this podcast or contacting the hosts does not create an attorney–client relationship. For advice about your specific situation, please contact:

Sasso, Guerrero and Henderlite

218 E. Ashley St

Jacksonville, FL 32202

(904) 619-1386

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Recent Episodes

Do Moms Always Get Custody? The Truth About Child Custody
NOV 25, 2025
Do Moms Always Get Custody? The Truth About Child Custody
<p>In this episode of <em>When Split Happens</em>, attorney Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite breaks down one of the biggest misconceptions in Florida family law — the belief that mothers automatically get custody. Jay explains how Florida’s custody laws are gender-neutral, how courts apply the “best interests of the child” standard, and why both parents start on equal footing.</p><p>You’ll learn what judges look for when determining time-sharing, how the 2023 presumption of 50/50 custody works, and when equal time may not be appropriate. Jay also shares practical tips for parents in Jacksonville who are preparing for divorce, separation, or a custody case, including how to show involvement, maintain stability, and communicate effectively with the co-parent.</p><p><strong>About Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite (Jacksonville, FL):</strong> Family law attorneys serving Northeast Florida in divorce, child custody, child support, parenting plans, and paternity cases.</p><p><strong>Follow Us: </strong><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/sghfamlaw/">Instagram</a>,<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/SGHLaw"> Facebook</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sghlaw_">TikTok</a>, &amp; <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@sgh_law">YouTube</a></p>
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Florida Family Court – Judges Care About Stability Over Winning
NOV 11, 2025
Florida Family Court – Judges Care About Stability Over Winning
<p>What really matters in a Florida family courtroom? It’s not about defeating the other parent—it’s about creating stability for your children. In this episode of <em>When Split Happens</em>, Jay Henderlite of <strong>Sasso, Guerrero &amp; Henderlite</strong> explains how Florida family law judges decide custody and time-sharing cases based on the best interests of the child.</p><p>Learn what “stability” means in Florida custody law, how to show consistent involvement as a parent, and what behaviors can strengthen—or hurt—your case. This episode is essential for parents navigating divorce, custody, or family law issues in Jacksonville and the First Coast.</p><p><strong>Sasso, Guerrero &amp; Henderlite</strong> 218 E. Ashley St Jacksonville, FL 32202 (904) 619-1386 <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://familylawyerjax.com">familylawyerjax.com</a> Follow: <a target="_new" rel="noopener" class="decorated-link" href="https://www.facebook.com/SGHLaw">Facebook</a>, <a target="_new" rel="noopener" class="decorated-link" href="https://www.instagram.com/sghfamlaw/">Instagram</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sghlaw_">TikTok</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@sgh_law">YouTube</a></p>
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The Biggest Prenup Myth: Why Prenuptial Agreements Protect Both Partners
OCT 27, 2025
The Biggest Prenup Myth: Why Prenuptial Agreements Protect Both Partners
<p>Are prenups just for the wealthy or a sign of distrust? In Episode 3 of "<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://sassoguerrerohenderlite.github.io/whensplithappens/">When Split Happens</a>," Jacksonville’s board-certified family law attorney Jay Henderlite debunks prenup myths, revealing how prenuptial agreements foster trust and fairness under Florida law. Learn how prenups clarify asset division, protect businesses or inheritances, and simplify divorce, while understanding what they can’t do—like set child custody.</p><p>Jay answers key questions: Are prenups enforceable in Florida? Can you create one after marriage? How do they benefit both partners? Tailored for Northeast Florida couples planning marriage or navigating divorce, this episode delivers expert advice to secure your financial future.</p><p>Join "When Split Happens" for ongoing family law guidance, explore <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://FamilyLawyerJax.com">FamilyLawyerJax.com</a> for tailored support from Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite’s board-certified team, or connect with us on <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/sghfamlaw/">Instagram</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sghlaw_">Tik Tok</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/SGHLaw">Facebook</a> or <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@sgh_law">YouTube</a> for divorce insights. Build your future with confidence today!</p><p></p>
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When Can a Child Choose Which Parent to Live With?
OCT 13, 2025
When Can a Child Choose Which Parent to Live With?
<p>When can a child choose their parent in Florida custody cases? On "<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://sassoguerrerohenderlite.github.io/whensplithappens/">When Split Happens</a>," <strong>Jacksonville</strong> family law attorney Jay Henderlite answers this in Episode 2. Debunking myths about age-based choice, Jay explains how Florida courts prioritize a child’s best interests over ages like 12 or 16. Learn how judges assess a child’s maturity, why private discussions shield kids from conflict, and what to do if a teen refuses visitation. Jay simplifies Florida custody laws, the child’s voice, and parenting plan modifications. Tailored for <strong>Northeast Florida</strong> parents navigating divorce or custody disputes, this episode delivers expert advice to ensure your child’s stability. Join "When Split Happens" for ongoing family law guidance, check out <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://FamilyLawyerJax.com">FamilyLawyerJax.com</a> for tailored support from <strong>Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite</strong>, or engage with us on <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/sghfamlaw/">Instagram</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@sgh_law">YouTube</a>, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sghlaw_">Tik Tok</a> or <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/SGHLaw">Facebook</a> for divorce tips and updates. Start your custody journey with practical advice now!</p><p></p>
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Back to School Coparenting Rules and Tips
OCT 2, 2025
Back to School Coparenting Rules and Tips
<p>Start the school year right with "<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://sassoguerrerohenderlite.github.io/whensplithappens/">When Split Happens</a>," your guide to navigating divorce and family law. In this premiere episode, host Jay Henderlite, a dedicated family law attorney at Sasso Guerrero &amp; Henderlite in Jacksonville, Florida, shares expert co-parenting tips for the back-to-school season. Using a simple framework—rules, routines, and relationships—Jay explains how to minimize stress and conflict. Learn:</p><ul><li>Why adhering to your Florida parenting plan is crucial</li><li>How shared calendars ensure stability</li><li>Ways to foster positive communication for your child’s academic and emotional success</li></ul><p>Jay answers key questions, like who covers school supplies post-divorce and whether one parent can alter schedules without consent. Tailored for parents navigating custody or co-parenting challenges, this episode delivers practical strategies to help kids thrive. Subscribe to "When Split Happens" for more family law insights, and visit <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://familylawyerjax.com">familylawyerjax.com</a> for personalized support from our experienced team. Empower your co-parenting journey with clear, actionable advice today!</p>
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