15. Learning to Stay: What 100 Days Sober Taught Me About Self-Trust
APR 20, 202615 MIN
15. Learning to Stay: What 100 Days Sober Taught Me About Self-Trust
APR 20, 202615 MIN
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Send us Fan MailFor the past few years, I’ve challenged myself to do Dry January. But…this year became something much bigger. What started as “just seeing if I could do it” turned into 100 days sober. Honestly? The biggest thing I’ve gained hasn’t been about alcohol at all! It’s been about self-trust, and proving to myself that I CAN do hard things, sit with uncomfortable feelings, and stay present (even when I want to check out).Believe me, I totally understand the many “quiet” ways that so many moms cope. Whether it’s alcohol, scrolling, overworking, or staying constantly busy, sooo many of us are just trying to find relief from #allthethings that come with motherhood. More than anything, this episode is about learning how to STAY. Stay with yourself, your body, your hard emotions, and your life…even when it feels uncomfortable. Self-trust is not built in huge, dramatic moments -it’s built in small, quiet choices over and over again. This is your reminder that you do not have to be “perfect” to rebuild that trust - you just need to keep staying!Episode Recap:How doing Dry January turned into 100 days sober + a deeper journey of self-trustLearning to stay with hard emotions instead of immediately checking outWhy self-trust matters just as much as confidence or disciplineHow ADHD can impact follow-through, emotional regulation & identityThe connection between ADHD, overwhelm, and substance useWhy many moms use alcohol (or other coping tools) to regulate an overwhelmed nervous systemRealizing alcohol was often about seeking relief, not the drink itselfHow stopping drinking changed relationships, socializing & identityThe unexpected benefits that came with cutting alcohol What really builds self-trust over time**Disclaimer: The content shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for therapy or mental health care. If you’re struggling or need support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional in your area, because you don’t have to go through it alone.Links/Resources:Follow on Instagram @tztherapyCheck out my website