Send a text This Episode explores how a century of manipulation techniques became smartphone features, through conversations with Jean Cavendish, a clinical psychiatrist who spent decades helping people escape cult programming. Jean died on November 17, 2025, a month after recording. This episode is a dedication to her life and work.The episode features testimony from Lori Schott about how Meta targets children's insecurities, and Taj Jensen, a fellow parent who lost his son to fentanyl purchased on Snapchat.At its core, this is about recognizing the systems designed to keep us scrolling, buying, and reacting—and asking the question that matters: What are you really hungry for?00:00 — Opening Reflection03:46 — The Birth of Influence07:26 — The King of the Engineers11:18 — The Toolkit of Persuasion13:03 — Selling Our Own Destruction14:29 — The Shame Machine ( testimony from Lori Schott)21:06 — Fear as a Business Model25:54 — The Science of Addiction30:55 — The Human Cost32:32 — The Wisdom of Jean Cavendish36:12 — The Teenage Brain38:15 — Hooked Forever43:08 — Receipts and Responsibility45:06 — Tanner’s Story (Guest Taj Jenson)50:19 — Breaking the CycleContent warning: teen death, drug sales, and exploitation.Music by: Kjartan Abel CC BY-SA 4.0 https://kjartan-abel.com