Gap to Gig – Working Dads' Guide to Fatherhood, Meaningful Work, & Finding Balance in Life

Michael Jacobs - Working Dads & Fatherhood Expert

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Gap to Gig explores the life in between who we are, what we do, and the life we want to build as working dads. Through honest conversations with dads, experts, leaders, and people who have navigated their own twists and turns, host Michael Jacobs explores fatherhood, work-life balance, meaningful work, parenting, identity, ambition, relationships, and what actually matters most in modern life. Most of life's biggest decisions don't belong exclusively to work or family. They live somewhere in between, where the challenge isn't simply succeeding at work or showing up at home, but figuring out how all the pieces fit together. How do you build a meaningful career without losing yourself in it? How do you stay ambitious while remaining present for the people who matter most? How do you navigate career changes, setbacks, uncertainty, and new opportunities while still showing up for your family? How do you know if you're spending your time on the right things? This show is for working dads who feel pulled between responsibility and fulfillment, ambition and presence, work and the rest of life. The dads who don't want to wake up ten years from now wondering where the time went. Every conversation is designed to help you make more intentional choices about your work, your relationships, and the life you're building before the years have a chance to pass you by. Along the way, you'll find practical ideas, fresh perspective, and the confidence that comes from knowing you're not the only dad asking these questions.

Recent Episodes

SEP 15, 2026
Jacqui Myslinski on Simplifying Life for Busy Working Dads
For many busy working dads, life doesn't feel overwhelming because of one big problem. It feels overwhelming because of dozens of small frustrations that quietly pile up every day. Jacqui Myslinski has spent her career helping businesses create better systems, but the same principles she uses to simplify operations at work have transformed the way she and her family approach life at home. From reducing daily stress to setting clearer expectations with kids, Jacqui believes the right systems create more freedom. Jacqui shares how to: Identify the recurring frustrations that create unnecessary stress Build simple systems that reduce mental load at home and make busy weeks feel more manageable Set clear expectations with kids instead of assuming they'll "just know" Create routines that encourage independence without overwhelming your family Replace constant reactions with intentional habits Make work life balance feel more manageable through small, consistent improvements Jacqui offers a practical perspective for busy working dads navigating fatherhood, work life balance, parenting, meaningful work, and the everyday realities of balancing family, career, and home. Dig Deeper Notion Mario Kart Yes Day Domino’s Pizza 30 Minutes or Less Rugrats Spidey and His Amazing Friends Janis Joplin Piano Man Follow Jacqui On her website On TikTok On YouTube On LinkedIn Sign up for her masterclass Follow Gap to Gig On Instagram On TikTok On X On YouTube On your podcast player of choice Sign up for the Gap to Gig newsletter Follow Michael On LinkedIn
54 MIN
SEP 8, 2026
Kurt Bush on Redefining Success as a Working Dad
Many working dads spend years chasing the next promotion, milestone, or achievement, believing success will finally bring fulfillment, but when your definition of success comes from everyone else's expectations, it's easy to lose sight of the life you're actually trying to build. Kurt Bush has spent decades leading teams across manufacturing and nonprofit organizations before becoming a trauma-informed coach, certified Internal Family Systems practitioner, and co-founder of Brimstone Coaching Group. He's discovered that many high achievers aren't struggling because they lack ambition. They're exhausted because they're pursuing goals that no longer align with who they are. Kurt shares how to: Define success based on your own values instead of outside expectations Focus on how you show up instead of outcomes you can't control Build a simple habit of reflection that creates lasting personal growth Navigate modern dad challenges with greater self-awareness Strengthen your relationships by responding instead of reacting Pursue meaningful work without losing yourself along the way Kurt offers a thoughtful perspective on fatherhood, work life balance, dad identity and ambition, and the importance of aligning your work, relationships, and decisions with what matters most to you. Dig Deeper Internal Family Systems Theory Whistler, BC Combined No-Hitters Phineas and Ferb Only Want To Be With You Follow Kurt On his website On his podcast, Live Fully. Lead Authentically. On Instagram On LinkedIn Read his book, Live Fully, Lead Authentically Follow Gap to Gig On Instagram On TikTok On X On YouTube On your podcast player of choice Sign up for the Gap to Gig newsletter Follow Michael On LinkedIn
54 MIN
SEP 1, 2026
Mitesh Khatri on Becoming More Present as a Working Dad
Many dads work hard to provide for their families, yet still feel like they're missing the moments that matter most. The challenge often isn't a lack of time. It's carrying the stress, distractions, and pressure of work into the people who need us most. Mitesh Khatri is a corporate strategist, author of Fight or Father: Using CALM to Stop Reacting and Start Connecting, and a father who discovered that being physically present isn't the same as being emotionally present. After his young son quietly pointed out, "You're always on your phone, Dad," Mitesh began exploring nervous system regulation, movement, and practical habits that helped him reconnect with his family and himself. Mitesh shares how to: Recognize the difference between providing for your family and being truly present Create stronger connections with your children through everyday moments Model healthy behaviors your kids will carry into adulthood Prioritize presence at home without sacrificing meaningful work Mitesh offers practical insights for working dads navigating fatherhood, work life balance, and the daily pressure to succeed while staying connected to the people who matter most. We explore presence at home, fatherhood mental health, modern dad challenges, parenting, and the small shifts that can strengthen your relationships, your leadership, and the example you set for your children. Dig Deeper Gold Coast Marathon Beyond Blue Atomic Habits Gabor Maté Slip ’N Slide Tony Robbins Awaken the Giant Within Paw Patrol Billie Jean Follow Mitesh On his website Read his book, Fight or Father: Using CALM to Stop Reacting and Start Connecting (US 🇺🇸 / AUS 🇦🇺) Follow Gap to Gig On Instagram On TikTok On X On YouTube On your podcast player of choice Sign up for the Gap to Gig newsletter Follow Michael On LinkedIn
52 MIN
AUG 25, 2026
Rob Heller on the Lessons Every Working Dad Shouldn't Leave to School
School plays an important role in preparing our kids for the future. But some of the lessons they'll rely on most aren't taught in a classroom. Rob Heller is an entrepreneur, author, youth development expert, and founder of Boost, a personal development program that helps teenagers build the people skills, character, and healthy mindset they need to thrive long after graduation. In this episode, you'll learn how to: Help kids develop people skills that shape lifelong relationships Build character, confidence, and resilience through everyday experiences Prepare teenagers for adulthood beyond grades and test scores Model the behaviors your children are quietly learning from you Navigate technology without sacrificing real-world connection Encourage a healthy mindset through struggle, growth, and accountability Help kids set meaningful goals and overcome obstacles Reinforce the lessons that school alone can't teach Whether you're navigating fatherhood for the first time or simply trying to be more intentional as a working dad, this conversation is a reminder that some of the most important lessons children learn come from your example. From communication and character to resilience and presence at home, Rob shares practical insights to help parents prepare their kids for life beyond the classroom. Dig Deeper How to Win Friends & Influence People Think and Grow Rich Sesame Street Rapper’s Delight Follow Rob On his website On Instagram On Facebook On YouTube On TikTok On LinkedIn On his newsletter Read his book, The Missing Course for Today's Youth Follow Gap to Gig On Instagram On TikTok On X On YouTube On your podcast player of choice Sign up for the Gap to Gig newsletter Follow Michael On LinkedIn
48 MIN
AUG 18, 2026
Stephen Clifford on Raising Resilient Kids as a Working Dad
Raising resilient kids isn’t about protecting them from every challenge. It’s about preparing them to face challenges with confidence, character, and resilience. Stephen Clifford is an author, youth coach, speaker, and creator of the Forgotten Wisdom children’s book series. Together with his wife, he’s intentionally raising his children to embrace accountability, gratitude, perseverance, and failure as part of growth, while recognizing that every child learns differently. Stephen shares how to: Raise resilient kids without trying to eliminate every obstacle Help children build confidence by learning from failure Adapt your parenting style to fit each child’s unique personality Teach accountability and gratitude through everyday moments Model the values you hope your kids will carry into adulthood Balance the demands of fatherhood, meaningful work, and being a working dad Create family traditions that reinforce character over achievement Think beyond today’s parenting decisions to the legacy you’re building for future generations Stephen offers practical encouragement for working dads navigating fatherhood, modern dad challenges, and the responsibility of raising children with character in an increasingly comfortable world. Dig Deeper The Berenstain Bears Running of the Bulls - Pamplona Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles Ninja Rap Zombie by The Cranberries Follow Stephen On his website On Amazon On Instagram On YouTube On LinkedIn Taylor’s Job Safari on Instagram Taylor’s Job Safari on YouTube Follow Gap to Gig On Instagram On TikTok On X On YouTube On your podcast player of choice Sign up for the Gap to Gig newsletter Follow Michael On LinkedIn
61 MIN