Becoming Flame: Where Sensuality, Sovereignty, and Sacred Power Ignite

In this episode, Nadine Lee shares the essence of womb wealth: creating from the body, living in alignment with the menstrual cycle, and allowing desire, joy and devotion to guide what gets birthed into the world.Nadine challenges the idea that feminine business is passive. For her, the feminine is creatrix energy. It is active, alive and deeply connected to purpose. When women stop copying what made someone else successful and begin listening to what wants to move through their own vessel, abundance becomes a natural by-product.About Nadine LeeNadine Lee is the founder of Tantric Alchemy, a feminine embodiment mentor, teacher of the tantric arts and author of Sex Priestess. Her work supports women to liberate their eros, heal sexual wounding, reconnect with their womb and create from embodied truth rather than pressure.Key TakeawaysWomb wealth is about creating in rhythm with your cycle, not forcing yourself into constant output.The “good girl” often blocks money by choosing approval, safety and conformity over truth.Bleed time can become a monthly portal for clearing emotion, receiving guidance and reclaiming your energy.Receptivity lives in the body, including the yoni, nervous system and capacity to feel safe being held.Desire and joy are not distractions from wealth. They are signals that point you towards what you came here to birth.Memorable Quote“You can’t not be wealthy and attracting money and abundance when you are truly creating from the womb, from the body, from source as an open vessel.”Connect with Nadine LeeWebsite: https://tantricalchemy.netInstagram: @nadineleeofficialBook: Sex Priestess by Nadine Lee, sold on AmazonDharma & Desire: https://tantricalchemy.net/dharma-and-desire/Connect with Kait + PhenXXKait on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaitlyntregenza/PhenXX: https://www.phenxx.comPhenXX on Instagram: @lovephenxxBecoming Flame Podcast on Instagram: @becomingflame.pod⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@lovephenxx.⇢ Sign up for the Monthly Herstory Told Magazine at www.phenxx.comSponsored by PhenXX.com — use promo code "podcast" for 10% off your first purchase.

In this solo episode, Kait Tregenza breaks down what she means by emotional alchemy through one of the most charged emotions of all: rage. Rather than bypassing it, spiritualising it, or shrinking around it, she explores rage as information, energy and a catalyst for truth. This is a practical conversation about naming what you feel, reclaiming the parts of yourself that have been labelled too much, too intense or too dangerous, and using that energy to move from complaint into creation.About KaitKait Tregenza is the host of Becoming Flame and founder of PhenXX. Her work explores identity, embodiment, female power, emotional capacity and the inner shifts that create real change in life, business and leadership.Key TakeawaysRage is not a flaw to suppress. It is data that reveals where you feel betrayed, constrained or out of alignment.Emotional alchemy begins by naming what you are raging against instead of abandoning yourself to become the “bigger person”.Complaint keeps you looping. Transformation begins when you direct that energy into what you want, need, command and summon.The “good girl” freezes. The so-called villainous woman creates, acts and builds what the world says should not exist.Simple, repeatable emotional hygiene can create profound identity shifts without years of processing.Memorable Quote“And the rage from before was simply the signal of how far out of alignment I was.”Connect with Kait + PhenXXKait on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaitlyntregenza/PhenXX: https://www.phenxx.comPhenXX on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovephenxxBecoming Flame Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/becomingflame.podYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lovephenxxSponsored by PhenXX.com — use promo code "podcast" for 10% off your first purchase.

In this fierce and deeply moving conversation, Kait sits down with Claire Standen, the powerful woman demanding recompense for centuries of violence against women, to explore the bold campaign calling on the Church of Scotland to return a church to women as reparations for the Scottish witch trials.But this conversation goes far beyond history.Together they unravel the loss of feminine wisdom, the erasure of ceremony, the loneliness of modern motherhood, nervous system healing, restorative justice, power dynamics, and what happens when women stop shrinking themselves to survive.Claire shares the deeply personal journey that transformed her from a woman who felt unseen into someone making one of the boldest public asks imaginable. Through stories of motherhood, trauma healing, collective repair, and feminine leadership, this episode becomes an invitation to reclaim power not as domination, but as deep embodied truth.This is not just a conversation about witches. It is a conversation about what the world lost when women were silenced, and what becomes possible when they refuse to disappear any longer.About Claire StandenClaire Standen is a trauma-informed practitioner, coach, and founder of a growing movement calling for reparations for women persecuted during Scotland’s witch trials. Her work bridges nervous system healing, feminine leadership, restorative justice, and collective cultural repair. Through her advocacy, Claire is helping reimagine what feminine power, motherhood, and community could look like in a repaired world.Key TakeawaysWomen have historically been conditioned to disappear after rejection or silencingModern motherhood exposes how deeply unsupported women have become collectivelyTrue power is rooted in embodied self-trust, not domination or controlRestorative justice creates transformation where punishment alone cannotFeminine leadership requires women to stop shrinking themselves to fit existing systemsMemorable Quote“What we need is a place where women can collectively remember what was taken from us.”Connect with Claire StandenInstagram: @the_claire_standenhttps://www.ourreclamation.orghttps://www.crowdfunder.co.uk/p/reclaim-the-churchhttps://www.embodimentuk.comConnect with Kait + PhenXXKait on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaitlyntregenza/PhenXX: https://www.phenxx.comPhenXX on Instagram:@lovephenxxBecoming Flame Podcast on Instagram: @becomingflame.podYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lovephenxx.becomingflamepodSponsored by PhenXX.com — use promo code "podcast" for 10% off your first purchase.

In this belated introductory episode, Kait Tregenza circles back to explain what it means to Become Flame and the deeper inquiry at the heart of the podcast: what happens when a woman stops abandoning her power and begins to meet the truth of what lives within her. This is a conversation about emotional depth, suppressed power and the fear of one’s own magnitude.Kait explores the unhumanity of the world, the war on woman and the ways so many have been severed from their own flame. She speaks to the female body as a vessel for transformation, and to the necessity of facing darkness rather than bypassing it. This episode is an invitation to stop fearing the fire, to understand the difference between feminine and masculine power, and to let what has been buried become fuel for change.About KaitKait Tregenza is the host of Becoming Flame and the founder of PhenXX. Her work explores feminine embodiment, emotional depth, sensual intelligence and the transformative power of returning to the wisdom of the body.Key TakeawaysSuppressed power often hides beneath fear, emotional intensity and self-protection.The female body is not separate from transformation. It is the vessel through which it happens.Embracing darkness is not collapse. It is part of reclaiming truth, power and agency.There is a distinction between feminine and masculine power, and both move differently.Change begins when women reconnect with the flame they have been taught to fear.Memorable Quote“The fire you fear may be the very thing that came to transform you.”Connect with Kait + PhenXXKait on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaitlyntregenza/PhenXX: https://www.phenxx.comPhenXX on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovephenxxBecoming Flame Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/becomingflame.podYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lovephenxxSponsored by PhenXX.com — use promo code "podcast" for 10% off your first purchase.

What if your appetite is not something to suppress, but life force waiting to be transmuted?In this solo episode of Becoming Flame, Kait Tregenza explores the deeper truth beneath greed, gluttony and over-desire, asking whether what we have been taught to shame might actually hold the blueprint for our power.Through personal story, reflection and alchemical inquiry, she unpacks how greed can distort through trauma, scarcity, abuse and self-denial, but also how it can be transformed into appetite, devotion, creation and embodied overflow.This conversation moves through money, freedom, nervous system capacity, purpose and the difference between consumption and creation. Kait shares her own journey of disentangling wealth from abuse, revealing how desire can become a sacred compass pointing us towards what we are truly here to build, hold and serve.This episode is for anyone ready to stop worshipping lack, stop making deprivation holy, and start asking a more powerful question: what if the thing you call greed is actually your soul wanting more life?About KaitKait Tregenza is the host of Becoming Flame and founder of PhenXX. Her work explores feminine embodiment, wealth, power, desire, motherhood, sovereignty and the alchemical process of turning lived experience into embodied wisdom.Key TakeawaysWhy greed has been framed as a sin, and who benefits from that storyHow scarcity, control and self-denial can distort your relationship with desireWhy trauma can entangle money, safety, power and abuseHow to recognise the difference between distorted greed and alchemised desireWhy holy greed must be transmuted from consumption into creationMemorable Quote“Greed reveals your desire.”Connect with Kait + PhenXXKait on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaitlyntregenza/PhenXX: https://www.phenxx.comPhenXX on Instagram: @lovephenxxBecoming Flame Podcast on Instagram: @becomingflame.pod⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@lovephenxx.⇢ Sign up for the Monthly Herstory Told Magazine at www.phenxx.comSponsored by PhenXX.com — use promo code "podcast" for 10% off your first purchase.Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, and to Rate us on Spotify! Screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive purification meditation track as a 'thank you' from Kait.This podcast and its content is copyright of Phenxx Pty Ltd © and Becoming Flame ©. All rights reserved.