Why Stress, Comparison, and “Not Enough” Are Driving More Than You ThinkIn this conversation, Erin McQuade-Wright sits down with fundraising coach and What the Fundraising host Mallory Erickson to explore the inner dynamics that shape how fundraisers show up: comparison, visibility discomfort, nervous system dysregulation, and the quiet belief of “not enough.”Together, they unpack the hidden cost of tying your identity to outcomes—and what it takes to create space between who you are and what you produce.If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing well on paper but struggling internally, this episode will hit home.In this episode, we cover: Why visibility can feel unsafe—even when you want to grow  The comparison trap and what it’s really about  How “not enough” quietly drives overperformance (and burnout)  What nervous system dysregulation actually feels like in real time  Practical ways to regulate before a donor conversation  The subtle ways fundraisers become attached to stress  How to separate your identity from fundraising outcomes Key InsightYou can’t control how a donor responds—but you can control how you show up. And that starts with your inner climate.🔗 About Mallory EricksonMallory Erickson is the founder and CEO of Practivated, an executive coach, fundraising consultant, and host of the podcast What the Fundraising. She helps fundraisers move beyond transactional approaches to build lasting, mission-aligned partnerships.Through her Power Partners Formula™, Mallory has trained over 60,000 fundraisers, blending executive coaching, behavior design, and strategic fundraising. Her book, What the Fundraising, explores how shifting away from scarcity leads to more sustainable and impactful fundraising.🔗 Connect with Mallory Learn more: malloryerickson.com/powerpartners  Podcast: What the Fundraising — malloryerickson.com/podcast  Book: malloryerickson.com/book  Instagram: @_malloryerickson  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mallory-erickson-bressler/ Practivated: https://practivated.com/🔗 Connect with Erin Website: vitalistcoaching.com  Newsletter: The Brave & Balanced NoteSend Erin a text Book your 1:1 Brave and Balanced Breakthrough Coaching Session here: https://calendly.com/vitalistcoaching/brave-balanced-breakthrough✨ Stay Connected & Continue Your Fundraising GrowthListen to all episodes + subscribe: https://thebraveandbalancedfundraiser.buzzsprout.comJoin the community: The Brave & Balanced Fundraiser Facebook Group 👉 https://www.facebook.com/groups/braveandbalancedfundraiserBook a Brave & Balanced Breakthrough Call: A personalized 1:1 session to support your inner clarity and fundraising wellbeing. 👉 https://calendly.com/vitalistcoaching/brave-balanced-breakthroughLearn more about Erin’s coaching & nervous-system based support: VitalistCoaching.comConnect on Instagram: @erinmcquadewright