53 - Treating your listener like a co-worker, vocally at least
APR 1, 20264 MIN
53 - Treating your listener like a co-worker, vocally at least
APR 1, 20264 MIN
Description
"Status" determines the power dynamic between you and your listener. In improv, performers consciously play high or low status to shape a scene. In podcasting, we often unconsciously drift into one of two extremes: the "Professor" (high status, talking at the listener) or the "Apologist" (low status, undermining one's own authority).The most effective dynamic lies in the middle. Instead of lecturing from above or hedging from below, you should aim to stand beside your listener. Treat them like a peer or co-worker who simply needs information you happen to have figured out. This approach creates "joint attention," where you look at the topic together rather than performing for them.In this micro-episode:How to spot if you are being "too high status" (lecturing) or "too low status" (hedging)The danger of undermining your own expertise with apologetic languageWhy treating your listener like a colleague builds better rapportResources: Episode #21 discusses "joint attention": https://player.captivate.fm/episode/c61d2113-2fe9-4305-b4e8-27695e6ddefd/Episode #48 discusses joint attention mechanics: https://player.captivate.fm/episode/024e7de4-896f-4e0a-a45e-5c1373e4a732/Find more episodes and subscribe at stereoforest.com/minute.