Notes from the Edge

What happens when you look healthier than ever but feel worse than ever? Former competitive bodybuilder and men’s health coach Kevin Gomes knows that contradiction firsthand. After years of extreme training, restrictive dieting, and performance-enhancing drugs, he realized that looking strong and actually being healthy are two very different things.Kevin joins Lisa Lacy for a thought-provoking conversation about men’s physical and emotional health, identity, perfectionism, and the patterns that keep us stuck. From our relationship with food to the pressure to prove ourselves, we explore why sustainable fitness requires more than discipline, and how real health begins when we stop chasing appearances and start paying attention to how we’re actually living.In This Episode:03:00 | When looking your best leaves you feeling your worst: Kevin’s bodybuilding wake-up call.07:00 | Looking under the hood: bloodwork, hormones, energy, and the health markers we overlook.12:00 | How identity, shame, perfectionism, and our relationship with food keep unhealthy patterns alive.16:00 | Breaking autopilot: recognizing emotional triggers, stress eating, and building intentional habits.31:00 | Dropping the mask of physical perfection, walking away from steroids, and redefining strength, health, and fatherhood.Connect with Kevin GomesFounder, Pinnacle CoachingWebsite: https://pinnacleprogram.co.ukInstagram: @kevgomes_coachConnect with Lisa Lacy Inside the Edge:https://www.lisalacy.com/inside-the-edgeGo beyond the public podcast with exclusive weekly episodes, private monthly live experiences with Lisa, and practical resources for deeper self-discovery and meaningful human connection.What did you perform in order to survive?Welcome to the Edge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What if your voice is still carrying the pain you never had permission to express?International recording artist, opera singer, and creator of Vibrational Voice Healing, Heather Schmid joins me to explore the connection between sound, trauma, emotional expression, and authenticity. Heather shares how an unexpected experience while filming her documentary Voice of the Earth transformed her understanding of her voice and herself.We explore how childhood conditioning, perfectionism, and the need for approval can silence our authentic expression. From sound frequencies and nervous system regulation to spiritual awakening and releasing old identities, this conversation goes far beyond singing.In this episode, we explore:How an emotional experience at a waterfall in the Azores changed Heather’s life and documentary.Why childhood criticism, judgment, and unresolved emotional experiences can silence our voices.The differences between 432 Hz and 440 Hz, cymatics, and Heather’s perspective on sound and vibration.How breathwork, humming, and somatic voice practices may support emotional expression and self-discovery.Breaking free from perfectionism, external validation, and the identities we perform to survive.Connect with Heather Schmid:https://www.heatherschmid.comExplore Vibrational Voice Healing and her documentary Voice of the Earth.Connect with Lisa | Inside the Edge:https://www.lisalacy.com/inside-the-edgeJoin our private membership for exclusive weekly episodes, monthly live experiences, and resources exploring trauma, identity, recovery, and authentic living.What did you perform in order to survive?Welcome to the Edge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What happens to your brain when the person you trusted most becomes the source of your greatest pain? Betrayal trauma doesn’t just break your heart. It can fundamentally alter how your brain processes safety, trust, relationships, and even your own reality. After spending more than a decade in a relationship marked by chronic infidelity, gaslighting, financial exploitation, and substance abuse, I walked away questioning everything, including my own judgment and identity.In this deeply personal Edge Note, I explore the neuroscience behind betrayal trauma, how prolonged emotional manipulation impacts the nervous system, and why survivors often experience hypervigilance, anxiety, obsessive questioning, and profound self-doubt. I’ll share what it took to rebuild my identity from the ground up and how neuroplasticity offers genuine hope for recovery. If you’ve ever felt like you were losing your mind after betrayal, this conversation is about understanding what happened to you, reclaiming your sense of self, and learning to trust yourself again.In this Edge Note, we explore:How betrayal trauma affects the brain, nervous system, and body’s threat response.Why gaslighting and chronic deception can destroy self-trust and distort your sense of reality.The connection between betrayal trauma, hypervigilance, emotional dysregulation, and survival behaviors.How prolonged psychological manipulation can erode identity, confidence, and the ability to make decisions.The science of neuroplasticity and how healing can help you rebuild self-trust, establish boundaries, and stop abandoning yourself.Connect with Lisa | INSIDE THE EDGEGo beyond the podcast with exclusive conversations, private episodes, live gatherings, and a community exploring trauma, healing, reinvention, and everything that makes us human.https://lisalacy.com/inside-the-edgeWhat did you perform in order to survive?Welcome to the Edge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Why is saying “I don’t know” so uncomfortable? Australian osteopath, educator, and Uncomfortably Curious podcast host Aidan Mill joins Lisa Lacy to explore curiosity, cognitive bias, and why questioning what we believe might be one of the most powerful things we can do.From the stories we tell ourselves to the labels we allow to define us, this conversation challenges certainty, explores how our experiences shape our perceptions, and examines what happens when we choose understanding over being right. Sometimes the most courageous thing we can do is admit we might not have all the answers.In this episode:Why we’re uncomfortable admitting we don’t know somethingHow personal experiences and assumptions shape our perception of truthWhen diagnoses and labels become part of our identityThe difference between confidence, competence, and certaintyHow curiosity, emotional openness, and better questions create opportunities for growthConnect with Aidan MillWebsite: https://www.forwardosteo.com.auPodcast, Uncomfortably Curious: https://rss.com/podcasts/uncomfortably-curious/Connect with Lisa | INSIDE THE EDGEhttps://www.lisalacy.com/inside-the-edgeWhat did you perform in order to survive?Welcome to the Edge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What if the anxiety, fear, or emotional patterns you’ve accepted as your personality are actually survival strategies from the past? Lisa Lacy sits down with Cedric Bertelli, founder of the Emotional Health Institute and co-developer of Emotional Resolution® (EmRes®), to explore why managing emotions and resolving recurring emotional patterns may be two very different things.From Cedric’s experience masking anxiety while leading hundreds of employees to the ways our brains predict danger based on past experiences, this conversation explores trauma, emotional avoidance, and the body’s role in emotional processing. Lisa and Cedric discuss interoception, the emerging research behind EmRes, reconnecting with physical sensations, and why sustainable contentment may matter more than chasing constant happiness.In this episode:How anxiety, high performance, and emotional masking can become survival identities.The difference between emotional regulation and Emotional Resolution® (EmRes®).How past trauma, outdated brain predictions, and physical sensations influence recurring emotional responses.Why avoiding uncomfortable emotions can reinforce patterns of fear, anger, and anxiety.Reconnecting with the body, practicing Self-EmRes, and developing greater emotional awareness and contentment.Connect with Cedric Bertelli:https://www.cedricbertelli.comEmotional Health Institute: https://www.emotionalhealthinstitute.orgConnect with Lisa | INSIDE THE EDGE:https://www.lisalacy.com/inside-the-edgeWhat did you perform in order to survive?Welcome to the Edge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.