What About Your Friends?!

Kas and Lellies are talking about one of the trickiest parts of being in a relationship: your friends. What happens when your partner doesn’t like one of your friends? Should your partner meet everyone in your circle? Can you have an opposite-sex best friend without crossing boundaries? And how much of your relationship business should you really be telling your friends? Kas and Lellies get personal about their own friend groups, why they may actually be too close as a couple, friends knowing too much, respecting opposite-sex friendships, and whether you should tell your partner something that could completely change their happiness. Then they close things out with quick-fire questions—including the big one: If your partner and your best friend don’t get along, who comes first? Two perspectives. One relationship. Two Things Can Be True. 00:00 Welcome to Two Things Can Be True 00:30 Jay-Z, D’Ussé & the Concert Weekend 03:21 First Impressions of Each Other’s Friends 06:23 The Friends We Don’t Understand 08:44 The Friends We Appreciate 11:06 Can Your Partner Tell You Who to Be Friends With? 11:50 Boundaries With Opposite-Sex Friends 14:20 “Did Y’all Ever Hook Up?” 15:11 Balancing Friendship, Independence & Commitment 15:53 Are We Too Close as a Couple? 18:31 How Close Should Your Friends Be to Your Partner? 21:08 How Much Influence Should Friends Have? 21:48 Do You Tell Your Partner Your Friends’ Business? 23:12 Should Friends Influence Your Relationship? 24:12 The Secret You Might NOT Want to Know 26:12 Quick-Fire Relationship Questions 26:23 Should Your Partner Meet All Your Friends? 27:11 Should You Vent About Your Relationship? 27:29 Is Talking to a Friend Every Day Too Much? 27:49 Should Couples Have Separate Friend Groups? 27:56 Your Partner vs. Your Best Friend: Who Comes First? 28:49 Final Thoughts: Lovers AND Best Friends