You Can Love Someone & Still Not Like Them

You can love somebody deeply… and still have moments when you don’t like them very much. On Episode 2 of Two Things Can Be True, Cass and Lilys get real about the habits that drive each other crazy, the point when their relationship almost didn’t make it, learning how to argue without destroying the relationship, and why having the right people around you can sometimes help you see your partner differently. They also get into what it means to truly support your partner through career changes, self-doubt and life — even when you’re not seeing eye to eye. Then the conversation takes a turn: If one person is ready for marriage and the other keeps saying “not yet”… how long is too long to wait? Can someone truly love you and still not be ready to marry you? Two perspectives. One relationship. Two things can be true. 00:00 Intro 00:50 Welcome Back to Two Things Can Be True 01:19 Summer, Adulting & Life in Your 30s 02:47 What Was Your First Impression of Me? 05:07 What Annoyed You About Me When We Met? 07:53 The Things She Did That Drove Him Crazy 10:06 What Still Drives Us Crazy About Each Other? 11:13 “You Don’t Need Makeup” — The Wrong Compliment? 13:22 The Habits That Still Piss Us Off 14:21 Did We Ever Think Our Relationship Wouldn't Last? 16:17 Depression, Feeling Lost & Fighting for the Relationship 17:51 Be Careful Who Gives You Relationship Advice 18:56 Loving Your Partner vs. Liking Your Partner 20:26 How We Handle Conflict 21:48 Is It Okay to Go to Bed Angry? 23:07 Supporting Each Other Through Life & Career 25:02 What Is a “Healthy Argument”? 26:04 Fighting Because You Believe in Your Partner 28:17 Your Partner Should Remind You Who You Are 29:45 What Real Support Looks Like 30:25 Self-Doubt, Creativity & Chasing Your Dreams 33:25 How Long Is TOO Long to Wait for Marriage? 34:44 Can Someone Love You and Not Be Ready? 36:01 Are You Actually Ready to Be a Husband or Wife? 36:53 To Be Continued… #TwoThingsCanBeTrue #Relationships #RelationshipTalk #BlackLove #Marriage #Couples #RelationshipAdvice #LoveAndRelationships #Dating #HealthyRelationships