Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

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Dan Savage, America's only advice columnist, answers your sex and relationship questions and yaps about politics. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, record your question and send it to [email protected], or call 206-302-2064. For a much longer version of the show, with no ads, visit savage.love and get yourself a subscription.

Recent Episodes

NOV 10, 2026
Savage Love Episode 1044
Dan? Is there ANY nipple play porn for straights? Like AT ALL? A woman is into sexting and trading nude pics. She does NOT enjoy oral- neither giving nor receiving. But the fellas like to sext about it. Should she dash their hopes of it ever happening in person? On the Magnum, we welcome one of our favorite guests- Lina Dune of the Ask a Sub podcast! She and Dan do a deep dive into cuckolding. Dan maintains that threeways always involve some amount of the cuck dynamic. And can we dispense with the gendered term “cuckquean” (and its preposterous spelling?) And, hear the tale of the lonely stripper. She has little sexual experience, and has a hard time meeting men she would want to date, especially on the job. Is there a Grindr for straight women? The Levin & Meston nipple play study is ⁠here⁠. Got a question? Hot sex advice columnists are standing by! Call or text: 206-302-2064 Email: [email protected] Click here, baby This episode is brought to you by Mack Weldon: timeless, innovative menswear to help you move throughthe day with confidence. Get 20% off your first order of $125 or more, with promo code SAVAGE at ⁠MackWeldon.com⁠ This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit ⁠VB.Health⁠ when you use the code Savage. This episode is brought to you by Quince, high quality essential clothing, at radically low prices. Refresh your everyday with luxury you’ll actually use. Head to ⁠Quince.com/SAVAGE⁠ for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.
52 MIN
OCT 27, 2026
Savage Lovecast Episode 1042
A bisexual woman has started dating a lady for the first time. She doesn't feel much sexual spark. Is it because of the baggy, unflattering clothes her girlfriend wears? Is it ever appropriate to ask your doctor out? Your nurse? A woman wrings her hands over the ethics of leaving a thank-you note with her phone number on it for Max, the hot radiologist. On the Magnum, it's everybody's favorite gay former Mormon humor writer, Eli McCann! His new novel "Stitched" is on the NYT bestsellers list. And because there's Mormonism in the air, we got two calls from listeners about the Latter Day Saints. One is from a woman in her late 20s, newly divorced and free from the church. She wants to know how to embrace her sexuality. And another is from a mother whose daughter has Mormon friends, and they are trying to woo her into the hive. The mother is horrified. Should she be? A non-binary AFAB person has no desire to try to pass as a man. But they like pretending they have a small dick, and then have their boyfriend degrade and insult them.They both like it when he uses transphobic slurs as part of their dirty talk and role play. Cool? [email protected] ⁠Click me! ⁠ 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit ⁠VB.Health⁠ when you use the code Savage. This episode is brought to you by the Toler Financial Group. For money advice that thinks outside the closet, schedule a judgement free consultation with the team at Toler Financial Group today at ⁠tolerfinancialgroup.com/savage⁠ This episode is brought to you by Mack Weldon: timeless, innovative menswear to help you move throughthe day with confidence. Get 20% off your first order of $125 or more, with promo code SAVAGE at ⁠MackWeldon.com⁠
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