In an era of extreme polarization, Harvard Professor Julia Minson joins Brian to reveal the science behind having better disagreements. She breaks down her "H.E.A.R." framework—a proven method to lower the temperature of heated debates and show real "conversational receptiveness" without compromising your values. Learn why the goal of persuasion is a trap and how "listening with your mouth" can change your relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices