<p>If you're wondering what actually hurts an avoidant ex after a breakup, it 's usually not what most people think.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, I break down what really gets through to an avoidant ex, what keeps them emotionally shut down and why trying to "fix" things often backfires.</p><p><br></p><p>Get <a href="http://www.theartoflove.net/coaching">coaching!</a></p><p>Download Silenzio App: <a href="https://bit.ly/SilenzioApp"> iPhone </a>OR <a href="https://bit.ly/AndroidSilenzio">Android</a></p><p>Read No Contact Secrets <a href="http://www.nocontactsecrets.com/">Book</a></p><p><a href="http://www.theartoflove.net/luciad">Instagram</a></p><p><br></p><p>#avoidantex #avoidantattachment #getexback #nocontact</p>