<p>In this episode we discuss common mistakes that married couples make when it comes to initiating sex. </p>
<p>There are dynamics of higher desire and lower desire and patterns that make these mistakes so easy to make.</p>
<p>We cover six common mistakes: getting annoyed at being the one who initiates, using covert or roundabout methods of initiation, joking or crude initiations, feeling the need to be as turned on as your partner, using the same initiation method every time, and talking yourself out of initiating. </p>
<p>Takeaways</p>
<p>Recognize the dynamics of higher desire and lower desire in your relationship<br />
Update your map of each other as you grow and change<br />
Avoid common mistakes in initiation, such as getting annoyed or using covert methods<br />
Focus on connection rather than just sexual fulfillment<br />
Communicate with your spouse about your initiation patterns and desires<br />
Take action to improve your initiation patterns and foster a deeper connection</p>
<p>On the Xtended Version ...</p>
<p>What make authenticity and vulnerability in marriage so difficult?</p>
<p>Is it the motivations behind the vulnerability? The reactions to vulnerable moments? Both?</p>
<p>Let's explore more.</p>
<p>Enjoy the show!</p>
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<p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/initiation-mistakes-married-people-make/">Initiation Mistakes Married People Make #674</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>
