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        We all have rough patches from time to time.  Nobody is happy all the time.  If we were, we wouldn’t be people, we’d be game show hosts!
It’s been a rough week here at the Transform Radio ranch, and when I found jalapenos in the olives I was using to make enchiladas, I realized that sometimes life is like that.
 
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Connect with us on Twitter, Facebook, and Pinterest!  I love hearing from all of ya…the good, the bad, and the ugly.
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We all have rough patches from time to time. &nbsp;Nobody is happy all the time. &nbsp;If we were...

We all have rough patches from time to time. &nbsp;Nobody is happy all the time. &nbsp;If we were, we wouldn&rsquo;t be people, we&rsquo;d be game show hosts!
It&rsquo;s been a rough week here at the Transform Radio ranch, and when I found jalapenos in the olives I was using to make enchiladas, I realized that sometimes life is like that.
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Subscribe to the&nbsp;Transform Radio podcast on iTunes&hellip;. and g&rsquo;head and give us a 5-star review so more folks can transform their lives!
Connect with us on&nbsp;Twitter,&nbsp;Facebook, and&nbsp;Pinterest! &nbsp;I love hearing from all of ya&hellip;the good, the bad, and the ugly.

Finding Jalapenos In Your Olives

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        When you take their opinion personally, especially if it’s negative, by your offense you’re agreeing with what they have to say about you.

The second agreement is all about being secure in who you are, knowing yourself, and accepting who you are.

You know your path.

You know your journey.

You know how far you’ve come and how far you’ve yet to go.

People who fling insults at you don’t.

Taking them personally is agreeing with them and giving them power to control your life.

You control your life…not them.
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When you take their opinion personally, especially if it’s negative, by your offense you’re agree...

When you take their opinion personally, especially if it’s negative, by your offense you’re agreeing with what they have to say about you.

The second agreement is all about being secure in who you are, knowing yourself, and accepting who you are.

You know your path.

You know your journey.

You know how far you’ve come and how far you’ve yet to go.

People who fling insults at you don’t.

Taking them personally is agreeing with them and giving them power to control your life.

You control your life…not them.

The Second Agreement - Don't Take Things Personally.

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        Now, if you’re like me, the initial impression of this first agreement is that it simply means “do as you say, say as you do” and “tell the truth…always.”.  Well, that’s only a minor part of it.

Almost every major religion/philosophy has a teaching about the power of words.  In Christianity it’s “the tongue has the power of life and death”.  In Buddhism it’s “Words have the power to both destroy and heal. When words are both true and kind they can change our world.”
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Now, if you’re like me, the initial impression of this first agreement is that it simply means “d...

Now, if you’re like me, the initial impression of this first agreement is that it simply means “do as you say, say as you do” and “tell the truth…always.”.  Well, that’s only a minor part of it.

Almost every major religion/philosophy has a teaching about the power of words.  In Christianity it’s “the tongue has the power of life and death”.  In Buddhism it’s “Words have the power to both destroy and heal. When words are both true and kind they can change our world.”

The First Agreement – Be Impeccable With Your Word

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        In the introduction to The Four Agreements, Ruiz talks about how we, as people, are domesticated like our pets by our parents, our teachers, our family, our friends, and we learn, through a series of rewards an punishments, what and who everyone else thinks we should be in order to gain acceptance.

Changing from this norm creates fear, and that fear keeps most of us trapped in dull, drab, unhappy, unfulfilled lives.

We create this idealized version of who we're supposed to be...someone, by the way, we can never live up to be, and we use this idealized version to judge ourselves and declare ourselves guilty.
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In the introduction to The Four Agreements, Ruiz talks about how we, as people, are domesticated ...

In the introduction to The Four Agreements, Ruiz talks about how we, as people, are domesticated like our pets by our parents, our teachers, our family, our friends, and we learn, through a series of rewards an punishments, what and who everyone else thinks we should be in order to gain acceptance.

Changing from this norm creates fear, and that fear keeps most of us trapped in dull, drab, unhappy, unfulfilled lives.

We create this idealized version of who we're supposed to be...someone, by the way, we can never live up to be, and we use this idealized version to judge ourselves and declare ourselves guilty.

The Four Agreements: Introduction

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        One of our family routines is we watch a show called "The Middle".  Tonight, the Hecks won a trip to New York City, yet were besieged by challenges in getting there to the point that their flight was rerouted to the nearest non-snowed in city, which happened to be Pittsburgh.
As they landed in Pittsburgh, everyone but Sue Heck, the middle daughter, wanted to quit and go home.  She stood firm, determined to celebrate the biggest thing that ever happened to her and not let her dream die in Pittsburgh.

In the closing voice over, the Mom said these fateful words....

"Luck will get you to Pittsburgh...perseverance will get you to New York City"

How many times in your life has "luck" gotten you to your own personal Pittsburgh and left you a 9 hour bus ride from your dream destination, your New York City?

The difference between your dream dying in Pittsburgh and living your dream in New York City is simply perseverance, discipline, and hard work.
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One of our family routines is we watch a show called "The Middle".  Tonight, the Hecks won a trip...

One of our family routines is we watch a show called "The Middle".  Tonight, the Hecks won a trip to New York City, yet were besieged by challenges in getting there to the point that their flight was rerouted to the nearest non-snowed in city, which happened to be Pittsburgh.
As they landed in Pittsburgh, everyone but Sue Heck, the middle daughter, wanted to quit and go home.  She stood firm, determined to celebrate the biggest thing that ever happened to her and not let her dream die in Pittsburgh.

In the closing voice over, the Mom said these fateful words....

"Luck will get you to Pittsburgh...perseverance will get you to New York City"

How many times in your life has "luck" gotten you to your own personal Pittsburgh and left you a 9 hour bus ride from your dream destination, your New York City?

The difference between your dream dying in Pittsburgh and living your dream in New York City is simply perseverance, discipline, and hard work.

Luck will get you to Pittsburgh...


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