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You both want to get married. But have you talked about what life together will actually look like? Who handles the money? How involved are your families? What happens when one of you is struggling with your faith? And are you quietly hoping something about the person you’re dating will change after the wedding? In this episode, we’re walking through 16 questions every couple should ask before saying “I do,” covering faith, family, finances, everyday life, and sex. These are practical conversations that can help you understand what you’re each expecting before you build a life together. We’ll talk about: What a Christ-centered marriage looks like in everyday life How to talk through differences in beliefs and convictions Supporting each other through seasons of doubt Family patterns you want to keep or change Setting expectations around in-laws, holidays, and parenting Getting honest about debt, spending, and sharing money What you expect your lifestyle to look like after the wedding Dividing household responsibilities and the mental load Making room for time together, friendships, and alone time Talking honestly about sex, pornography, and sexual history Whether you’re secretly expecting your partner to change after marriage If you’re seriously dating or engaged, watch this together. Pause after each section, ask the questions, and give each other room to answer honestly. The more you understand about each other now, the more intentionally you can prepare for marriage. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on the Date Well course here: https://www.stan.store/moralrevolution ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wETmXcL64r8 God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

What do you do when your dating pool feels tiny and everyone knows everyone? Your ex is still at church. Your crush is friends with someone you dated. Everyone knows you went out before you’ve even decided if you like each other. And if it doesn’t work out, you’re probably still going to see them next Sunday. Dating in a small Christian community can get complicated fast. In this episode, three single Christians in their twenties get honest about what it’s actually like to date when your options feel limited and your dating life isn’t exactly private. We’ll talk about: Whether the Christian dating pool really is too small Why dating in a tight church community can feel so intimidating What to do when everyone has dated everyone Whether dating a friend’s ex should be off-limits How to handle seeing an ex in the same community Who should actually get a voice in your dating decisions Whether a small dating pool makes people settle or become too picky Why Christians keep saying “there’s no one here” How fear of awkwardness keeps people from ever asking someone out What to do when a date doesn’t work out but you still have to see each other Why you shouldn’t let other people’s opinions keep you from pursuing a good relationship A small dating pool doesn’t have to be a dead dating pool.It might just require more courage, maturity, and willingness to handle relationships with honor. So if you’ve ever looked around your church, small town, ministry school, or friend group and thought, “There is literally no one left,” this episode is for you. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on the Date Well course here: https://www.stan.store/moralrevolution ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/ib2TubrJglo God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

Everyone gives marriage advice. Very few people tell you what they wish they would’ve known before they got married. What surprised them? What got harder than they expected? What got better? What do decades of marriage teach you that dating never could? In this episode, three married Christian men answer the questions they wish someone had answered before they said, “I do.” We’ll talk about: The biggest lies men believe about marriage before they get married Whether the first year of marriage is actually the hardest What every husband loses when he gets married and why it’s worth it The seasons of marriage no one posts about online Whether attraction fades or changes over the years What loving one woman for decades teaches you about commitment Why so many married men struggle alone What they wish someone had told them about sex before marriage How kids completely change your marriage Practical ways to keep your marriage strong after becoming parents What they’d tell the guy who’s been dating for years but won’t propose The qualities every woman should look for in a future husband Marriage isn’t about finding the perfect person. It’s about becoming the kind of person who knows how to love, sacrifice, communicate, and stay committed through every season. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, newly married, or years into marriage, we think this conversation will leave you with a healthier picture of what marriage is really like. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on the Date Well course here: https://www.stan.store/moralrevolution ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/t6zHW7kS000 God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

Everyone says, “Date God’s way.” Almost nobody tells you what that actually looks like. What boundaries did you actually keep? How did you handle physical temptation? When did you have the hard conversations? Did you ever doubt the relationship? And how did you know they were the one? In this episode, we’re joined by another couple who dated God’s way and are now on the other side of it. Together, we’re pulling back the curtain on what Christian dating looked like behind the scenes. We’re not glossing over it, or pretending it was easy. Just sharing honest stories about what worked, what was difficult, and what we’d do all over again. We’ll talk about: The biggest mistakes Christian couples make with dating boundaries Why “How far is too far?” is the wrong question Whether protecting physical boundaries was actually worth it The hardest conversations every dating couple should have How much of your past you should share before marriage What their first major conflict revealed about each other How to tell the difference between chemistry and character Whether God really tells you who you’re supposed to marry What role wise counsel played in their relationships How they knew they had found the person they wanted to marry What they wish they could tell their dating-season selves This episode isn’t about finding a perfect formula. It’s about learning how to date with wisdom, intentionality, and integrity so you can build the kind of marriage you’re hoping for. Whether you’re single, dating, or wondering if doing relationships God’s way is really worth it, this conversation is for you. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on the Date Well course here: https://www.stan.store/moralrevolution ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/VYvzBXidMck God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

Pursuit isn’t a personality trait, it’s a skill. And so is being pursued. Too many Christian singles think one person should do all the work while the other just waits to be chosen, but healthy relationships aren’t built on passivity. They’re built on intentionality from both people. In this episode, we’re breaking down what it actually looks like to pursue someone well and what it means to receive pursuit without playing games, sending mixed signals, or disappearing into passivity. Whether you’re the one asking someone out or the one deciding whether to say yes, this conversation is packed with practical advice to help you date with clarity and confidence. We’ll talk about: The five biggest mistakes men make when pursuing a woman How women can encourage pursuit without chasing Why “playing hard to get” usually backfires What healthy leadership actually looks like in dating How to show interest without sacrificing your dignity When it’s time to define the relationship Whether women should ever make the first move If the guy should always pay for the date How to know when pursuit becomes pressure What to do when someone pursues you well… but there’s no spark Whether you owe someone an honest “no” instead of fading away This episode isn’t about dating games, it’s about learning the practical skills that lead to healthy relationships, strong marriages, and dating with intention. Because how you date is often how you’ll marry. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on the Date Well course here: https://www.stan.store/moralrevolution ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/h4e9jj_scYE God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.