<description>&lt;p&gt;Runaway thoughts and catastrophizing hobble conversations before they even begin.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Find episode transcript and links &lt;a href="https://tammylenski.com/runaway-thoughts/"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. Subscribe to my newsletter &lt;a href="https://tammylenski.com/subscribe/"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
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Runaway thoughts and catastrophizing hobble conversations before they even begin.Find episode transcript and links <a href="https://tammylenski.com/runaway-thoughts/">here</a>. Subscribe to my newsletter <a href="https://tammylenski.com/subscribe/">here</a>.

Don’t let your mind pick a fight without you

<description>&lt;p&gt;We disagree better when we understand the ways our mental models help and hinder us during conflict.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Find episode transcript and links &lt;a href="https://tammylenski.com/mental-models-the-invisible-maps-that-shape-our-arguments/"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter &lt;a href="https://tammylenski.com/subscribe/"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
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We disagree better when we understand the ways our mental models help and hinder us during conflict.Find episode transcript and links <a href="https://tammylenski.com/mental-models-the-invisible-maps-that-shape-our-arguments/">here</a>. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter <a href="https://tammylenski.com/subscribe/">here</a>.

Mental models: The invisible maps that shape our arguments

<description>&lt;p&gt;One reason disagreements get messy is that people are on different train tracks and don’t know it. Here&amp;#39;s how to fix that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Find episode transcript and links &lt;a href="https://tammylenski.com/solving-the-same-problem/"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter &lt;a href="https://tammylenski.com/subscribe/"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. Thanks for listening!&lt;/p&gt;
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One reason disagreements get messy is that people are on different train tracks and don’t know it. Here&#39;s how to fix that.Find episode transcript and links <a href="https://tammylenski.com/solving-the-same-problem/">here</a>. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter <a href="https://tammylenski.com/subscribe/">here</a>. Thanks for listening!

Are you sure you’re solving the same problem?

<description>&lt;p&gt;Gravity problems make conflict resolution more difficult because they keep you stuck. Here’s how to recognize gravity problems when you see them, why they’re troublesome, and how to prevent them from hijacking resolution.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Find episode transcript and links &lt;a href="https://tammylenski.com/gravity-problems-and-conflict-resolution/"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter &lt;a href="https://tammylenski.com/subscribe/"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt; 
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Gravity problems make conflict resolution more difficult because they keep you stuck. Here’s how to recognize gravity problems when you see them, why they’re troublesome, and how to prevent them from hijacking resolution.Find episode transcript and links <a href="https://tammylenski.com/gravity-problems-and-conflict-resolution/">here</a>. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter <a href="https://tammylenski.com/subscribe/">here</a>.

How to transform gravity problems in conflict resolution

<description>&lt;p&gt;For conflict in vital relationships, don’t overlook the conversation that comes &lt;em&gt;before&lt;/em&gt; the problem-solving conversation (part 4 of 4).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Find episode transcript and links &lt;a href="https://tammylenski.com/recalibration-conversations/"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter &lt;a href="https://tammylenski.com/subscribe/"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
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For conflict in vital relationships, don’t overlook the conversation that comes before the problem-solving conversation (part 4 of 4).Find episode transcript and links <a href="https://tammylenski.com/recalibration-conversations/">here</a>. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter <a href="https://tammylenski.com/subscribe/">here</a>.

Recalibration conversations

How we handle conflict has an impact on the resilience of our vital relationships, the caliber of our decisions, the success of our careers, and our peace of mind. Mediator, conflict resolution teacher, and author Tammy Lenski, Ed.D., uses storytelling and science to help us transform our experience with conflict and inspire us to disagree better at work and at home. The podcast was formerly called The Space Between.

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