Selling the Couch
Selling the Couch

Selling the Couch

Melvin Varghese, PhD

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With 1.81 million+ downloads, Selling the Couch is an Apple Top Career podcast for current and future mental health private practitioners who think differently. Psychologist Melvin Varghese interviews successful therapists in private practice about how they built their businesses as well as top entrepreneurs, business/marketing, and social media experts.* You'll learn how therapists get referrals, grow their practices, work through fears, find their enough, and stop "trading time for income." Melvin also shares the lessons as he grows his impact + income beyond the therapy room (podcasting, YouTube, writing, online courses, masterminds, investing, etc) and the tips and tools he uses to grow STC from a single-person business to the CEO of a 6-figure business.* Featured in Psychology Today, Good Therapy, and Psych Central ****Get show notes and even more good stuff at sellingthecouch.com/stcpodcast*

Recent Episodes

415: What Actually Drives Podcast Downloads Based on Real Data
APR 2, 2026
415: What Actually Drives Podcast Downloads Based on Real Data
After 11 years, 400+ episodes, and nearly 2 million downloads, I thought I understood what drives podcast growth.Then I saw the data, and it challenged a lot of assumptions.In this episode, I break down what actually drives podcast downloads today, based on real-world insights and my own experience growing Selling the Couch into a top 0.5% podcast.Because here’s the truth:Audience size doesn’t guarantee downloadsBig-name guests aren’t the growth lever you think they areAnd visibility alone isn’t what moves the needleIn this episode, we cover:Why audience size ≠ downloads (and what matters more)The real difference between a “vitamin” vs. “painkiller” episodeWhy titles matter more than your guest listHow to write titles that get 2–3x more downloadsThe ideal episode lengthHow to think about podcast guesting strategically (not randomly)The strategy that beats social media for growthYour best discovery toolThe biggest shift in downloadsPlus, we'll go over a simple experiment to try to see what your audience actually responds to, and how to double down on it.If your podcast isn’t growing the way you expected, it may not be your consistency. It may be your alignment—between your title, your topic, and the real problems your listeners are trying to solve.If you found this helpful, consider sharing it with a friend or colleague who is building (or thinking about starting) a podcast.And don’t forget to subscribe for more insights on podcasting, online business, and building something that compounds quietly over time.--Ready to launch (or grow) your online course?Haven is our membership for therapists who want to turn their expertise into sustainable online income through courses, content, and simple systems that actually work.You’ll get access to trainings, live accelerators, and a community that supports you every step of the way.Get on the waitlist: sellingthecouch.com/haven
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ENCORE: How to Show Up Imperfect In Your Marketing
MAR 19, 2026
ENCORE: How to Show Up Imperfect In Your Marketing
If there is one thing I’ve learned as a small business owner, it’s that it takes courage to show up imperfect. We want so badly to be perfect and put together in front of our audience, but perfectionism makes us less authentic and connected. Join us to learn more about being OK with being imperfect.Samara Stone is a return guest to the podcast, and I’m thrilled to welcome her back! In addition to her work as a therapist, Samara is a branding expert who has a curated community, Be Full Grown, for black women over 40 who are ready to imagine, create, and live a life of their own design. Samara is in the process of launching a podcast, and she has already proven her courage in showing up imperfect through some major life difficulties. We will discuss how we, as clinicians, can show up imperfect when perfectionism always has a pull on us. Samara also shares helpful guidelines for sharing appropriately on social media, which is something we all need to keep in mind.Be Full GrownYou’ll Learn:How things have changed in our field in beautiful ways; “Your Saturday self CAN show up on Monday morning.”Why many therapists struggle with perfectionism and are afraid to show up as 100% humanWhy clients appreciate transparency because it conveys a non-judgmental attitudeWhy there is a huge shift happening in how we understand marketing and our personal brandHow therapists need to share enough about the real dynamic of themselves so clients can see the healing possibilitiesHow Samara decided to share on social media the experience of her divorce a few years agoWhy we have to be polarizing at times in order to find our true audience–and that’s OKThe importance of realizing that you can’t and won’t appeal to everyoneHow to use your clear purpose and intention to determine how much of your life to share on social media--Want to launch your online course?Our new membership is open for enrollment! Find out more and join Haven here.
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32 MIN
ENCORE: How I’m Thinking About YouTube as a Podcaster (and Dad)
MAR 5, 2026
ENCORE: How I’m Thinking About YouTube as a Podcaster (and Dad)
Since the beginning of this podcast in 2015, I’ve thought a lot about how I can use YouTube to maximize the impact of STC. I’ve pondered many questions about the sustainability of this endeavor and whether I should be creating separate content on YouTube or simply repurposing these podcast episodes on YouTube.As a result of coaching, taking courses, and obsessively (nerdily) studying YouTube, I have decided to finally leap into YouTube in 2024. In today’s session, I’ll share what went into this decision for me and what you should consider as a current or aspiring therapist podcaster. You’ll Learn:How our fears are usually rooted in some sort of trauma or feeling unseen or unheardTop considerations for me in starting out on YouTube:YouTube is intentionally appealing to podcasters and is becoming an ever more popular podcast platform.Putting a video editing team in place makes the jump to YouTube much easier.YouTube (owned by Google) is very beneficial for discoverability and SEO.I plan to use the best of both playlists (podcasts, YouTube) and feed platforms (Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn).I plan to use “Walden months” to prioritize self-care and big projects. (My inspiration is the commitment to be a fully present family man and what I learned from Tim Ferris’ 2020 blog, 11 Reasons Not To Become Famous.)How I plan to keep you updated and document my YouTube journey in the weekly STC Newsletter Why I’m grateful for the support of STC listeners on this new path that has me feeling vulnerable, nervous, and fearful--Want to launch your online course or YouTube channel?Save your spot for our free live webinar: The Calm YouTube Flywheel here!Or check out our new membership site! Find out more and get on the Haven Waitlist here.
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