With the holiday season comes more awkward conversations with family, so we're bringing you an encore episode of our first ever call-in show where you, dear listeners, share with us how you're talking gender, race, politics, and more with your parents, aunties, in-laws, step-siblings, nephews, and more. And guess what: it's really hard! And messy! And you're not alone! We also got our homie Gene Demby of NPR's Code Switch on the line to talk through the now-public email exchange between Margaret Cho and Tilda Swinton about whitewashed Hollywood roles. It's a vintage beef that highlights the ever-relevant question: when will white folks stop making people of color do undue emotional labor?<br><br>And come to our Kwanzaa Spectacular live at the Bell House at 8pm on December 8th - get your tickets <a href="https://www.ticketfly.com/purchase/event/1590786?_ga=2.159797437.185634139.1511911676-1686260377.1509984018&__utma=1.1536657533.1509984018.1511258170.1511911675.6&__utmb=1.1.10.1511911675&__utmc=1&__utmx=-&__utmz=1.1511911675.6.2.utmcsr=google|utmccn=(organic)|utmcmd=organic|utmctr=(not%20provided)&__utmv=-&__utmk=34304033">here</a>. <br><br>Email us: [email protected] <br>Follow us: @heavenrants and @brokeymcpoverty <br>Follow Gene Demby at @geedee215 and @nprcodeswitch <br>Sign up for our newsletter at buzzfeed.com/anotherround/newsletter <br>Check out our merch! shop.buzzfeed.com<br><br>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a>
