these people are operating in grey areas. obviously, i dont know if oliver tree is alive. but if he is, i get the impression it would be 2 to 6 months before this person would reach out physically. that would be a year from the time of the first invite to

these people are operating in grey areas. obviously, i dont know if oliver tree is alive. but if he is, i get the impression it would be 2 to 6 months before this person would reach out physically. that would be a year from the time of the first invite to when they reach out in person.  so i am not sure about you, but i am not sure about a situation where someone invites you somewhere then waits a year before they schedule the in person part.  so, life doesnt work like that.