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ADHd20
Alison Kendrick and Matthew Bivins
Demandatory
AUG 20, 202648 MIN
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Description
Why can we genuinely want to prep a game, level up a character, tackle a project, or keep up with a hobby—then feel that desire evaporate the second it becomes an obligation?
Turns out, there's a name for that feeling: demand avoidance. What happens when a want to becomes a have to? How can we meet that resistance instead of letting it spiral into shame and shutdown?
We’d tell you what to do about it, but that sounds suspiciously like a demand.
💬 Bring your “but I WANTED to do it” grievances to Discord: https://discord.gg/B2NFAhYDbA
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