307. Your Toughest Relationship Questions Answered (Part II)

OCT 15, 202667 MIN

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Send us Fan Mail You get in the car after lunch with a friend and realize they never asked you a single question. Not one. You know about their job, their kids, their mother-in-law, all of it. By the time you walk in your front door, you’re not that interested in doing lunch again anytime soon. And you never said anything. Join Anna and Tim as they pick back up on the relationship questions Anna has been asked for decades, this time digging into resentment and what to do with it before it starts coming out in your tone and your texts. Anna gets honest about a friendship that turned into a monologue for more than a year, and Tim gets called out, in front of everybody, for holding things in because he’s worried about how the other person will feel. From the lunchroom to the leadership seat, it’s a real look at the hard conversations most of us keep putting off. This Episode Covers: Why “it’s not that big of a deal” keeps you quiet until it is one. The mind reading that kicks in when you decide they should already know. What happens when you finally speak up after a year, and they get mad back. Saying “don’t worry about it” when you mean the exact opposite. How worrying about the other person’s feelings can hold you back. The difference between never speaking up and speaking up and getting dismissed. What Anna writes down before walking into a hard conversation. How leaders teach people whether it’s safe to bring them bad news. Until next time, here's to deeper connections and personal growth. Mad love! Book a Discovery Call for Coaching/Therapy: https://calendly.com/badassconfidencecoach/coaching The podcast is now on YouTube! If you prefer to watch, head over to https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw3CabcJueib20U_L3WeaR-lNG_B3zYqu Don’t forget to subscribe to the Badass Confidence Coach podcast on your favorite podcast platform! CONNECT WITH ANNA: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/askannamarcolin/ TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/tag/askannamarcolin Email [email protected] Website https://www.annamarcolin.com