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BarhamTalks
Theos Gracious Barham
EP 51: BarhamTalks — “I’m Fine” | The Most Common Lie We Tell
AUG 31, 20269 MIN
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Description
“I’m fine.”
Two words we say almost automatically. But what if they’re not always the truth?
In this episode of BarhamTalks, we unpack what hides behind those two words—the pressure to appear strong, the fear of becoming a burden, the exhaustion of explaining what we feel, and the moments when we simply don’t have the words.
Sometimes “I’m fine” means I’m okay.
Sometimes it means I’m not ready to talk.
And sometimes it means I really need someone to notice that I’m not.
This episode is about vulnerability, silence, emotional walls, and the kind of people we need around us—people we don’t have to pretend with.
Because perhaps the real question isn’t just “Why do we say we’re fine?”
It’s:
“Have we created a space where people feel safe enough to say they’re not?”
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