Ep. 410: Instructing Versus Coaching, feat. Hillary VanOrnum

This week, we're joined by Hillary VanOrnum! Hillary is a third-degree black belt who runs Unicorn Jiu Jitsu in Portland, Oregon with her husband, and she just won her first Masters World Championship at black belt. In this episode, Hillary explains the difference between instructing and coaching, and how she uses questions to help students work out answers for themselves. Topics include: relating jiu-jitsu to sports students already know, building on each student's favorite techniques, letting go of control as a gym owner, turning Instagram clips into homework, and coaching students who only train twice a week. Train at Unicorn Jiu Jitsu in Portland, OR: https://unicornjiujitsu.com Get private lessons, online coaching, or coach mentorship with Hillary: https://unicornjiujitsu.com/page/PrivateLessons Follow Hillary on Instagram: https://instagram.com/unicorn_jiujitsu Follow Unicorn Jiu Jitsu on Instagram: https://instagram.com/unicornjiujitsupdx Follow the Gathering of the Unicorns women's camp on Instagram: https://instagram.com/gathering_of_the_unicorns Mental models discussed in this episode: Transfer of Learning https://bjjmentalmodels.com/transfer-of-learning Tokui Waza https://bjjmentalmodels.com/tokui-waza Growth from Discomfort https://bjjmentalmodels.com/growth-from-discomfort Constraints-Led Approach https://bjjmentalmodels.com/constraints-led-approach Feedback Loop https://bjjmentalmodels.com/feedback-loop Effortful Retrieval https://bjjmentalmodels.com/effortful-retrieval Psychological Safety https://bjjmentalmodels.com/psychological-safety ⬆️ LEVEL UP with BJJ Mental Models Premium! The world's LARGEST library of jiu-jitsu audio lessons, our complete podcast network, online coaching, and much more! Your first week is free: https://bjjmentalmodels.com Need more BJJ Mental Models? Get the legendary BJJMM newsletter: https://bjjmentalmodels.com/newsletter Learn more mental models in our online database: https://bjjmentalmodels.com/database Follow us on social: https://instagram.com/bjjmentalmodels https://threads.com/@bjjmentalmodels https://bjjmentalmodels.bsky.social https://youtube.com/@bjjmentalmodels Music by Enterprize: https://enterprize.bandcamp.com