/https://kerrymcavoyphd.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/igt4bmhu45618wxmbwax5ralrotn-1.jpg)
Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse
Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.
They Didn’t Miss You, They Ran Out of Money: How Hoovering Actually Works
OCT 1, 202622 MIN
/https://kerrymcavoyphd.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/10/Viewers-Stories-Square-Cover-Art.png)
Description
Future faking hoovering isn't a change of heart. It's a second round of grooming, aimed at exactly what the first round wanted. In this highlight from Kerry's weekly live Q&A, she takes on what's actually happening when someone shows up with flowers, apologies and a raked pile of leaves after months of silence — and why the answer has almost nothing to do with you. In this episode: • Why not being hoovered is a read on what you had left to give • Hoovering is a role vacancy, not a longi...
The post They Didn’t Miss You, They Ran Out of Money: How Hoovering Actually Works appeared first on Kerry McAvoy, PhD.

