Deeper Experiences with God

What does it mean to fully stop and rest, and be with God? Pastor Dave is back after his summer sabbatical to share his experience on Deeper Experiences with God season 2! And in this returning episode, we flip the script and producer, Casey Cheshire, interviews Dave about his time of rest and renewal – from his adventures with his family in Alaska, to how it felt to part with and then return to his screen devices, and what God revealed to him along the way. Takeaways: What is sabbatical? Dave describes sabbatical as an intentional season to step away from the weight of daily work so your soul can catch up to your body. Drawing on the image of an archery bow breaking that is always bent and farmland that needs to lie fallow to bear a fuller harvest, he frames it not as a luxury but as preventative care – a chance to let God be God and find genuine restoration.Action: What might it look like for you to place yourself in the path of oncoming beauty? Even if a full sabbatical isn’t possible, consider what a small, intentional stopping might look like in your current season — a day, a weekend, or even an afternoon to simply rest and be with God. Planning for Sabbatical: Nearly two years in the making, Dave shares how this question from the Lilly Grant Foundation shaped the entire vision for his time away: “What fills your soul?” He also reflects on the concept of rewilding; returning something to its undomesticated, natural state, and how he longed for that same freedom in his own walk with God.Action: If you were to plan a season of intentional rest, what would genuinely restore you? And what might be standing in the way? Take a few minutes to sit with those questions and consider whether there’s one step you could take toward making it a reality, however small. Ripper Family trip to Alaska: From hiking in the vast, untamed wilderness of Denali to an unforgettable boat ride that ended in an overwhelming encounter with glaciers, whales, sea lions, and soaring eagles, Dave shares how the sheer beauty of Alaska cracked him open in unexpected ways — including shutting his phone off for two full months and watching his kids come alive as a result.Action: Where might you encounter the beauty of God’s creation this week? Take Psalm 90:12 with you: “Teach us to number our days, O Lord, so that we might gain a heart of wisdom”. Ask God what this particular season of your life is for. Returning from Sabbatical: Coming back meant turning the phone on again — and discovering just how fragmented and noisy the digital world had become in contrast to two months of stillness. Dave shares how the sabbatical gave him fresh eyes for his community, a deeper gratitude for his calling, and renewed rhythms to carry forward — including guarding the Sabbath, limiting social media, and winning the morning with God, movement, and family.Action: Is there one rhythm from this episode that you sense God inviting you to try — whether that’s a technology fast, a Sabbath practice, or simply carving out unhurried time in scripture? Take one small step toward it this week. Quote of the Show: “ Change of Pace, plus change of Place, brings a change of Perspective.” - Pastor Dave Ripper Links: Website: https://www.daveripper.com/about Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/crosswaycc_/?hl=en Music licensed through Soundstripe. Code: FRDYHPS1YYOLPYDC

What if the most important thing you could do for your child has nothing to do with performance and everything to do with presence? In this episode, Dave is joined by Dr. David Goodman, OBGYN physician, surgeon, professor, and creator of Base Camp 322 — a free formation course designed to help fathers intentionally raise sons who know they are deeply loved. Drawing from his medical career, his family's experience with chronic illness, and his study of spiritual formation, David shares how he has learned to integrate faith into everyday life and what it practically looks like to raise boys in today’s current climate with a secure, beloved identity in God. Takeaways: Integrating Faith and Work: David shares how he has woven simple rhythms of prayer and presence into the ordinary moments of a high-stress medical career — including a practice of riding the elevator that transforms a mundane commute into a moment of connection with God.Action: Try the practice of riding the elevator — going up, lift your eyes to God; going down, turn inward in self-examination. Or develop some other natural rhythm in your daily place of work where you redirect your heart toward God. Stalk the Beast: Before a father can lead his family well, David argues he must first honestly confront what's lurking in his own shadow side — the performance-driven identities and unexamined wounds that quietly shape how he parents. Inviting Jesus into our messiest places, rather than avoiding him there, is the only real starting point.Action: What is the beast you've been avoiding? Take one step (David recommends the enneagram as a tool) to bring it to God and perhaps a trusted friend, rather than managing it alone. Set Up Camp: From a family mission statement on the wall to the meaningful "base camp trip" he takes with each son at age eight, David invites fathers to build a similar intentional framework for their family through four Ms: mission, messages, moments, and milestones.Action: Take a moment to consider what is the unspoken message your kids are actually receiving at home. Not what you say, but what they observe. Stoke the Fire: Drawing on attachment research, David makes the case that what matters most in a child's pre-adolescent years, more than academics or athletics, is attachment. Deeply loved children are the ones with the courage to go out and live into their calling.Action: Find one intentional moment this week to tell your child, or a child in your life, that they are loved, that you're proud of them, and that they bring you joy. Notice what happens. Quote of the Show: “ I think so many men walk around with this expectation that they must perform rather than be formed, and that it's better to be admired than it is to really be known.” - David Goodman Links: Website: https://www.basecamp322.com/ Email: [email protected]

Have you ever felt like you're in a season of life that's exceptionally wearisome? On this week’s episode Pastor Dave speaks with author, speaker and spiritual director, Becky L McCoy about her newly released book, In the Company of the Weary: 10 Gentle Spiritual Practices for your Tired Soul. Drawing from her own experiences of profound grief and faith burnout, Becky invites listeners to exchange outcome-driven spiritual performance for process-oriented, embodied connection with God — one gentle practice at a time. Takeaways: Visio Divina — seeing with the eyes of the soul. Becky introduces Visio Divina, the visual counterpart to Lectio Divina, as a practice of paying attention to what catches your eye (a piece of art, a landscape, or even just people-watching) and asking yourself what you notice, what you feel, and what God might be revealing through it. For Becky, it was this practice that unlocked curiosity as the posture at the heart of all spiritual formation.Action: Find a painting, a view, or something in your surroundings that catches your attention this week. Sit with it for a few minutes and ask: What am I noticing? What am I feeling? What might God be saying to me through this? The underrated gift of silence. In a world, and oftentimes a church culture, that fills every quiet moment with noise, Becky shares how learning to sit in silence transformed her relationship with God. Silence isn't about emptying your mind; it's about becoming more present and attuned to what's already going on in there.Action: Try one small experiment with silence this week — even five minutes in the car without a podcast or music. Notice what surfaces, and bring it to God. Finding a gentler way to stay connected in a hard season. Both Dave and Becky acknowledge the reality of people “going dark,” or withdrawing from community during seasons of deep pain. Becky offers a compassionate reframe: rather than pushing through in the same ways, consider finding gentler, lower-capacity ways to stay connected — whether that's holding babies in the nursery or simply showing up and going through the motions, which is more spiritually significant than we might think.Action: If you've been tempted to go dark, ask yourself: is there one small, low-pressure way I could stay even slightly connected to community this week? If you know someone who has gone quiet, consider reaching out with a simple, no-pressure acknowledgement. Acknowledging single women in the church. Becky speaks honestly about how single women — whether never married, divorced, or widowed — often fall through the cracks of church structures designed around couples and families. She encourages these women to get honest with themselves and trusted leaders about their capacity, and to examine how much of what they do is driven by obligation rather than genuine calling.Action: If this is you, take some time to honestly examine your current commitments. Which of them bring life, and which feel like obligation? Bring that question to God — and perhaps a trusted friend or your community. And if you know of single women in your church or community who serve, think of some gentle ways to appreciate and acknowledge them this week. Quotes of the Show: “ When we talk about spiritual formation, when it lines up with the heart of God, it is very process-oriented and not outcome-oriented.” - Becky L McCoy “ There are so many ways to connect with God that honor your human limitations.” - Becky L McCoy “ Curiosity should be at the base of all of our spiritual practices” - Becky L McCoy Links: “Rooms by the Sea” (Visio Divina): https://artgallery.yale.edu/collections/objects/52939 Website: https://beckylmccoy.com/ Book Link: https://beckylmccoy.com/book/ Podcast: https://beckylmccoy.com/suckerpunched/

Have you ever wondered what might be missing from your personal and the church’s corporate discipleship model? On this week’s episode with Pastor Dave, he reflects on gaps in modern discipleship, drawing from early church formation and his own pastoral experience. Contrasting his long-held model of askesis (training through spiritual disciplines of engagement and abstinence) leading to agape (Christ-like love) with the early church’s pattern of askesis leading to apatheia (abiding calm through surrendered relinquishment) and then to agape, he invites listeners to practices like unhurried walking to cultivate slowing down. He also outlines six stages of faith, based on Pete Scazzaro's model in his book, "Emotionally Healthy Spirituality", arguing many churches lack a plan to guide people through the second half of this journey. Finally, he emphasizes patience as a neglected virtue in our instant-gratification culture. He invites listeners to reflect on where you are in your own discipleship journeys and where might God be challenging you to step into the gap. Takeaways: Rediscovering Apatheia. Dave introduces a missing step in modern discipleship: apatheia — not apathy, but an abiding inner calm that comes through surrendering our anxieties and cares to God. He draws on the early church's formation model and practices like unhurried walking as a way to cultivate this quality of stillness.Action: What is one care or anxiety you might cast upon the Lord this week, trusting that he cares for you more than you can imagine? Try going for a prayer walk as a step towards surrendering. A plan for the second half of the spiritual journey. Drawing on six stages of faith — awareness, learning, ministry/productive life, inward journey, outward journey, and being pervaded with love — Dave argues that many churches have a strong plan for the first half of the journey but leave people without a map for the deeper, inward stages.Action: Which of the six stages are you in right now? Sit with that question and consider whether your current rhythms are serving where God has you in this season. We often resist the hardest what we need the most. Dave challenges listeners that if you feel resistant to where the Spirit might be nudging you, that resistance itself might be worth paying attention to. What might you be resisting in your life right now? Action: Take space to sit with this question this week. Consider journaling, praying, or discussing it with a trusted friend or spiritual director. The forgotten virtue of Patience. In a culture wired for instant results, Dave calls patience a deeply counter-cultural and undervalued spiritual virtue — one that God often uses quietly and slowly to form us into the people he intends us to be. Action: Where in your life is God asking you to be patient right now? Choose one area this week to intentionally slow down and trust his timing rather than forcing an outcome. Quote of the Show: “ We often resist the hardest the thing we need the most.” - Pastor Dave Links: Website: https://www.daveripper.com/ Book Link: https://www.ivpress.com/experiencing-scripture-as-a-disciple-of-jesus?srsltid=ARcRdnozSLwlOR3rXlh5Rp4R0kSzNB2t_cI8-pmHSl_L4L2j8VYEOANk Podcast: https://www.daveripper.com/podcast

What if where you are right now is exactly where God wants you? On this week’s solo episode with Pastor Dave, he reflects on a powerful quote shared by renowned pastor Alistair Begg: "There's no ideal place to serve God except the place he sets you down." In a culture obsessed with chasing the next opportunity, the next city, or the next season of life, Dave invites us to slow down and consider that God's providence may already have us exactly where we need to be — for such a time as this. Takeaways: Kairos over chronos. Drawing on Ephesians 5:15–16, Dave unpacks two Greek words for time: chronos — the ordinary, clock-ticking passage of time — and kairos — the opportune, pregnant moment poised for something powerful to occur. He asks: what if now is that kairos moment for you?Action: Take some time this week to meditate on this question for your current season of life. The wisdom of staying. Rooted in the tradition of the Desert Fathers and Mothers, Dave explores how staying put — resisting the urge to uproot and replant — is often where the deepest growth and self-awareness are forged.Action: What areas of your life are you tempted to want to leave rather than stay? Why do you think that is? What does this reveal about where your heart and walk with God is right now? Co-creating with God. Ephesians 2 reminds us we are God's workmanship, created for good works. Dave challenges us to imagine what God might do through us if we patiently and creatively followed his lead, year after year, right where we stand.Action: Take a walk somewhere that reminds you of God's creative hand this week and meditate on what it means to be God's workmanship. How might that shape the way you approach the harder parts of your current season? Quote of the Show: “ What if for a moment we gave God the benefit of believing His hand is leading us?” - Pastor Dave Links: Website: https://www.daveripper.com/ Book Link: https://www.ivpress.com/experiencing-scripture-as-a-disciple-of-jesus?srsltid=ARcRdnozSLwlOR3rXlh5Rp4R0kSzNB2t_cI8-pmHSl_L4L2j8VYEOANk Podcast: https://www.daveripper.com/podcast