Dire Straights

Tracy Clark-Flory & Amanda Montei

Feminist dating strategies

AUG 26, 202657 MIN

Description

Welcome to part two of our look at the dire state of dating apps. In the last episode, Amanda reported back on her own experiences this summer exploring online dating for the first time since her divorce. Now, we’re considering common red flags—from gym selfies to men who advertise their height to dudes looking for “women who take care of themselves.” We also debate popular strategies for navigating the apps as a woman, whether you’re interested solely in sex or you’re seeking a long-term relationship. Just a few topics we touch on: * Tracy’s existential crisis over dick pics * “Apolitical” and “moderate” men * Men who hide behind “love languages” * The widening gender divide * The “Burned Haystack” method * Female Dating Strategy * Whisper networks * Quitting the apps * Decentering men * Ways to meet people IRL This episode is free, but our paid subscribers make this podcast possible. Upgrade now at direstraightspod.com so you can get all of our episodes without any paywalls. You’ll also help support independent feminist media in a time of… total media collapse. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.direstraightspod.com/subscribe