Attention is Not Love

Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast.   I know I’ve spoken before in one of my previous episodes (I believe it was #76) about the difference between Attention and Affection but today I want to delve further into how easy it is to mistake Attention for Love (which is something I’ve done myself). I think as human beings (both men and women), having someone give you their attention can be one the best feelings in the world.  When it becomes problematic is when the emphasis is SO high on that one component that we find ourselves settling on other behaviors within the relationship.