Are You Chasing the Wrong Dream? How to Know What You REALLY Want

Are you chasing a bigger, more successful life because it's what you REALLY want, or because it's what you think you're supposed to want? In this throwback He Said She Said episode, Chris and I are pulling back the curtain on the conversations we've had about selling everything, retiring early, and walking away from the pressure of building businesses and personal brands. We're sharing why we've realized that a simpler life isn't necessarily a happier life for us, how I spent years feeling guilty for wanting more, and the surprising realization I had after taking a month-long vacation in Europe. Plus, Chris shares a powerful exercise to help you get crystal clear on what you actually want, whether that's building a multimillion-dollar business or creating a slower, simpler life. If you've ever questioned whether all your hard work is worth it, felt guilty about your ambition, or wondered if you're chasing the wrong version of success, this conversation will help you stop comparing your dreams to everyone else's and start building a life that genuinely fulfills YOU. Check out our Sponsors: Shopify - Ready to launch your business before Black Friday? Go to http://SHOPIFY.COM/happy to start your free trial. Monarch - Monarch breaks the debt cycle, turn endless gloom into a plan with an end date. Use code EYH at http://monarch.com to get your first year of Monarch Core half off at just $50. Northwest - Gain access to thousands of free guides, tools, and attorney-drafted documents to help you run your business with confidence at http://northwestregisteredagent.com/EarnFree Indeed - Spend less time searching, and more time actually interviewing candidates who check all your boxes. Get a $75 Sponsored Job credit at http://indeed.com/podcast right now and let them know you heard about Indeed on this podcast. Life At The Speed Of Play - Mark is offering our listeners TWO books for the price of one! Go tohttp://getmarksbook.com/earn Sequencing - http://Sequencing.com is offering our listeners up to 10% off your full Genome test, plus free shipping. Go to Sequencing Dot com, and use promo code EARN for 10% off. Faire - Sign up today and get 50% off your first wholesale order, up to $100 at faire.com/happy50. HIGHLIGHTS How to recognize when you're chasing someone else's version of success instead of your own. How to know if you're playing small or if a simpler life would actually make you happier. How to stop feeling guilty for wanting MORE out of your life and career. How to pursue your biggest dreams without needing everyone around you to understand them. How to let go of resentment when your friends and family don't share your ambitions. What a month-long vacation taught me about what truly makes me happy and fulfilled. A powerful exercise to get crystal clear on what you REALLY want out of life. How to figure out whether building a bigger business or creating more freedom is the right path for YOU. RESOURCES Learn how to turn podcast guesting into massive sales, ⁠⁠save your spot for the free live training HERE⁠⁠! Make your own ⁠Million Dollar Media Kit HERE! Try glōci for 40% off your first order with code HAPPY at checkout - head to getgloci.com FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow Chris: @chriswharder Follow glōci: @getgloci